Get a life.

[emoboi]

I was just "talking" to my brother online and I like how he basically told me I don't have a life even though he didn't say that verbatum, I have just moved to New York four days ago and I don't like to be around people 24/7 so I'm sorry if I'm not the most outgoing introvert that exists. It makes me kind of really angry not that I would ever express that to him or anyone because like to express my feelings not directly to the person, which I guess is kind of bad but it is just how I am. It doesn't make you the better person just because you may have more friends than I do. Or are more social. It is just a big axiety attack for me just applying for a job. Because I have never really had any reallly good significant friends, I am also kind of very socially awkward and most people aren't even worth getting to know. Not that I don't want to make friends with people who are like minded, I'm sure I will do that eventually but it will just have to take time.

[spacial]

To be honest, it sounds like the sort of criticisms he was making are grasping at straw.

I've found that, when people say, Get a Life, they generally refer to their lives. The last person who said that to me, I told them that I really wasn't interested in STDs. But thanks for the offer.

[Sabriel Facrin]

(rar, warning, hardcore opinion!) Someone who has to build THROUGH people is ultimately hollow and meaningless. ^^; An extrovert should only build OFF of people, to which the extrovert forms oneself socially yet ultimately will still structure their development by internal thinking.  An introvert has a similiar danger which is to -avoid- making a worldly impact, which isolates the individual into futility.
One must remember that humans always partake partly off of both ends...It is unhealthy and debatably impossible to be raw intro/extro, and it feels like your brother is asking for a raw extro experience ;.;

(edit: added))
I say this because it feels like the basis of a proper decision is that one has to have friends and be social, even as soon as immediately. >.< proper extroversion comes out of a pace, rather than being dictated by fullfilling a standard.