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Title: Lovely website!
Post by: KikiOnKiki87 on October 03, 2025, 03:46:01 PM
Post by: KikiOnKiki87 on October 03, 2025, 03:46:01 PM
I'm new here!
Glad I joined!
I consider myself part of this community for many reasons even though relationship-wise I am hetero and still prefer the opposite gender but I'm getting to embrace my having boobs. I have had them since getting overweight and going on ADHD and OCD medication. I am enjoying having them and want my soulmate to love them as I love them too.
I own some lingerie as I also love female briefs because I enjoy their designs especially the flowery ones. I typically wear LANE BRYANT Cacique's and enjoy them very much!
Glad I joined!
I consider myself part of this community for many reasons even though relationship-wise I am hetero and still prefer the opposite gender but I'm getting to embrace my having boobs. I have had them since getting overweight and going on ADHD and OCD medication. I am enjoying having them and want my soulmate to love them as I love them too.
I own some lingerie as I also love female briefs because I enjoy their designs especially the flowery ones. I typically wear LANE BRYANT Cacique's and enjoy them very much!
Title: Re: Lovely website!
Post by: Sarah B on October 03, 2025, 04:08:45 PM
Post by: Sarah B on October 03, 2025, 04:08:45 PM
Hello Kiki
My name is Sarah and I would like to formally, Welcome you to Susan's Place!
Thanks for sharing about being on ADHD and OCD medication and how you are feeling about your body. For what it is worth, I was heterosexual before my surgery and I am heterosexual after. It does not matter what your sexuality is. Susan's Place welcomes the diversity of its members and that includes you.
It is lovely that you are enjoying your boobs and that you want a partner who appreciates them too. Nice lingerie and clothes can feel affirming. Lane Bryant Cacique makes some comfy, pretty pieces, so I am happy you have found styles you enjoy.
Settle in, ask anything, share what helps you. You are among friends here.
Once you feel comfortable here, it would be appreciated if you add a little bit more about yourself in the Various Forums (https://www.susans.org/index.php/board,8.0.html). I would appreciate it very much as, I'm always interested in learning something new about new members
In addition members of Susan's will more than likely will discuss problems or issues that are similar to yours as most have experienced these as well.
Please keep in mind when posting that this is an ALL AGES PUBLIC Forum and the internet never forgets. Do not post anything that you do not want to be made public.
Please review the links at the end of this message, especially the red links, they include information which will help you navigate the site and use the available features. When you reach 15 posts, you will be able to send and reply to private messages and you will also be able to add an avatar to your profile, until then if you have any questions about the Susan's Place site and the Forums, please feel free to contact, the Forum Admin Danielle Northern Star Girl at alaskandanielle@yahoo.com or me at SarahatSusans@proton.me
Take care and all the best for the future.
Once again, Welcome to Susan's Place!
Best Wishes Always
Sarah B
Global Moderator
@Devlyn @Jessica_Rose @Mariah @Northern Star Girl @Lori Dee
@KikiOnKiki87
My name is Sarah and I would like to formally, Welcome you to Susan's Place!
Thanks for sharing about being on ADHD and OCD medication and how you are feeling about your body. For what it is worth, I was heterosexual before my surgery and I am heterosexual after. It does not matter what your sexuality is. Susan's Place welcomes the diversity of its members and that includes you.
It is lovely that you are enjoying your boobs and that you want a partner who appreciates them too. Nice lingerie and clothes can feel affirming. Lane Bryant Cacique makes some comfy, pretty pieces, so I am happy you have found styles you enjoy.
Settle in, ask anything, share what helps you. You are among friends here.
Once you feel comfortable here, it would be appreciated if you add a little bit more about yourself in the Various Forums (https://www.susans.org/index.php/board,8.0.html). I would appreciate it very much as, I'm always interested in learning something new about new members
In addition members of Susan's will more than likely will discuss problems or issues that are similar to yours as most have experienced these as well.
Please keep in mind when posting that this is an ALL AGES PUBLIC Forum and the internet never forgets. Do not post anything that you do not want to be made public.
Please review the links at the end of this message, especially the red links, they include information which will help you navigate the site and use the available features. When you reach 15 posts, you will be able to send and reply to private messages and you will also be able to add an avatar to your profile, until then if you have any questions about the Susan's Place site and the Forums, please feel free to contact, the Forum Admin Danielle Northern Star Girl at alaskandanielle@yahoo.com or me at SarahatSusans@proton.me
Take care and all the best for the future.
Once again, Welcome to Susan's Place!
Best Wishes Always
Sarah B
Global Moderator
@Devlyn @Jessica_Rose @Mariah @Northern Star Girl @Lori Dee
@KikiOnKiki87
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Title: Re: Lovely website!
Post by: Sephirah on October 03, 2025, 04:10:29 PM
Post by: Sephirah on October 03, 2025, 04:10:29 PM
Sweetie, just by being here you're a part of this community. That's all there needs to be. Welcome to the site. <3
Title: Re: Lovely website!
Post by: Lori Dee on October 03, 2025, 05:02:51 PM
Post by: Lori Dee on October 03, 2025, 05:02:51 PM
Hello, Kiki!
Welcome to Susan's Place. Feel free to check out the various forums here.
Be sure to read the links that Sarah B provided. We look forward to seeing you around the website.
If you get lost or have questions, our Staff and members are very helpful and supportive.
@Sarah B
@Northern Star Girl
Welcome to Susan's Place. Feel free to check out the various forums here.
Be sure to read the links that Sarah B provided. We look forward to seeing you around the website.
If you get lost or have questions, our Staff and members are very helpful and supportive.
@Sarah B
@Northern Star Girl
Title: Re: Lovely website!
Post by: Lilis on October 03, 2025, 11:56:39 PM
Post by: Lilis on October 03, 2025, 11:56:39 PM
Hi KikiOnKiki87,
Welcome to Susan's Place!💓
~ Lilis 🌷
Welcome to Susan's Place!💓
~ Lilis 🌷
Title: Re: Lovely website!
Post by: Susan on October 04, 2025, 08:40:49 AM
Post by: Susan on October 04, 2025, 08:40:49 AM
Hi Kiki—welcome to Susan's Place! 🌸
I'm really glad you introduced yourself. It takes courage to say where you are with your body and feelings, and that kind of honesty makes this place safer for everyone. You absolutely belong here 🧡.
Our community spans many paths and orientations; being heterosexual doesn't make you any less part of us. What matters is that you're here, engaging in a supportive space where we look out for one another.
It sounds like you've been navigating meaningful changes—weight shifts, ADHD/OCD medication—and you're learning to appreciate the breasts you have now. Many of us recognize that mix of surprise, curiosity, and complicated emotions when a body changes. Choosing to meet those changes with kindness is real progress. That quiet self-acceptance steadies you and gently teaches others how to meet you, too 🌱.
I also want you to know you're not alone with ADHD—I have it as well 🧠. ADHD isn't something you "work past" by ignoring; that usually backfires. What helps is using the supports your brain actually responds to. For me, a little background sound and a couple of harmless "distractions" make deep focus easier—a podcast murmuring, ambient music while I write. Your tools may be different, and that's perfectly fine. The goal is sustainable focus and self-kindness, not perfection ✨.
Wanting a soulmate who cherishes you as you are is healthy and wise. The right person won't ask you to trim away parts of yourself, but love you for who you actually are. They will delight in the whole you—your humor, your values, your everyday tenderness—and yes, the body you're learning to celebrate 💞.
I love that you're finding joy in expression. Beautiful, comfortable lingerie can be both practical and affirming, and Lane Bryant's Cacique line includes some lovely pieces. Enjoying flowery designs or softer fabrics isn't superficial; it's a small, everyday way to feel at home in yourself 🌷. Those little comforts make conversations lighter, connections easier, and quiet moments more peaceful.
Feel free to dive right in—there are fresh posts every day and a deep archive stretching back years, so you're in good company 💬📚. Share when it feels right, ask questions, revive an older thread if it speaks to you, and don't feel self-conscious about "saying it perfectly."
We're an all-ages, public forum, so we keep things friendly and thoughtful, yet there's plenty of room for real talk about life, identity, relationships, and self-care. Your voice adds to a long, living conversation that's helped countless people find words for what they're feeling.
We're happy you're here, Kiki 😊. Take your time settling in, and reach out anytime if you'd like pointers to corners of the forum that fit your interests. I'm looking forward to seeing you around the site.
Warmly,
—Susan
I'm really glad you introduced yourself. It takes courage to say where you are with your body and feelings, and that kind of honesty makes this place safer for everyone. You absolutely belong here 🧡.
Our community spans many paths and orientations; being heterosexual doesn't make you any less part of us. What matters is that you're here, engaging in a supportive space where we look out for one another.
It sounds like you've been navigating meaningful changes—weight shifts, ADHD/OCD medication—and you're learning to appreciate the breasts you have now. Many of us recognize that mix of surprise, curiosity, and complicated emotions when a body changes. Choosing to meet those changes with kindness is real progress. That quiet self-acceptance steadies you and gently teaches others how to meet you, too 🌱.
I also want you to know you're not alone with ADHD—I have it as well 🧠. ADHD isn't something you "work past" by ignoring; that usually backfires. What helps is using the supports your brain actually responds to. For me, a little background sound and a couple of harmless "distractions" make deep focus easier—a podcast murmuring, ambient music while I write. Your tools may be different, and that's perfectly fine. The goal is sustainable focus and self-kindness, not perfection ✨.
Wanting a soulmate who cherishes you as you are is healthy and wise. The right person won't ask you to trim away parts of yourself, but love you for who you actually are. They will delight in the whole you—your humor, your values, your everyday tenderness—and yes, the body you're learning to celebrate 💞.
I love that you're finding joy in expression. Beautiful, comfortable lingerie can be both practical and affirming, and Lane Bryant's Cacique line includes some lovely pieces. Enjoying flowery designs or softer fabrics isn't superficial; it's a small, everyday way to feel at home in yourself 🌷. Those little comforts make conversations lighter, connections easier, and quiet moments more peaceful.
Feel free to dive right in—there are fresh posts every day and a deep archive stretching back years, so you're in good company 💬📚. Share when it feels right, ask questions, revive an older thread if it speaks to you, and don't feel self-conscious about "saying it perfectly."
We're an all-ages, public forum, so we keep things friendly and thoughtful, yet there's plenty of room for real talk about life, identity, relationships, and self-care. Your voice adds to a long, living conversation that's helped countless people find words for what they're feeling.
We're happy you're here, Kiki 😊. Take your time settling in, and reach out anytime if you'd like pointers to corners of the forum that fit your interests. I'm looking forward to seeing you around the site.
Warmly,
—Susan
Title: Re: Lovely website!
Post by: Maid Marion on October 04, 2025, 10:04:57 AM
Post by: Maid Marion on October 04, 2025, 10:04:57 AM
Hi KikionKiki87,
Welcome!
Women like confidence in a partner. If you are confident enough to tell her about your dressing early on that will help your relationship.
Even better it isn't cross dressing but just the way you dress all the time! It is my "normal."
I think cross dressing is the most relatable term to the older guys I play golf with. The exact words aren't as important when you have two hours together to answer any questions that come up. Two hours for nine holes of golf and four hours for a round of 18. A lot of older golfers only play 9 hole rounds.
Cross Dressing got a bad reputation as relationship poison because of all the bad social pressure I saw growing up in the 1970s. Men hid their dressing and didn't tell their wives for a very long time so when they finally revealed their secret it broke the relationship apart.
Marion
Welcome!
Women like confidence in a partner. If you are confident enough to tell her about your dressing early on that will help your relationship.
Even better it isn't cross dressing but just the way you dress all the time! It is my "normal."
I think cross dressing is the most relatable term to the older guys I play golf with. The exact words aren't as important when you have two hours together to answer any questions that come up. Two hours for nine holes of golf and four hours for a round of 18. A lot of older golfers only play 9 hole rounds.
Cross Dressing got a bad reputation as relationship poison because of all the bad social pressure I saw growing up in the 1970s. Men hid their dressing and didn't tell their wives for a very long time so when they finally revealed their secret it broke the relationship apart.
Marion