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Horrible day!

Started by drvotion86, May 27, 2011, 04:02:58 PM

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Quote from: Danni Rene on May 27, 2011, 07:28:00 PM
I should be used to being treated like that. My whole life i was told i wasn't good enough. Why cant you be like your brother. Be more masculine talk with a deeper voice. You carry yourself like a women. All of that is from my mom and stepdad. Most of my life is blocked out i don't even remember going to school at all. Childhood, What childhood? I feel like i want to break down and just be gone forever.

they sound pretty worthless. they must be insecure with their own genders if they had to critique your's. they'll never prosper.
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Sandy

The best way to get back at them is to live a full and happy life.  It pisses them off for you to be happy!

-Sandy
Out of the darkness, into the light.
Following my bliss.
I am complete...
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Renate

You looked very nice, Danni. Your makeup is well done and tasteful. It really accents you nicely.

I don't know who the aunt counsels but at least you weren't paying for her free "advice".
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annette

Hi Danni

I don't know what these people wants from you, you looked very cute and classy.
Sorry you have been treatend this way, but a good thing you stand for yourself.
I think the reaction had nothing to do with the way you looked, but all with the narrow minded attitude of the family.
Btw his aunt is a curse for her profession.
She should be ashame for this behaviour.

Love and hugs
Annette
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spacial

Quote from: Danni Rene on May 27, 2011, 06:30:04 PM
My own grandma told me she is glad she isnt going to be living long... She is the most important person to me and for her to say that to me is hurtfull. She was always there for me when i was being physically abused by my stepdad.

Did she say why she feels that way?

Though you seem to have fallen into the clutches of a bad bunch. A number of us know so well how you feel with your history.

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AbraCadabra

OK, like EVERY ONE already said you look fantabulous!

But here also a word of caution that comes to mind. It fits in with what you mentioned about being maltreated, AND STILL SO RIGHT NOW!

A lot of us, due to our condition (girl inside), often only later realized by others, never mind self, are prone to look for love where all me get is more and more of same rejection!
A vicious circle and not at all easy to break. Not trying to step to close here, but how come your bf leaves you exposed to such abuse?!
It is a crying shame but probably you don't expect much better, only wish is was not so? Like "it always happens to me" – thing.
If so, you have to work on this and step out of this circle of abuse. Lest you wind up one very angry and yet more abused girl. What horrible thought.

You do look absolutely stunning! You are still very young so much the better, but if getting lots of grief it would show soon and what a shame it would be!

We're all on your side, but you also have to wake up and get smart about how to survive best possible in this MtF scenario.
Lots of folks just have one VERY hard time to accept "us" and like to see us in rags rather and look ugly, then being trans.
Also being so good looking gets a lot of GGs hackles up. They are prone to get jealous, defensive and wish you the worst. Welcome to femme-land, we're all too human GG, TG, et al.

Feeling for you, but you need to find ways to move ahead and out of this mess.
Big hug,
Axelle
Some say: "Free sex ruins everything..."
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sfem

I'm very sorry to hear about your unhappy day. I second the comment about your bf having to decide who and what matters to him. He can't leave you behind to be part of his family, then come back to you when it is easy for him. Don't let him reinforce their views that way.
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justme19

That is so horrible that you were treated like that, some people in this world need to grow up.

In those photos you posted you look wonderful!!!
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