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Title: New here – Finding my way
Post by: SimplyAmira on April 20, 2026, 05:27:39 PM
Post by: SimplyAmira on April 20, 2026, 05:27:39 PM
Hello. My name is Amira.
I am 55 years old and have spent my entire life playing the role of a husband and father. Outwardly, my life looks complete, but internally, I have struggled with a deep sense of being 'wrongly equipped' for as long as I can remember.
I am writing this because the weight of my double life is becoming harder to carry. I haven't started any physical transition yet, but the disconnect between my body and my soul is a constant, physical ache. It's particularly difficult to navigate the intimacy of my marriage while hiding the fact that I feel like a woman.
I am at the very beginning of my journey, and I'm looking for a place where I can speak my truth without masks. I need to connect with other women who understand what it's like to realize who you are later in life, and who know the complex balance between self-preservation and the love we have for our families.
I'm not looking to rush into anything, I just need to know that I'm not alone in this 'middle space.' I hope to find some peace and sisterhood here among people who speak the same language of the heart.
I am 55 years old and have spent my entire life playing the role of a husband and father. Outwardly, my life looks complete, but internally, I have struggled with a deep sense of being 'wrongly equipped' for as long as I can remember.
I am writing this because the weight of my double life is becoming harder to carry. I haven't started any physical transition yet, but the disconnect between my body and my soul is a constant, physical ache. It's particularly difficult to navigate the intimacy of my marriage while hiding the fact that I feel like a woman.
I am at the very beginning of my journey, and I'm looking for a place where I can speak my truth without masks. I need to connect with other women who understand what it's like to realize who you are later in life, and who know the complex balance between self-preservation and the love we have for our families.
I'm not looking to rush into anything, I just need to know that I'm not alone in this 'middle space.' I hope to find some peace and sisterhood here among people who speak the same language of the heart.
Title: Re: New here – Finding my way
Post by: ChrissyRyan on April 20, 2026, 05:33:33 PM
Post by: ChrissyRyan on April 20, 2026, 05:33:33 PM
Hi!
Welcome Amira!
The official welcoming crew will be by momentarily. In the meantime, enjoy exploring Susan's Web site.
Chrissy
Welcome Amira!
The official welcoming crew will be by momentarily. In the meantime, enjoy exploring Susan's Web site.
Chrissy
Title: Re: New here – Finding my way
Post by: Lori Dee on April 20, 2026, 05:33:47 PM
Post by: Lori Dee on April 20, 2026, 05:33:47 PM
Hello Amira,
I'm Lori Dee. Welcome to Susan's Place!
Thank you for that wonderful introduction.
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You are certainly in the right place. Our members' stories represent the experience of real people living with the very things you mention. We have people here at every phase of their journey, and from all over the world. When you are here, you are never alone.
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I'm Lori Dee. Welcome to Susan's Place!
Thank you for that wonderful introduction.
We strive to make this a safe space for you to find information and share your thoughts and comments. No matter who you are, you are always welcome at Susan's Place.
You are certainly in the right place. Our members' stories represent the experience of real people living with the very things you mention. We have people here at every phase of their journey, and from all over the world. When you are here, you are never alone.
When you click on the HOME button, you will see a page listing all of the various sub-forums by category and topic. Each sub-forum includes a description of what it is about, as well as any guidelines for posting.
Please keep in mind when posting that this is an ALL-AGES PUBLIC Forum and the internet never forgets. Do not post anything that you do not want to be made public.
I will add links below that are important for new and returning members.
Pay special attention to the links in RED.
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Once again, welcome to Susan's Place!
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Title: Re: New here – Finding my way
Post by: Alana Ashleigh on April 20, 2026, 05:57:34 PM
Post by: Alana Ashleigh on April 20, 2026, 05:57:34 PM
Hi Amira.
Glad you're here
Alana
Glad you're here
Alana
Title: Re: New here – Finding my way
Post by: Dawn Kellie on April 20, 2026, 06:02:35 PM
Post by: Dawn Kellie on April 20, 2026, 06:02:35 PM
Hello Amira
You have found a welcoming place
You have found a welcoming place
Title: Re: New here – Finding my way
Post by: Stottie Girl on April 20, 2026, 06:18:15 PM
Post by: Stottie Girl on April 20, 2026, 06:18:15 PM
Hello Amira. Nice to meet you.
I'm a 50 year old transwoman from the UK, whilst I can't offer help with relationships as I have no experience in that area, there are plenty of others who have been in or are currently in the same position as yourself. Check out some of the members blogs and other threads. There is a huge amount of advice and personal accounts that can help you. But don't be afraid to ask questions. We are here to support each other.
I look forward to hearing more about you.
Sarah xx
I'm a 50 year old transwoman from the UK, whilst I can't offer help with relationships as I have no experience in that area, there are plenty of others who have been in or are currently in the same position as yourself. Check out some of the members blogs and other threads. There is a huge amount of advice and personal accounts that can help you. But don't be afraid to ask questions. We are here to support each other.
I look forward to hearing more about you.
Sarah xx
Title: Re: New here – Finding my way
Post by: tgirlamg on April 20, 2026, 06:25:40 PM
Post by: tgirlamg on April 20, 2026, 06:25:40 PM
Amira!
Welcome Aboard Dear Sister!
You have landed in a fine place indeed to find the open ears... open hearts and support you seek!... many of us come to the same place you are now around the half century mark and believe me... it is a wonderful starting place. The answers you seek... how to make your life one that finally serves the soul within are out there and... those answers will be worth all your efforts to seek out... 🌻
From where you are now, it may appear as difficult as climbing Mt Everest but, you are among a lot of experienced mountain climbers here who can tell you that such things are not only possible... But the most glorious of undertakings🌻
Amazing things patiently await you!
Onward We Go Brave Sister!
Ashley 💕
Welcome Aboard Dear Sister!
You have landed in a fine place indeed to find the open ears... open hearts and support you seek!... many of us come to the same place you are now around the half century mark and believe me... it is a wonderful starting place. The answers you seek... how to make your life one that finally serves the soul within are out there and... those answers will be worth all your efforts to seek out... 🌻
From where you are now, it may appear as difficult as climbing Mt Everest but, you are among a lot of experienced mountain climbers here who can tell you that such things are not only possible... But the most glorious of undertakings🌻
Amazing things patiently await you!
Onward We Go Brave Sister!
Ashley 💕
Title: Re: New here – Finding my way
Post by: Rochelle on April 20, 2026, 07:09:06 PM
Post by: Rochelle on April 20, 2026, 07:09:06 PM
Welcome to Susan's Place! It's truly wonderful to have you with us—we're glad you found your way here. 💚
Title: Re: New here – Finding my way
Post by: Dawn Kellie on April 20, 2026, 07:25:58 PM
Post by: Dawn Kellie on April 20, 2026, 07:25:58 PM
I'm happy to share anything i can.
Title: Re: New here – Finding my way
Post by: Pema on April 20, 2026, 09:22:32 PM
Post by: Pema on April 20, 2026, 09:22:32 PM
Hi, Amira. You are definitely not alone, and we're happy to have you join us here.
I was 61 when I figured out I'm transgender (a year ago), so there are a few of us doing this "later in life."
Taking it slow is a good plan. That gives you an opportunity to feel your way through things as you make adjustments.
Ha det bra,
Pema
I was 61 when I figured out I'm transgender (a year ago), so there are a few of us doing this "later in life."
Taking it slow is a good plan. That gives you an opportunity to feel your way through things as you make adjustments.
Ha det bra,
Pema