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Title: Weekend getaway
Post by: Lonelylyn on August 14, 2025, 01:38:43 PM
No, one knows I used to cross dress, I'm 45 and have kids now and if my wife finds out I could lose them all, I worked for family and would lose my job but lately I just want to get out. I need a weekend away, is there any place in California I can go and be made over and live as a women for a weekend?
Title: Re: Weekend getaway
Post by: Lori Dee on August 14, 2025, 01:46:37 PM
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@Lonelylyn
@Sarah B
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Title: Re: Weekend getaway
Post by: Lilis on August 14, 2025, 02:07:45 PM
Hi Lyn,

Welcome to Susan's Place! 💓

I know loneliness all too well, it's something I've felt from many directions as a bisexual, transgender, non-binary person.

Thankfully, through this community and some wonderful new friends I've met in real life, that loneliness has eased.

I hope you find the same here, or even more, as you continue your journey both online and in the world.

Wishing you connection and joy!


~ Lilis 🌷
Title: Re: Weekend getaway
Post by: Northern Star Girl on August 14, 2025, 03:40:21 PM
@Lilis
Dear Lilis:
     Very well stated ! !
HUGS, Danielle [Northern Star Girl]

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Quote from: Lilis on Today at 02:07:45 PMHi Lyn,

Welcome to Susan's Place! 💓

I know loneliness all too well, it's something I've felt from many directions as a bisexual, transgender, non-binary person.

Thankfully, through this community and some wonderful new friends I've met in real life, that loneliness has eased.

I hope you find the same here, or even more, as you continue your journey both online and in the world.

Wishing you connection and joy!


~ Lilis 🌷
Title: Re: Weekend getaway
Post by: tgirlamg on August 14, 2025, 03:57:47 PM
Welcome Aboard Sister!

I am not sure if they are still open or not but, you might want to look up Carla's Social Club/ Carla's Boutique in San Jose, CA...

Hugs!

Ashley 💕
Title: Re: Weekend getaway
Post by: Northern Star Girl on August 14, 2025, 04:02:56 PM
@Lonelylyn
Dear Lonelylyn:
Seeing new members here gives me great joy.  I am so very glad that you found us.

I understand your feelings  ... HOWEVER, once you start sharing and posting
on the various threads, and also post your replies, comments and thoughts
to our members, you will not be lonely here on the Forum.
In fact, the more that you involve yourself in the the various Forum TOPICS you
will likely make some new like-minded friends...
... and you may find  that you are not as lonely as your member name implies.
Giving you a BIG WARM WELCOME to Susan's Place and the Forum.

Please take the time to "Click" and read the important and informative LINKS that
are at the end of the Welcome Message that our lovely LoriDee posted in her reply to you below. 
There you will find informative rules that will help you to safely navigate around the Forum.

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be able to upload an Avatar/Profile photo, and you will be able to send Forum
Private Messages.

Until then if you need to contact our staff here you can Email LoriDee or myself.
Our Email addresses are near the end of our reply posts.


Warmly, Danielle[Northern Star Girl]
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Title: Re: Weekend getaway
Post by: Lonelylyn on August 14, 2025, 04:09:45 PM
Thank you tgirlamg, Carla's is closed but I was hoping for more of a place to stay for 2-3 days private with makeover so I can stay dressed Ang hang with others.
Title: Re: Weekend getaway
Post by: ChrissyRyan on August 14, 2025, 04:25:16 PM
Did you search yet online for transgender friendly businesses, clubs, transformation boutiques, organizations, and support groups?  The groups and organizations also often have a list of businesses such as transformation services that they deem worthy to share information about them.

You may be surprised to see many such venues and some may be close to you.



Title: Re: Weekend getaway
Post by: Northern Star Girl on August 14, 2025, 04:34:49 PM
@Lonelylyn
Dear Lonelylyn:

Please if you feel so inclined follow the link to our INTRODUCTIONS board that @Lori Dee gave
to in her "Welcome Message"
          Here it is again:    Introductions    
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Warmly, Danielle[Northern Star Girl]
The Forum Administrator     Direct Email:  alaskandanielle@yahoo.com