I use a male name, male pronouns - I don't even keep my hair that long anymore because I can't keep it nice, anyone looking at me would tend to assume me male. But that doesn't mean I am not androgyne because I know that were I female with a female name and pronouns I'd feel pretty similar.
Now, sometimes I wish I were female, but I've noticed that I only ever want to be a pretty girl, or more often that not, a little girl - it reveals to me that I appreciate the ideas of pretty and cute, and those are the elements I'd like for myself, not so much the femaleness. Similarly, I sometimes get irritated with my male genitals, but mainly because they spoil the smooth line or cut of some clothes.
It's an odd place to be by some, but when you explore the realms and wander through them, they can become home. I remember that when I was growing up I often felt like 'half a person' or as you said 'an out-of-body experience'. After nearly 5 years exploring this stuff I now feel like a whole person, and that is a good thing.
