I know that I'm known for being outspoken both here and in my local group, but I feel that cross-dressing is an abnormal fetish and should be in the DSM as a psychological disorder. However, I DON'T believe that gender identity disorder should you be in the DSM. I know that there are truly TRANSgendered ( ->-bleeped-<- in Blanchard's terms), but from my experiences most people with GID haven't "always wanted to be a woman" (allow me to limit this to MtF to keep this simple) but rather from a very early age "thought they were a girl". I don't see myself as Transgendered, but rather as having a birth defect that caused the improper masculinization of my genitals, leading to the masculinization of my body at puberty. I see my extra appendage no differently than a sixth finger, however those children receive corrective surgery without years of therapy (and therapy bills) to make sure that they don't feel attached to their finger. I understand that there is a need to separate those with ->-bleeped-<- and those with true GID, and make sure that the former undergo significant counseling before surgery, however when most of us fall into the latter group, it is an unfair burden on us. Also, I'm not saying that we don't need therapy, most everyone in this country could benefit from therapy, and the social implications alone warrant counseling support, but mandating the amount of that support, and the type of support (professional vs. peer-group) is what I take issue with.
I will note that my local group is almost unanimously opposed to my view of GID as a birth defect, but I believe that if we present as a unified front that this is not a psychological disorder but a physical birth defect, we will get a lot further in winning acceptance.
-Lef