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Started by Stephanie, April 28, 2011, 06:15:20 PM

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Stephanie

Sara who is dating Joseph describes her typical day.

06:00am:  Sara awakes and immediately thinks of Joseph.   

06.30am: While eating breakfast Sara wonders if she should call Joseph and wish him good luck for his big presentation later that morning.

06.45am: Sara getting dressed after her shower decides to use a bodyspray that she knows Joseph loves.

08.15am:  While driving to work Sara hears on the radio that song by that group that she and Joseph love.   As Joseph's birthday is coming up she wonders if Joseph would like the group's latest CD as a present.

08.55am: Sara arrives at work and mentally wishes Joseph 'good luck' as his presentation is about to start.

09.30am: Sara is at her desk doing her job but her mind is never far away from Joseph.   Right now, thinks Sara, Joseph will be well into his important presentation.

10.00am: Sara has a coffee break and her friend Allison comes over to her desk and talks to her about her latest skiing trip.   Sara makes a mental note to find out more about this ski resort because she thinks that she and Joseph might go there on a long weekend together.

10.15am:  Sara is aware that Joseph's presentation will be now over.   She wonders if she should call him.   She calls him and she finds him a little distant and distracted.  He didn't seem very enthusiastic about going on holiday together.    Sara wonders if he really loves her but, puts his unloving manner on the phone down to him being tired after his presentation.

12.30pm: Sara calls Joseph during her lunch hour and while Joseph's mood is better she detects a certain annoyance with her in his voice.   She talks to her friend Allison about this and the two women puzzle over Joseph's behaviour.

2.00pm: Sara is still puzzling over Joseph's 'pulling-away' from her.

2.30pm: Sara cries in the Ladies' toilet.   Allison is there for her and helps dry Sara's eyes.   Allison thinks that Joseph is a creep for making Sara feel like this.

3:00pm: Sara is feeling better.   The work day will soon be over and she has decided to cook Joseph his favourite dinner with his favourite wine.   Sara decides to change into that babydoll that she knows Joseph likes straight after dinner.   She is hoping that he will stay the night.

5:00pm:  What a delightful surprise!   Joseph is outside her office waiting to drive her home.   His presentation went down very well and he is elated.   Sara is delighted for him.  She notices that there isn't a trace of his earlier 'coolness' towards her and she interprets this as a sign that he really does love her after all.


Quick, what is your first reaction to this story?   Don't analyse it just post your initial and/or strongest thoughts about the above story.   Using keywords instead of complete sentences would be ideal.    There is no right or wrong response to this story per se so don't read it more than once before responding.


***EDIT TO ADD*** Asking people to answer quickly is I suspect causing a 'Rush to Judgement'.    Please take your time reading the above .    In light of this I will understand if members who have already posted want to edit or re-post.

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tekla

1.  Is that a personal phone call?  Hang it up.
2.  Try texting a busy person to wish them luck instead of hoping they will blow off their job for you the same way you are for them.
3.  Try some therapy because you're just a breath away from becoming the "Psycho-Girlfriend" and that ain't good.
FIGHT APATHY!, or don't...
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cynthialee

The woman needs to think of more than Joseph.
Obsesive comes to mind.
So it is said that if you know your enemies and know yourself, you can win a hundred battles without a single loss.
If you only know yourself, but not your opponent, you may win or may lose.
If you know neither yourself nor your enemy, you will always endanger yourself.
Sun Tsu 'The art of War'
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AmySmiles

First thoughts:

Sara is obsessive
Sara reads too much into some things
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MarinaM

1. I hate meetings.

2. Was there coffee? Seriously, I want some coffee.

3. Oh yeah, I was supposed to react to the story.  :D

edit: Seriously, it sounds very uneventful in the grand scheme. Joseph was stressed over the presentation, and he's sweet for coming to pick her up. Sarah should focus on her work a little more.
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Rock_chick

If I was joseph I would be hiding my rabbits right now, because that girl has bunny boiler written all over her
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YinYanga

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Stephanie

I hope that some of our FTM brothers will post their response.   I should give credit where credit is due.  My original post is based upon something that Barbera D'Angelis reads out to the audiences at her seminars.   












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andream

1. Sara is annoying
2. I want to slap Sara, and not in a kinky way.
3. Joseph should ditch Sara and go on holiday with me instead  ;).
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Ender

Quote from: Princess of Cups on April 28, 2011, 06:52:45 PM
I hope that some of our FTM brothers will post their response.   I should give credit where credit is due.  My original post is based upon something that Barbera D'Angelis reads out to the audiences at her seminars.   



OK, I'll bite.

Sara, don't call your boyfriend/husband at work.  He's probably quite busy and personal calls/texting in the workplace are frowned upon (even during lunch, if he eats at the office).  He's acting distracted when you call because he hopes you will get the hint and hang up.  Actually, he probably just plain is distracted (trying to work)--and still hopes you'll hang up before the boss walks by.
"Be it life or death, we crave only reality"  -Thoreau
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Espenoah

Sara is obsessive and sounds like she would be annoying.
She reads too much into things. Joseph was just stressed about his presentation.
Crying in the bathroom after that short amount of time was pretty pathetic on Sara's part.
"If a bullet should enter my brain, let that bullet destroy every closet door." -Harvey Milk
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Janet_Girl

OK I am an old fashion romantic.  Sara is very much in love with Joseph.  She is hurt by Joseph's coolness.  But he may just be decompressing from the presentation.
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Lee

She seems a bit over obsessed with his life rather than being herself, and it's kind of creepy.
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tekla

I had a woman crying in the bathroom last year, but she had just got a call that told her she had breast cancer and she's only 35.  For this, Sara should have at least clocked out and cried on her own time.
FIGHT APATHY!, or don't...
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V M

The main things to remember in life are Love, Kindness, Understanding and Respect - Always make forward progress

Superficial fanny kissing friends are a dime a dozen, a TRUE FRIEND however is PRICELESS


- V M
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Cindy

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Emmanuelle

Joseph definitely doesn't have a clue what Sara went through, how could he and why would he...

Sara, on the other hand, would need some more maturity in developing relationships. There is this (philosophical) theory that your best relationship will be the one which exceeds your best relationship out of the first 37% of all the relationships in life. Assuming you have a relationship potential of 10 in your lifetime, you need to break up with the first 3 (imperatively) and than stick with the first relationship that gives you a better feeling than the best relationship out of the first 3. My guess is that Sara is still stuck in the one of the first 3 - she reacts to her feelings on a (pre-)puberal level - and thus her best option would be to break up with Joseph and deepen her "relationability" (so to speak)
Nobody can go back and start a new beginning, but anyone can start today and make a new ending.
- Maria Robinson
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Rock_chick

Quote from: Princess of Cups on April 28, 2011, 06:52:45 PM


I'm not sure what's worse...the fact people write books with titles like that, or that people read them.
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rejennyrated

Quote from: Helena on April 29, 2011, 01:24:22 PM
I'm not sure what's worse...the fact people write books with titles like that, or that people read them.
Yeah - File under comedy fiction, in my opinion. (either that or straight in the trash)
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tekla

De Angelis received a master's degree in psychology from Sierra University in Los Angeles, and a Ph.D. in psychology from Columbia Pacific University. She was awarded her degree from this now-defunct unaccredited institution after completing a correspondence course.

And she was married to John Gray, Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus, after they broke up they went on to give relationship advice.
FIGHT APATHY!, or don't...
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