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how many of you go out?

Started by lucaluca, March 16, 2011, 03:24:54 PM

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LaPapito

 ;D Hellooo Cindy...I agree, but sometimes, I ghet "THAT" stare...WE are ALL familiar with...especially from kids...with them I polity say, "Didn't your mother teach you not to stare..." or, "Did you know, it's not polite to stare?"

With adults it's quite different...if they are staring long enough, I have a tendency to say very Sarcastically, "Hello, can I help you?" this almost always ghet them folks ;D

Always the polite one I am....but yeah...I'm pretty much confident when I go out and about town....
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Vanora

I've gone out a couple of times by going to movies. My  voice seems to  be the biggest initial challenge for me.
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Genevieve Swann

I go almost anywhere I feel safe while dressed. As Cindi mentioned there are predators out there. I try to stay in public places and hopefully with a friend. Safety in numbers.

Kristyn74

Only when i go interstate...then no one knows...small town syndrome for me.
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AmberM

I have only dressed in the privacy of my own home. Someday I want to go out into the world as Amber for the first time with my beloved fiance.
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Natashka

When I been in Russia I go out 2 times per week, it was my life style.... Dressing and stay home is not interesting for me.....
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Brooke777

I hope no one minds, but this is not about my first time out..as it has not happened yet.  I have read through all of the posts, and it seems that many people choose to go out alone, and in areas without people.  I have worked in Federal Law Enforcement, and the idea of anyone going to a secluded area alone scares me.  There are horrible people out there, and they will do unspeakable things.  I would like to advice that you try to stay in areas where there are a lot more people.  I know I cant yet know how difficult it is to go into a crowded area when you feel so vulnerable, but I would absolutely hate to learn that anyone hear was hurt.  Just my two cents. 
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RAY


I will say you're all brave whether dressing at home or going outside cross-dressed! :D Never let others make you feel shame or embarrassment you are all beautiful both inside and outside! 
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Eva Marie

I'm bigender and my girl mode was absolutely jonesing to go out en femme - getting dressed at home was not cutting it anymore. So one saturday night I put on capris, a nice top, and some 4 inch heels and drove down to a very busy gay bar and met some bigender friends. We ate there and then wondered over to a regular bar for after dinner drinks. Lots of walking in those heels and my feet paid the price afterward  :D

I was absolutely petrified with fear. I had to make a two block walk from where i parked to the first bar, wobbling in my heels, right past a sidewalk cafe with lots of people sitting there (I almost chickened out at this point) but in for a dime, in for a dollar so I gave myself a little pep talk and made that walk. Nobody even looked at me.

After the first hour in the bar realized that NOBODY had given me a second glance - nobody. I was sure that something would give me away and if something did people sure didn't show it - or i passed well enough not to raise eyebrows. This provided much needed validation of my girl mode. My friends had never seen me in girl mode and they told me that i passed better as a girl than as a guy  :D

After I realized that i was not the object of everyone's ridicule I was able to relax and enjoy the evening. It was FUN!!!
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Veronica Morph

I already posted many experiences on my outings but this time i would like to actually talk not about the details of what i did but the conclusionas that as of today i came up and at every experience i have a new lesson to learn,

As provided above in an earlier post in this thread, most of us starts by going out to lonely places, prhaps is not safe or maybe it is you see by yourself, i started the same way i lost the count of how many times i did that, but everything has a reason, first i felt i was safe from the sight of others, also i wanted to feel the floor with my shoes and see if i actually can walk at least 100yards and not fall, then i wanted to see my sihuete in the reflection of any window or something that can reflect my image. then i wanted to feel i went out.
then i felt it was not exciting anymore but actually stressing,
i analized the situation i needed to jump to the next stage, so i went for the public area, but i selected the night time late hours actually, i ran itno people and everybody noticed me, and knew i was a guy, i realized that i needed to improve my look on all aspects but how?
so in 3 years i did understand to make a good and proportionate body shape, understood my age and my look that will go with me, learn how to make up and the tones i needed, for that i needed and used the help of profesionals, i went to a photo studio and they did all this sugestions and improvement in me.

now going out is a joy, is not always perfect, i sometimes make people keep staring but is actually because im too tall for the city i live and i love to wear miniskirts over fishnets, and 4inchers pumps, so i know how to make people stare to that way rather to the shadow of my beard.

i now realize that going to crwoded places is better than not crowded places, incredible or not, you dont atract much atention and when you do you pass, and you enjoy.

I did outings in daylight at the cowded places i still feel very shy, and i had to abort many times the outing cause of nerves and decide to go late afternoon instead, so what is making you go out is to feel you can do anyhting in this life, and no limits, you feel in the top and you feel you are more darin than the rest of the planet. so everytime you go ot you beat and you conquest something and enjoy your best hobby and therapy.
Veronica Morph
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gennee

I go out quite a bit. I go out with friends or by myself.

:)
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PinkPenny

I go out all the time. Clubs, Shopping etc. Once I tried for the first time I felt like a women.
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latingrl

Since I live in LA not far from Hollywood, I go out often shopping, getting my nails done, the usual girl type stuff, the Hollywood area has decent amount of clubs to go out.
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barbie

Quote from: gennee on May 30, 2012, 12:10:14 PM
I go out quite a bit. I go out with friends or by myself.

:)

Me, too.

Last week I visited another city and stayed at a hotel for 3 nights. I checked in while dressing a juniors' skirt with flower pattern and a black stilletto heel. My colleagues made reservation using my male name. And my manly voice... But the cashier in the front desk did not pay special attention to me. I thought he is an able employee. In the street, my height alone attracts attention of people, especially middle-aged women.

This summer, I am going to work together with two graduate school students, one is for MSc and the other for Ph.D. They are 20 years young than me, and  have seen me wear skirts and heels. At the campus, I dicussed something with them while wearing the skirt and heel. No problem, at least superficially. Another male student asked me whether it is very uncomfortable to wear high heels, and I replied "Sure. It is. But for beauty, I should put up with it.".

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JediFlem

I go out as much as i can. I wear Girl pants tops and have blue convers with big sunglasses and a cute hat with my lipgloss :) im not SUPER feminine but ive been mistaken for a girl often enough for it to work.
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Samantha403

In the past, I made little trips dressed to gas stations, convenience stores, etc. and am at the point that I'm more or less at ease in public. It took a while to get to that point; when I was younger, I ventured into a shopping mall during the day, and got questioned by a couple of security guards as to what I was doing there. Small wonder, as I was wearing a white satin translucent blouse, black miniskirt, dotted black nylons and baby pink 5 inch stilettos and garish makeup, and a tacky blonde wig.  Although at the time, I thought I looked sexy!

This past weekend, I went out with my wife. I packed Samantha's suitcase and we drove to another city and rented a nice motel room. After resting for a bit, I showered and selected my lingerie. I then dressed in a nice cream colored clingy, shirred V neck blouse with an above the knee black satin skirt that fit snug, but not too tight. My wife suggested the dark pink bra I chose didn't work well because of the lace decoration at the top of the cups; it didn't create a smooth look with the blouse, so I changed to a light pink smooth cup bra. A matching thong and sheer black stay ups completed the dressing, except for the addition of my favorite black kidskin Italian 4.5 inch stilettos. These shoes are so comfortable and easy to walk in, and I love how elegant they look.

After doing my makeup and brushing my wig, I put on some 2 inch hoop earrings and a gold necklace, applied a few spritzes of perfume around my neck and the back of my legs. I put on my coat, grabbed my purse and away we went. My wife drove to a large movie theater and parked in the parking lot some distance away from the theater. She walked a little ways ahead of me to buy the tickets for the show, while I waited in the car for a few minutes. I checked my makeup in the lighted visor mirror, and thought I actually looked pretty good. I started out swinging my hips a little and enjoying the click of my heels on the pavement. 

As I walked up to the entrance two security guards were standing out front, talking. One glanced my way momentarily and continued talking to his partner. So far, so good. I pulled my shoulders back to push my breasts out a little more and walked over to where my wife was waiting in the lobby with the tickets, and fortunately we didn't have any line to stand in for the ticket taker. The theater corridor area was a shiny, hard linoleum, and my heels sort of slid around a little on it, but nothing too bad. A few people glanced my way as we made our way to the theater entrance, but nobody looked shocked or bemused. I just smiled slightly at no one in particular and continued on my way.

When we entered the theater, I was shocked how big a room it was. My wife started climbing a flight of stairs to go to some higher seating, and I followed along sashaying up the stairs. Some men already seated appeared to be looking admirably at me as I walked past going up the stairs. About 8 steps short of where my wife had chosen the seats, my left pump caught on something and came off mid step. Feeling embarrassed, I back tracked down a couple of steps and crouched down, picked up my shoe, put a sheepish smile on my lips and quickly climbed the steps to where my wife was seated, wearing one pump. When I sat down I quickly slid my pump back on my foot, crossed my legs and folded my hands on my lap and holding my purse not believing what just happened.  The lights started dimming, the previews started, and I reclined back slightly so my knees weren't sitting so high trying to get more comfortable. After a few minutes a young couple walked right up beside us and the guy sat down next to me. I was really nervous at first and I could see he was stealing glances at my legs and shoes when the screen was lighter during some of the scenes. But then I thought to myself  "If I was sitting next to someone with sheer nylons and sexy pumps, I'd be checking too."  After a short while he didn't pay me any more attention that I was aware of. Because of their close presence, I didn't say much to my wife during the whole movie above a whisper.

When the movie ended, I wanted to wait until the room cleared somewhat before climbing down the stairs, but me wife told me that the best way to fit in is to leave with the crowd. I made my way safely down the steps and felt both exhilarated and nervous at the same time. Back in the lobby, a few men standing around smiled appreciatively as I walked past; I felt very sexy.  The night air felt good on my legs as I went outside and clicked across the parking lot. I drove back to the motel; after parking I slid out and pulled my skirt down as my lace stocking tops were showing a little. My wife and I then had a few drinks and we had a very relaxed, amorous night.

The next morning she suggested I should get dressed and go pick up some breakfast for us.  I would have loved to, but I didn't have enough time to make myself look presentable in public before we had to check out of the motel. With regret, I packed up my things for the drive home. I can hardly wait for our next outing.
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barbie

Quote from: Samantha403 on June 13, 2012, 12:50:31 AM
Small wonder, as I was wearing a white satin translucent blouse, black miniskirt, dotted black nylons and baby pink 5 inch stilettos and garish makeup, and a tacky blonde wig. 

Hi, welcome.

I especially loves heels. I also have 4 inch stilettos. It can look sexy, but for me, it has been uncomfortable to walk. Last Sunday I wore it outdoors.



This weekend I am going to wear plain 4-inch high heel sandals, which is far easier to wear and walk.

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Suzette

I am a little too thick and chesty to be able to go out in public dressed as a female. I am trying to overcome this, although on one occasion I was dressed in jeans, joggers and t-shirt and visited my mother in hospital I did get a comment from another patient that " Your daughter has arrived".  My mother has also been told on numerous occasions I am her. I still see a man in the mirror but I wonder if I am being too critical of myself? I think you who venture out in public are amazing and I salute you all.
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beingkm26

Going out as female is always so exciting.  The opportunities are few and the adventure is enjoyed.  Most times I go by myself at night and find a safe place to window shop or go to a movie.  A GG friend has gone with me a few times but only for walks.  We often just stay in for a girls night of talk, movies and looking a fashion magazines.  I'm actually more girly than she is so I help her with make-up, false eylashes and clothes style.
Luv,

Karla
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barbie

Quote from: Suzette on June 14, 2012, 06:12:41 PM
I still see a man in the mirror but I wonder if I am being too critical of myself?

In my case, passibility does not matter so much. Whether I pass or not, I pursue beauty together with social relationships. Of course, I enter women's restroom when I think I apparently look like a woman.

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