Fifteen years ago, I changed my whole name--first, middle, and last.
About a year ago, I looked up my current name on Intelius and a few other such sites. One of them listed my birth name as one of my relatives. I was cool with that. The other thing that I thought was kind of nice was that I had the same last name as the people who owned the mailbox business where I received my mail--so they're listed as my relatives, whereas my own family is nowhere to be seen. I was happy with any development that didn't connect me with my family or that confused matters by treating my current name and birth name as two separate people.
I guess my past is finally catching up with me; now things have changed a bit. I see that a couple of these sites have my birth name listed as an alias or a possible alias. Intelius doesn't do this, but when I look up my birth name, by current name is listed as an alias. I figure that it's only a matter of time before the opposite is true--that when I look up my current name on Intelius, my birth name will be listed as an alias, just as it is on some of the other sites.
Obviously, I'm not particularly happy about this. I was thinking that I could fly under the radar with these sites/businesses forever. I suppose it's unlikely that anyone hostile to me will see the record and scream, "Transsexual!!!" But you never know, and I want my information to stay as private as possible.
So I'm wondering...have any of you noticed that your old name is listed as an alias on these sites? If so, have you ever bought the full record to find out what it says? I don't know what information is held in the records that you have to pay for. I mean, I know it won't be flagged "sex change" or anything like that, but what information IS there about these aliases and possible aliases?