I quite like it when I get feminine comments about my apearance (georgous, pretty)
but I much prefer when people make comments that have no gender bias (freaky,nice,funny,wild)
a couple of days ago I was in the local shopping centre when a little girl about 5 or 6 years old was looking at me strange and giggling then said "That's funny" I had trouble hiding my joy (I'm not he or she I'm that, and I'm funny) - I was wearing black tights under my animal print dress I may have had red lipstick on my bearded face. (not to mention my odd socks or ladies lace up sandles, or my breast forms)
I a different note Pica you high jump photo brought back some bad memories - When I was still trying to fit in at a single sex school I high jumped over the bar and over the mat landing head first on the (not soft) grass behind the mat. - ouch - I cried a little and was punished for the tears, I wasn't good at being a boy.