there was a point in which the owner is explaining what he doesn't want his kids to find out and he says "they'll find out their father is unfaithful, that he's..." - and the sentence never finishes.
Amanda WAS pre-op because at the end of the ep the lawyer is telling her what a beautiful woman she was and she finished the sentence with "with a penis"
I think the writer here was thinking too hard about it - it wasn't ear-shaking stuff but it also wasn't insulting or cartoonish or any of that and therefore, i think it was good work.