Tink, you make very good sense. We all have our little personal problems and it is something that we learn. I'm so glad you can talk with your mom about all of this. Like you said Steph has Gill and I have my wife and she has been a doll. I have learned a lot over the years, watching and learning and especially raising a girl and hearing what my wife has talked with our daughter. All that listening that I did and makeing sure that I put that in my memory has been a God send. All the stuff that I read while growing up about women and womens problems I took to heart. That was who I was and at that time couldn't be, but could through imagination. I remember the first time I went pee, the nurse was in there and she started to talk about wiping and I finished what she was going to say and she said you have been practicing. Well, no physical practice, but in my mind I knew. It hurt that day, but it was a hurt that I wanted. I cried in the bathroom and the nurse thought there was something wrong and I told her no, just happy.
Sheila