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Hi everyone. I just wanted to share my news with you all. Last night Tristan asked me to marry him. I said yes. He had wanted to go to the park and while we were there he proposed. He even did the on one knee thing. The ring he gave me is not my engagement ring though. It's an amethyst ring his mom told him to give me last month. He hasn't finished paying for my ring. He was going to wait until he had my ring paid for to propose but he said he didn't want to wait any longer. We haven't set a date or anything yet but it will be a winter wedding. Winter is my favorite season. My dad was not  surprised at all when I told him. Tristan had asked for his approval to propose! How old fashioned. Lol

Congratulations! Many years of happiness for you!

@Julia1996
Dear Julia:
Wow Whee... This is very exciting, I imagine that you are floating on Cloud 9 right now.
Certainly congratulations are in order!
When a date is set for your wedding please update us so we can count down the days with you.
   :icon_bunch: :icon_bunch: :icon_bunch:  CONGRATULATIONS !!! :icon_flower: :icon_flower: :icon_flower:

Thank you for sharing your good news with me and the rest of your followers here on the forums.
Hugs and best wishes,
Danielle

Quote from: Julia1996 on April 30, 2019, 11:29:05 PM
Hi everyone. I just wanted to share my news with you all. Last night Tristan asked me to marry him. I said yes. He had wanted to go to the park and while we were there he proposed. He even did the on one knee thing. The ring he gave me is not my engagement ring though. It's an amethyst ring his mom told him to give me last month. He hasn't finished paying for my ring. He was going to wait until he had my ring paid for to propose but he said he didn't want to wait any longer. We haven't set a date or anything yet but it will be a winter wedding. Winter is my favorite season. My dad was not  surprised at all when I told him. Tristan had asked for his approval to propose! How old fashioned. Lol

Omg sometimes I wonder if love will ever be possible for me coming out, but then see stories like this. This is really awesome!!!!!!!! Congrats!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Quote from: Julia1996 on April 30, 2019, 11:29:05 PM
Hi everyone. I just wanted to share my news with you all. Last night Tristan asked me to marry him. I said yes. He had wanted to go to the park and while we were there he proposed. He even did the on one knee thing. The ring he gave me is not my engagement ring though. It's an amethyst ring his mom told him to give me last month. He hasn't finished paying for my ring. He was going to wait until he had my ring paid for to propose but he said he didn't want to wait any longer. We haven't set a date or anything yet but it will be a winter wedding. Winter is my favorite season. My dad was not  surprised at all when I told him. Tristan had asked for his approval to propose! How old fashioned. Lol

\(^_^)/  YAAAAAAAAAAAAAYYYYYYYYYY!!! 

Congratulations to both you and Tristan!  You got yourself a real fine man there, you lucky lady!  ;D

A piece of advise, if you two decide to adopt/surrogate/etc, be sure to enjoy a few years of marriage as a couple first.  Once the kid/s come along, you will lose any sense of privacy for the next...oh, I'd guess until they all move out.  ;)

Again, congrats!  I'm so happy for you two!

Ryuichi

OMG, to be a bride. Photos please.  :)

Lovely！

I was wondering when this would happen... Hearing it makes me so happy.

♡

What wonderful news.

My love and congratulations to both of you and I wish you both a wonderful life together.

Cindy

Congratulations Julia and Tristin! I hope your wedding is everything you have dreamed of, and wish you all the best in your future. I hope you don't mind a bunch of us living vicariously through your every report, as you are living the dream most of us have had!

Allie

Thank you all.😊  help planning your wedding is one thing you need your mom for. I will just have to have Tristan's mom and my grandma help me. I have no other female relatives. Tyler has already suggested a theme wedding. His brilliant idea was to have a super hero themed wedding. Ugh! Can you even imagine anything so ridiculous! 😂

Quote from: Ryuichi13 on May 01, 2019, 12:04:57 AM
\(^_^)/  YAAAAAAAAAAAAAYYYYYYYYYY!!! 

Congratulations to both you and Tristan!  You got yourself a real fine man there, you lucky lady!  ;D

A piece of advise, if you two decide to adopt/surrogate/etc, be sure to enjoy a few years of marriage as a couple first.  Once the kid/s come along, you will lose any sense of privacy for the next...oh, I'd guess until they all move out.  ;)

Again, congrats!  I'm so happy for you two!

Ryuichi

Thank you.😊  Oh it will be a while before we are ready to adopt kids. My dad told me we are too young to deal with kids anytime soon. He's probably right.  But that's funny coming from him. When he was only 19 he had a 2 year old and an infant. He was very young but he was and is an excellent father. I often think about everything he missed out on while he took care of 2 kids. I think his statement about us being too young might be because of that. My dad always put us first and missed out on a lot of things taking care of 2 kids. That's sad.

Quote from: Cindy on May 01, 2019, 12:37:41 AM
What wonderful news.

My love and congratulations to both of you and I wish you both a wonderful life together.

Cindy

Thank you Cindy. 😊

Quote from: Allie Jayne on May 01, 2019, 01:47:03 AM
Congratulations Julia and Tristin! I hope your wedding is everything you have dreamed of, and wish you all the best in your future. I hope you don't mind a bunch of us living vicariously through your every report, as you are living the dream most of us have had!

Allie

Thank you Allie. I will update everyone with everything that happens.

Quote from: zirconia on May 01, 2019, 12:11:25 AM
Lovely！

I was wondering when this would happen... Hearing it makes me so happy.

♡

Thank you.😊

Quote from: amandam on May 01, 2019, 12:07:30 AM
OMG, to be a bride. Photos please.  :)

Thank you. I will post wedding photos.

Quote from: Alaskan Danielle on April 30, 2019, 11:35:39 PM
@Julia1996
Dear Julia:
Wow Whee... This is very exciting, I imagine that you are floating on Cloud 9 right now.
Certainly congratulations are in order!
When a date is set for your wedding please update us so we can count down the days with you.
   :icon_bunch: :icon_bunch: :icon_bunch:  CONGRATULATIONS !!! :icon_flower: :icon_flower: :icon_flower:

Thank you for sharing your good news with me and the rest of your followers here on the forums.
Hugs and best wishes,
Danielle

Thank you. I will post details as they happen.

Quote from: amandam on April 30, 2019, 11:31:09 PM
Congratulations! Many years of happiness for you!

Thank you. 😊

Oh wow! Congratulations Julia! That's amazing!!!

Ps I think winter weddings are beautiful!

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Congratulations

Quote from: Julia1996 on April 30, 2019, 11:29:05 PM
Hi everyone. I just wanted to share my news with you all. Last night Tristan asked me to marry him. I said yes. He had wanted to go to the park and while we were there he proposed. He even did the on one knee thing. The ring he gave me is not my engagement ring though. It's an amethyst ring his mom told him to give me last month. He hasn't finished paying for my ring. He was going to wait until he had my ring paid for to propose but he said he didn't want to wait any longer. We haven't set a date or anything yet but it will be a winter wedding. Winter is my favorite season. My dad was not  surprised at all when I told him. Tristan had asked for his approval to propose! How old fashioned. Lol

Awwwwwwhhh How cool is that....congratulations I am so happy for you Julia. You know of course this wil make you part Aussie!! LOL

Liz

Quote from: MollyPants on May 01, 2019, 02:39:57 AM
Oh wow! Congratulations Julia! That's amazing!!!

Ps I think winter weddings are beautiful!

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Thank you. Yes, I love winter weddings.

Quote from: big kim on May 01, 2019, 02:44:16 AM
Congratulations

Thank you. 😊

Quote from: LizK on May 01, 2019, 02:53:26 AM
Awwwwwwhhh How cool is that....congratulations I am so happy for you Julia. You know of course this wil make you part Aussie!! LOL

Liz

I hadn't thought of that.  I guess I will. Lol but I will NEVER like vegemite. Ewww.😖

Quote from: soyunachica on April 30, 2019, 11:50:46 PM
Omg sometimes I wonder if love will ever be possible for me coming out, but then see stories like this. This is really awesome!!!!!!!! Congrats!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Of course love will be possible for you. I never expected to have a boyfriend much less get married. Not only am I trans I'm albino. I didn't think anyone would ever find me attractive. But Tristan actually likes my white skin and hair. He also asked me to stop wearing tinted contact lenses. I love my chocolate brown ones that I am wearing in my profile picture. But I stopped wearing them. Tristan actually likes my weird pink/lavender natural eye color. If I can find someone you certainly can.

Huge news Julia,
Biggest congratulations to you and Tristan[emoji323]

He is a lucky man, you are a lucky woman!

Wishing you both the very best[emoji127]

Kirsten.


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Congratulations Julie  this is wonderful news , you are going to have an incredible life together .

Quote from: Kirsteneklund7 on May 01, 2019, 05:38:07 AM
Huge news Julia,
Biggest congratulations to you and Tristan[emoji323]

He is a lucky man, you are a lucky woman!

Wishing you both the very best[emoji127]

Kirsten.


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Thank you.😊

Quote from: Quinn on May 01, 2019, 06:02:39 AM
Congratulations Julie  this is wonderful news , you are going to have an incredible life together .

Thank you Quinn. 😊

Congratulations Julia!

You're living the dream, congrats!

Quote from: Maid Marion on May 01, 2019, 06:27:58 AM
Congratulations Julia!

Thank you. 😊

Quote from: Colleen_definitely on May 01, 2019, 06:28:49 AM
You're living the dream, congrats!

Thank you very much.

Congratulations.  Wishing you happiness.


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Quote from: TonyaW on May 01, 2019, 06:35:54 AM
Congratulations.  Wishing you happiness.


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Thank you Tonya.😊

OMG, Julia, CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!  That is wonderful news.

Tristan sounds like a fine young man, and I think you two will make a lovely couple!

The fact that this was completely expected doesn't dim the joy I feel for you and Tristan! Your news is the coolest thing I've heard all week.

When I came here to Susan's I tended to follow gals my own age - I was 58 when I started transitioning - but I also followed your story. You give me such hope for the future. In spite of our current political climate, I do truly believe your generation will change the world. Not solely through activism, but also through just living "normal" lives while people watch. You are proof that we're just ordinary people dealing with extraordinary circumstances.

You get to live almost your entire life as you should. Those of us who were compelled to hide ourselves for most of our  lives can't help but be elated that you will not have to deal with that pain.

Hugs and Congratulations!

Stephanie

PS: I never thought I'd get to be a bride, especially at my age, but considering the special person I've discovered, who knows what the future may bring?

Congratulations Julia and Tristan!  That was sweet of him to ask your Dad and propose in a traditional way.  I know you'll both be very happy!

Congrats!


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Awesome!  That is so cool.  Congrats.

Congratulations Julia!

From your descriptions of Tristan and his actions/thoughts/deeds you have a very fine man!

Perry

Wonderful news, Julia! Good things do happen to good people. I wonder if you have given any thought to messing with your brother and see if he wants to be a ring bearer.  ::) Congratulations!

Good idea on including her brother.

However I think Julia should start off asking him to be the flower girl just to get a rise out of him.  >:-)

Congrats Julia!!! You deserve all the happiness in the world.

That is the most wonderful news!  Congratulations to you both.

If it is a superhero wedding, which character are you thinking of being?  I can certainly see you as a fine Harley Quinn, in her old look or her new look.  Technically, though, she is a supervillain.

As others have stated, not unexpected yet wonderful to hear. So, I'm adding my congratulations to theirs.

While you relate to things differently (generational) I always enjoyed reading your posts & comments. When you left for a while it left a hole. I hope to see you back more with story updates about the wedding and after. Many of us old farts will never be a young girl much less a young bride no matter our current life situations. We enjoy it through others.

May you enjoy every moment together yet to come (irritations and desires to slap notwithstanding :D )

Quote from: MaryT on May 02, 2019, 10:33:32 AM
That is the most wonderful news!  Congratulations to you both.

If it is a superhero wedding, which character are you thinking of being?  I can certainly see you as a fine Harley Quinn, in her old look or her new look.  Technically, though, she is a supervillain.

If Tristan shows up as Captain Kangaroo I might fall out of my chair laughing at that story.

Congratulations Julia! I am so happy for both of you. This is fantastic news and I wish both of you the best of luck and a long and happy marriage.

So nice that he did the old fashioned thing, asked for permission and proposed on one knee. So cute... I am sure your Dad is excited about this as well.

Congrats again and Hugs,

Sarah

Quote from: Colleen_definitely on May 02, 2019, 11:33:41 AM
If Tristan shows up as Captain Kangaroo I might fall out of my chair laughing at that story.

Captain Kangaroo?? That must be an Australian super hero. I've never heard of him nor seen him in any of the avenger movies Tristan made me watch with him.

Quote from: HappyMoni on May 01, 2019, 08:50:04 PM
Wonderful news, Julia! Good things do happen to good people. I wonder if you have given any thought to messing with your brother and see if he wants to be a ring bearer.  ::) Congratulations!

I wouldn't hurt Tyler's feeling by making him the ring bearer. He's going to be my maid of honor. 😂

Captain Kangaroo was a kids show from the 50's up until the early 80's and had absolutely nothing to do with Australia.

Quote from: Julia1996 on May 02, 2019, 11:46:57 AM
I wouldn't hurt Tyler's feeling by making him the ring bearer. He's going to be my maid of honor. 😂

Ha ha, well done.

Quote from: Colleen_definitely on May 02, 2019, 11:47:37 AM
Captain Kangaroo was a kids show from the 50's up until the early 80's and had absolutely nothing to do with Australia.

Ha ha, well done.
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Quote from: Julia1996 on April 30, 2019, 11:29:05 PM
Hi everyone. I just wanted to share my news with you all. Last night Tristan asked me to marry him. I said yes. He had wanted to go to the park and while we were there he proposed. He even did the on one knee thing. The ring he gave me is not my engagement ring though. It's an amethyst ring his mom told him to give me last month. He hasn't finished paying for my ring. He was going to wait until he had my ring paid for to propose but he said he didn't want to wait any longer. We haven't set a date or anything yet but it will be a winter wedding. Winter is my favorite season. My dad was not  surprised at all when I told him. Tristan had asked for his approval to propose! How old fashioned. Lol

I've missed this very exciting news till just now.

Congratulations Julia!

Quote from: Julia1996 on May 02, 2019, 11:44:19 AM
Captain Kangaroo?? That must be an Australian super hero. I've never heard of him nor seen him in any of the avenger movies Tristan made me watch with him.

@Julia1996
FYI  ....   The Captain Kangaroo show was an American Television Series on CBS.
Captain Kangaroo was before my time but here is some information for you.
Hugs,
Danielle

Captain Kangaroo is an American children's television series that aired weekday mornings on the American television network CBS from October 3, 1955, until December 8, 1984, making it the longest-running nationally broadcast children's television program of its day. Wikipedia
First episode date: October 3, 1955
Final episode date: December 8, 1984
Number of seasons: 29
Theme songs: Good Morning, Captain, Puffin' Billy, Here Comes Captain Kangaroo, Wake Up
Genres: Animation, Children's television series, Puppet
                         (https://heavyeditorial.files.wordpress.com/2013/08/captain-kangaroo.jpg?quality=65&strip=all&w=780)

Congratulations, (only just seen this ) Happiness as my BFF says , may you both have a good life together :icon_bunch:

Quote from: Julia1996 on May 01, 2019, 02:03:02 AM
Thank you all.😊  help planning your wedding is one thing you need your mom for. I will just have to have Tristan's mom and my grandma help me. I have no other female relatives. Tyler has already suggested a theme wedding. His brilliant idea was to have a super hero themed wedding. Ugh! Can you even imagine anything so ridiculous! 😂

Congrats.

That isn't so ridiculous.... my uncle wanted a wedding themed from "A Clockwork Orange" with all the guys dressed as Droogs...

The reception was delightful right up until the good old ultraviolence.

Things were a bit awkward after that...

Yeah I don't think my aunt was impressed, she decided they were going to have a gothic themed wedding instead lol.

Congratulations Julia! I am sure you two will be great as a married couple.

On a side note, imagine a vampire themed wedding. The possibilities could be endless, like your love for each other.

Quote from: Julia1996 on April 30, 2019, 11:29:05 PM
Hi everyone. I just wanted to share my news with you all. Last night Tristan asked me to marry him. I said yes. He had wanted to go to the park and while we were there he proposed. He even did the on one knee thing. The ring he gave me is not my engagement ring though. It's an amethyst ring his mom told him to give me last month. He hasn't finished paying for my ring. He was going to wait until he had my ring paid for to propose but he said he didn't want to wait any longer. We haven't set a date or anything yet but it will be a winter wedding. Winter is my favorite season. My dad was not  surprised at all when I told him. Tristan had asked for his approval to propose! How old fashioned. Lol

I just read this!  Congratulations!  I am sure the two of you will be a wonderful couple!

Quote from: Julia1996 on May 01, 2019, 02:03:02 AM
Thank you all.😊  help planning your wedding is one thing you need your mom for. I will just have to have Tristan's mom and my grandma help me. I have no other female relatives. Tyler has already suggested a theme wedding. His brilliant idea was to have a super hero themed wedding. Ugh! Can you even imagine anything so ridiculous! 😂

Men!  After all, he is your brother and wants you to have fun (what he feels is fun)

Congratulations that is amazing so happy for you

Congrats for the wonderful news, that is so exciting for you! Wow!

Congratulations to you both! I'm so happy for you. It's so good to see someone getting to enjoy their life to its fullest and I shall live vicariously through you, if you don't mind!!

Looking forward to reading more in the days, months and years to come, Julia.

<<hugs>>

Chaerlie. xx

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