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Community Conversation => Transgender talk => Topic started by: Dark.Knight on December 30, 2012, 08:05:36 PM

Title: HELP My underwear/draws!
Post by: Dark.Knight on December 30, 2012, 08:05:36 PM
Hope I got your attention and a little laugh.  ;D
(I hope I'm posting this right in the right place.) I will soon be packing with a skin adhered penis prosthetic.  Its a hard enough to, soft enough to device. I currently don't pack daily but have packed to parties expecting to get laid so the bulge of my nine inch member was no big deal. It was worn as a strap on rubber like dong bent and tucked in boxer briefs. My new manhood appears more realistic in feel and soft yet still hard and smaller. 

I have no idea what kind of boxer briefs to wear to minimize the bulge for daily wearing to school,  work, it functions as a stp as well so it will be worn quite often.  What brand has worked for you guys or type of underwear. I've googled searched the forums and well I'm asking. All I have found is boxers with pouches to throw a packer free Willie in or guys talking about securing them In the pouch but what brand will minimize the 7.5 bulge. My jeans are usually sagging a little or I'm in slouch jeans, but I need to be able to wear sweats, bball shorts or slacks for dates.
Title: Re: HELP My underwear/draws!
Post by: Kevin Peña on December 30, 2012, 08:16:17 PM
Well, I don't wear undergarments, but i can tell you NOT to wear lycra bike shorts if you want to HIDE a bulge.  :eusa_whistle:
Title: Re: HELP My underwear/draws!
Post by: Beth Andrea on December 30, 2012, 08:27:31 PM
I'd just say "tuck it", but that may not be appropriate in this case...I'll go away now... ;)
Title: Re: HELP My underwear/draws!
Post by: aleon515 on December 31, 2012, 12:51:05 AM
Yikes man, did I read that right? A 7.5 in.? I hate to be flip but I think "good luck"??
If I read wrong something like a 3-5 incher-- my packer is 4.5 in.--is in the realm of normal male.
That much is easier or harder to hide depending on, ok no nice way to this--hang. Some packers are not normal looking. You can just wear something like boxer briefs and stick the shaft in the pocket.
Otherwise you got a pistol in your pocket and you are happy to meet EVERYONE!

--Jay
Title: Re: HELP My underwear/draws!
Post by: kelly_aus on December 31, 2012, 01:17:02 AM
I have to somewhat agree with the previous poster.. 7.5"? Good luck making that look tidy.. In my 37 years I can think of perhaps 2 penises I've come across that were that big flaccid - and I have seen quite a few.

As a former wearer of mens underwear, about all I could suggest would be to try a size smaller than you usually wear - that might keep it all 'together'..
Title: Re: HELP My underwear/draws!
Post by: aleon515 on December 31, 2012, 01:10:15 PM
Curious who sells a 7.5 inch pack and play??
Jay
Title: Re: HELP My underwear/draws!
Post by: Beth Andrea on January 01, 2013, 09:01:51 PM
Quote from: Dark.Knight on December 30, 2012, 08:05:36 PM
Hope I got your attention and a little laugh.  ;D
(I hope I'm posting this right in the right place.) I will soon be packing with a skin adhered penis prosthetic.  Its a hard enough to, soft enough to device. I currently don't pack daily but have packed to parties expecting to get laid so the bulge of my nine inch member was no big deal. It was worn as a strap on rubber like dong bent and tucked in boxer briefs. My new manhood appears more realistic in feel and soft yet still hard and smaller. 

I have no idea what kind of boxer briefs to wear to minimize the bulge for daily wearing to school,  work, it functions as a stp as well so it will be worn quite often.  What brand has worked for you guys or type of underwear. I've googled searched the forums and well I'm asking. All I have found is boxers with pouches to throw a packer free Willie in or guys talking about securing them In the pouch but what brand will minimize the 7.5 bulge. My jeans are usually sagging a little or I'm in slouch jeans, but I need to be able to wear sweats, bball shorts or slacks for dates.


Hmm...I just see "7.5", no unit of measurement. 7.5" = huge, long dong silver...7.5cm = 2.95", normal ho hum silver...

Did we "assume" inches? Will the OP let us know?!? Tune in again next week, same bat time, same bat channel...
Title: Re: HELP My underwear/draws!
Post by: aleon515 on January 02, 2013, 12:03:29 AM
I'm pretty sure the units are inches and not cms. :-)
I always remind my students how important units are in math problems, just guessing this won't be the example!

Btw, the various packer underwear might help as they have both a pocket and a strap, but that's quite a lot of cowboy to contain, so to speak. Look at tranzwear and transitional male for help here, but it won't solve this completely.

You should know pack and play is a bit of a myth. It's going to do one better than another and this guy seems all play to me. An exception might be something which has something to insert.

Jay
Title: Re: HELP My underwear/draws!
Post by: Dark.Knight on January 03, 2013, 01:39:38 AM
Sorry everyone for going awol. I was talking inches. I know it's larger than the average flaccid penis. It's a pack and play. Apart of my lower dysphoria is not only the absence of a functioning God given penis but wanting a large penis between my legs. I figured there wouldn't  be much I could do to control the bulge, just checked to see if there was a product that fit normal everywhere else but snugged my trunk in the pouch area. I may stick with wearing American eagles or express trunks.  The prosthetic is a custom length from the ultimate prosthetic (which I have caught hell for ordering for obvious reasons if you have read that thread on here). If your not up to date on it or have seen it check the pics and video on there website they've recently added.  But yes you've all read correct.
Are the snuggler boxer briefs from tranzwear what I'm looking for or what?
Thanks everyone for the responses and humor.
Title: Re: HELP My underwear/draws!
Post by: Dark.Knight on January 03, 2013, 01:51:04 AM
Quote from: aleon515 on January 02, 2013, 12:03:29 AM
I'm pretty sure the units are inches and not cms. :-)
I always remind my students how important units are in math problems, just guessing this won't be the example!

Btw, the various packer underwear might help as they have both a pocket and a strap, but that's quite a lot of cowboy to contain, so to speak. Look at tranzwear and transitional male for help here, but it won't solve this completely.

You should know pack and play is a bit of a myth. It's going to do one better than another and this guy seems all play to me. An exception might be something which has something to insert.

Jay

Yeah I've noticed the myth the only product that I know of going legit flaccid to hard is the tyron 3 which is no where to be found. So Is the various packing underwear a brand or am I too tired reading this lol? Do you know exactly which ones on tranzwear or transitional male are what I am looking for? Like you said I figured it wont help much with such size. Lol
Title: Re: HELP My underwear/draws!
Post by: aleon515 on January 03, 2013, 01:51:35 AM
Hey DK, guessing the snuggler would be the one more or less for you, won't solve your problem but might keep the guy corralled a bit. Have heard good things for Pete packing underwear.I got something from Loveboat with a strap and pocket, though even the small is so small don't know who it is designed to fit.

Amazing that you actually got the Ultimate Prosthetics with that knucklehead running this. Looks nice but *very* large.

--Jay
Title: Re: HELP My underwear/draws!
Post by: Dark.Knight on January 03, 2013, 02:29:34 AM
Hey Jay cool with the advice Can't hurt but to try em.
Title: Re: HELP My underwear/draws!
Post by: aleon515 on January 03, 2013, 03:47:54 PM
Quote from: Dark.Knight on January 03, 2013, 02:29:34 AM
Hey Jay cool with the advice Can't hurt but to try em.

Well don't try the Loveboat one unless you are under 100 lbs., but you might try the Pete's or else the Tranzwear.

--Jay
Title: Re: HELP My underwear/draws!
Post by: NotThereYet on January 03, 2013, 04:07:16 PM
I have seen a lot of penises and I have never seen anything even close to 7.5"... flaccid or hard...
Title: Re: HELP My underwear/draws!
Post by: Dark.Knight on January 04, 2013, 05:39:34 PM
Quote from: NotThereYet on January 03, 2013, 04:07:16 PM
I have seen a lot of penises and I have never seen anything even close to 7.5"... flaccid or hard...

I hear that a lot, but I've seen plenty 7 plus. Maybe there is something in the water in Kentucky.  Lol. But I have honestly seen over 10 at that size. I know ethnicity has nothing to do with size really because two guys were white guys and the rest of African-American decent (black or mixed)
Title: Re: HELP My underwear/draws!
Post by: Oliver-Christoph on January 04, 2013, 06:05:01 PM
I wear good ole' mr. Calvin Klein and have never been happier with underwear. I ONLY wear boxer briefs and Calvin Klein and the under armor boxer jocks are amazing. They both run kinda pricey but I love em. The best to pack with would have to be the boxer jocks because they're made as boxer briefs but can hold a cup in this little pouch thing it has.
Title: Re: HELP My underwear/draws!
Post by: NotThereYet on January 05, 2013, 10:30:41 AM
I have never been to Kentucky, but if I were a man I would feel quite inadequate there!!! Hehehe

On top of what nature gives you, or does not give you, androgen blockers can really completely shrink and nullify whatever was there...

Maybe, after SRS, I'll have to move to Kentucky... ;-)

Happy packing, gentlemen. :-)

Andrea
Title: Re: HELP My underwear/draws!
Post by: Elspeth on January 05, 2013, 10:52:33 AM
Quote from: NotThereYet on January 03, 2013, 04:07:16 PM
I have seen a lot of penises and I have never seen anything even close to 7.5"... flaccid or hard...

You were never in the Army, I take it? The ones I saw all seemed to belong to well-endowed black dudes in my barracks... sorry to perpetuate a stereotype, but most of these guys were quite large even flaccid... pretty sure several were over 7.5" but they never invited me to pull out my tape measure.

Tempted to seque to nasty comments about my last boyfriend, but I won't, even though he does still have earned a special place in my personal Hall of Shame for how he spent a year coming onto me and then went into panic mode when I acted on the assumption that he was interested in more than sex.
Title: Re: HELP My underwear/draws!
Post by: Kevin Peña on January 05, 2013, 10:57:39 AM
Quote from: Elspeth on January 05, 2013, 10:52:33 AM
You were never in the Army, I take it? The ones I saw all seemed to belong to well-endowed black dudes in my barracks... sorry to perpetuate a stereotype, but most of these guys were quite large even flaccid... pretty sure several were over 7.5" but they never invited me to pull out my tape measure.

I'm sorry, but I couldn't help but think of prison. "Come here, boy."

Thanks for the laugh.  :laugh:
Title: Re: HELP My underwear/draws!
Post by: NotThereYet on January 05, 2013, 11:04:22 AM
Well, I guess it's a good thing that I never considered myself a man: I would have looked ridiculous next to the guys y'all have been talking about...Hehehe
Title: Re: HELP My underwear/draws!
Post by: aleon515 on January 05, 2013, 01:56:42 PM
Well it isn't in the range of "average".

--Jay
Title: Re: HELP My underwear/draws!
Post by: Emily Aster on January 05, 2013, 02:11:36 PM
Quote from: NotThereYet on January 03, 2013, 04:07:16 PM
I have seen a lot of penises and I have never seen anything even close to 7.5"... flaccid or hard...

I've seen one larger than that in bootcamp. Everybody referred to him as the guy hung like an elephant instead of by his name. They do exist. It's just rare.
Title: Re: HELP My underwear/draws!
Post by: Dark.Knight on January 06, 2013, 07:54:46 AM
They all come in different sizes and at any size it comes down to how you work it.
Title: Re: HELP My underwear/draws!
Post by: Dark.Knight on January 06, 2013, 08:02:35 AM
Quote from: Connor Stanford on January 04, 2013, 06:05:01 PM
I wear good ole' mr. Calvin Klein and have never been happier with underwear. I ONLY wear boxer briefs and Calvin Klein and the under armor boxer jocks are amazing. They both run kinda pricey but I love em. The best to pack with would have to be the boxer jocks because they're made as boxer briefs but can hold a cup in this little pouch thing it has.

I wear strictly boxer briefs myself. Thanks for that advice guess I'm going under roo shopping. Probably go for both.
Title: Re: HELP My underwear/draws!
Post by: Oliver-Christoph on January 06, 2013, 10:11:26 AM
Quote from: Dark.Knight on January 06, 2013, 08:02:35 AM
I wear strictly boxer briefs myself. Thanks for that advice guess I'm going under roo shopping. Probably go for both.

I couldn't find anyone that carried the CKs that I wear, but almost everyone carries the UA boxer jocks
Title: Re: HELP My underwear/draws!
Post by: aleon515 on January 06, 2013, 02:52:01 PM
Well you can get a smaller pair inside a bigger pair, that might help some.
Your sex is going to be fun, you can do it from a different room. LOL, :)

--Jay
Title: Re: HELP My underwear/draws!
Post by: Gen88 on January 06, 2013, 08:11:50 PM
As someone who was "above average" =P in a past life, I can tell you that CK boxer briefs are the way to go. Ironically, my issue was not wanting to be known for that when I was younger, so tucking it back to the point of screwing yourself seemed to be a help for me when I was still physically a "guy".
It also helped me come off as a scrawny geek and not a porn star to people who didn't really know me =P
If you do NOT want to tuck, you will look like you are at what most people think is erect when flaccid...and take it from me, that really sucks. =(

(On a side note, thank god for atrophy ^_^ I can tuck to the point of NO bulge now, and soon I won't have to deal with that little problem =D)
Title: Re: HELP My underwear/draws!
Post by: aleon515 on January 08, 2013, 11:48:01 PM
Well Gen, I doubt that he'd tuck, given that he identifies as male. I think we are talking about making him a little less happy to see everyone. :)

--Jay
Title: Re: HELP My underwear/draws!
Post by: Oliver-Christoph on January 09, 2013, 12:46:56 PM
To minimize the bulge you might want to just wear relaxed fit jeans and shove it down your leg :p lol
Title: Re: HELP My underwear/draws!
Post by: MagicKitty on January 09, 2013, 03:50:31 PM
I'm a grower. Soft, it's anywhere from 2-4 inches. Hard, it's 6.5 inches. For casual daytime use, consider something smaller than 7.5 inches lol. You don't want to look like you've got a boner 24/7/ 365
Title: Re: HELP My underwear/draws!
Post by: Gen88 on January 09, 2013, 08:45:47 PM
Quote from: aleon515 on January 08, 2013, 11:48:01 PM
Well Gen, I doubt that he'd tuck, given that he identifies as male. I think we are talking about making him a little less happy to see everyone. :)

--Jay

I understand that, but pushing it back just a bit can minimize the bulge...it's part of why I did not wear tight clothing until about 9 months of HRT, till then, even tucked completely, you will be able to see something there. >.<
Title: Re: HELP My underwear/draws!
Post by: skyNoLimit on January 23, 2013, 09:30:54 AM
Hey you, I remember I bought a packer that was too big for me, i don't think it was 7.5in but it certainly looked huge. What I did was I had bought the pack and play underwear from love boat when i packed. And I would actually position the packer diagonally, with the head aligning and pointing towards either my right or left leg. It helped also if you position the packer and wear the underwear lower, so that some of the packer volume slips downward. Lastly, I remember wearing denser and thicker jeans to minimize the bulge.

That's what worked for me with my large packer. hope it helped!
Title: Re: HELP My underwear/draws!
Post by: aleon515 on January 23, 2013, 06:31:30 PM
The loveboat packing underwear works well, problem is sizing. They basically have them in small and medium. IN real sizes that translates to small and extra small.

--Jay