BIG PROBLEM

[Stephe]

I am afraid of two things: 1) A boy walks in and buys bras, panties and other femme clothing and the receptionist kicks me out

That is NEVER going to happen. You may have some other real fears but this one isn't even in the realm of possibilities. Trust me, thrift store people sell women's clothing to men on a daily basis. I see men looking through the women's clothes every time I am there and no one even gives them a second look.

[wendy]

I shopped for whole bunch of female clothing and bought a nice male tie in mix.  I asked lady at checkout if colors wear nice.  She said oh blouse and pants are a nice match.  I knew that.  I was asking about tie!  She knew I was shopping for me and I was asking about shopping for him.

Another time I went to try out female clothing in "men's" closet.  Female said, "Do you know those are female clothes?"  I said yes.  She said O.K. and then helped me buy nice clothes that fit.

Occasional female is jerk but very few.  Make a game out of it.  My guess is that no female will give you a problem.  I still have a problem and I am close to passing if I try.  I feel like apologizing for how I feel.