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Started by LostInTime, February 01, 2007, 08:28:27 AM

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LostInTime

Article about Dr. Renée Richards.

"No Way Renée: The Second Half of My Notorious Life," written with John Ames, deals with the long-term consequences of her surgery. Dr. Richards writes of life as a very young boy, when an older sister, "after pushing my penis into my body," would say "Now you're a little girl"; of their psychiatrist mother who occasionally dressed him in a slip. As an adult, there was off-and-on use of female hormones, which left Dr. Richard Raskind with breasts. He tried to compensate in the early years of his marriage by acting tough.

"I swaggered like a macho man," Dr. Richards writes, "but I jiggled when I did so."

The marriage, which produced a son, ended in divorce. Nor did Dr. Richards's sex change bring her the great love affair with a man of which she dreamed, although there was affection and sex. Romance with a woman does not interest her. Though she has lived with Ms. Larzelere, her former office manager, for almost 25 years — she turns over her check each week and Ms. Larzelere handles the grocery shopping and cooking — their relationship is not romantic.

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Sounds like this was a classic case where someone who had a transvestic fetishism went on to get surgery.  A few people I have run into in the community fall into this, one completely untransitioned AFTER surgery.
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kaelin

Not everyone gets a proper preparation and education, and it probably doesn't help that society is too silly to actually talk about sexuality in a semi-mature way.

It'll happen every now and then...
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Dennis

From reading the article, it didn't sound like she actually regretted it. She said that if she hadn't done it, she might have committed suicide, but it would be better to be fully intact and not have to go through it. I don't know where the writer got the headline from but it's a bit misleading.

Dennis
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Brianna

I am sure if you went back in time you would find enunchs, precursors to transsexualism, that regretted the surgery. Renee Richards is gorgeous, but was a pioneer. Regrets seem both likely and predictable to me.

La unica se llama Brianna unica!
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LostInTime

In another interview she stated:

"I get a lot of letters from people in their 40s who are considering having this kind of operation. And I discourage all of them. It's not something for somebody in their 40s to do, someone who's had a life as a man. If you're 18 or 20 and have never had the kind of advantages I had, and you're oriented in that direction, sure, go ahead. . . . But if you're a forty-five-year-old man and you're an airline pilot and you have an ex-wife and three adolescent kids, you better get on Thorazine or Zoloft or Prozac or get locked up or do whatever it takes to keep you from being allowed to do something like this."

In this article we found out that she disagrees with transsexuals being allowed into the Olympics.

The author of this article wrote:
Quoteyet she lists so many regrets relating to her sex change that it is like someone who returns again and again to the edge of a great pit
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Brianna

Wow. What a horrible quote...

The science DOES show that secondary transsexuals, transsexuals over 32 with a history of transvestism, are much more highly likely to both regret surgery and not become happier from transition.

That said, this is just such a disparaging view.
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