Now WHAT? Straight, Bi, gay? Ouch!

[AbraCadabra]

What's happening? Anaïs Nin syndrome, like: "all goes"?

Sure feels like it at present. Girl for soul love, boy for sex love. Where to find a level in it.
Initially always though being straight (in boy-guise). Along came transition and not much changed until some 4 month into RLE/HRT got "wake-up call" --- yummy males out there! Hello! Some say par for course but is that being BI or what?

Have to admit starting to feel REALLY confused. Not in any relationship at present so no bars hold and (in theory) all possible.
Just as well past "sell by" date else all hell be loose and look like hussy. Am terrible flirt I'm told. What do I know? Just want to be nice girl, next thing I'm told: "Hey this is my man!". Oh, but he's nice. No way to be nice too?

Where to go? Don't feel like crawling into a hole (not yet), no thank you.

Also if T takes over (when low on E), maybe acting like hussy? Just want to be sweet and nice but get some very defensive girl feedback when told being best aunt ever by her boy friend. Girlie life complications?

Right now caught between chairs (more then just two). Any help for this?

Thanks,
Axelle

[kyril]

You don't have to label yourself. Just be who you are, and love whom you love. Love is always good, even if it's different, even if it conflicts with how you're used to thinking about yourself - love is the greatest gift anyone could ever give or receive.

Some day, you might want to describe your sexuality to someone else, and you'll have to find the label that best fits you. Maybe it's bi, maybe it's straight, maybe it's lesbian. It doesn't matter. It's just a label, a shorthand to help other people think about who you might be attracted to. It doesn't define you, it only describes you.