Quote from: JadeS on June 12, 2011, 11:34:58 AM
Seriously, I eat so much crap daily trying to gain weight (lots of proteins, carbs, fatty stuff) and always end up losing the few lbs I gain, I think any weight I gain ends up just being water retention or something like that
Both you and I have the exact same problem... our body metabolism tends to speed up as we consume more food. Really the only ways around this is to eat complex carbs (whole grain, fruits, etc...) because they take longer to digest, to eat lots of calories, and to eat healthy fats (Avocados, Grape Seed Oil, Walnut Oil, Olive Oil). Also, building muscle is the quickest way you will gain weight... people with our body type tend to build muscle in a very fast, lean and efficient way. We basically have the ideal body type for an athlete or endurance runner. I suggest trying to utilize your bodies abilities and get in shape...since that's how your body prefers to develop.
Even though I am tiny, I am very shapely because I have exercised and maintained such a healthy diet for so long. My doctor says that aside from my weight issue, I'm one of the healthiest patients she's ever seen in regards to my bloodwork, cholesterol and such. Our bodies just tend to build muscle instead of retaining fat... it's not such a bad thing, it definitely prolongs the longevity of our youthful appearance. And, when you're 40 you will still have the body of a 25 year old. SO, in the long run this isn't such a bad thing...
Trust me, you can build muscle and still look feminine. My arms may look big when I flex them, but in all actuality they are only 11" flexed.. if you saw me standing beside somebody else, you would realize just how small I actually am.