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hi i am nicole a post op mtf trans who had sexual reassignment surgery 1 month ago

as a guy i always identify as a girl i trastioned for two years and finally got the surgery i want my life is more complete as a girl i hated being a guy i always dressed as a girl went by girls name never the name i was given at birth

since my surgery i feel totally complete and i wish i would have done this sooner now that i am a girl anyone have pointers and what a girl should wear help m with makeup tips tell me how to paint my toenails and nail and what bra size i would need becasue i never wore a bra at all

i feel like if i went to buy a bra everyone in the store will judge me for beinmg trans and it weird for me now to use the female bathroom but it feels great to know i am who i am supposed to be not who i was born to be my gender therapist said i will encounter people who are against trans people and now i have changed my birth certificate driver license and all legal documentsto my feale name the obstcalse i over came are judging by other people who dont know what it means to be trans my gender  therpaist told me not listen to what people say becasaue they dont knopw how it feels to be trans and i should apperciate who i am and w3hat is in the future for me

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Hello Nicole.

Welcome to Susan's.

I look forward to reading more about you.

Hello and Welcome to Susan's Place. We're happy you joined us here. 💚

Quote from: NicoleBamdad on Yesterday at 10:03:06 PMsince my surgery i feel totally complete and i wish i would have done this sooner now that i am a girl anyone have pointers and what a girl should wear help m with makeup tips tell me how to paint my toenails and nail and what bra size i would need becasue i never wore a bra at all

Hello Nicole,

I am very curious what you mean by that you transitioned for two years before your surgery. Was hair, clothing, makeup, and bras not part of all that? Was it just a social transition, such as name change, identity documents, and medical records? Were you seeing a gender therapist or mental health professional during this time? What obstacles did you encounter with transitioning, and how were you able to overcome them?

We look forward to knowing more about your journey.

Welcome Nicole!


Chrissy

Quote from: NicoleBamdad on Yesterday at 10:03:06 PMhii am nicole a post op mtf trans who had sexual reassignment surgery 1 month ago

as a guy i always identify as a girl i trastioned for two years and finally got the surgery i want my life is more complete as a girl i hated being a guy i always dressed as a girl went by girls name never the name i was given at birth

since my surgery i feel totally complete and i wish i would have done this sooner now that i am a girl anyone have pointers and what a girl should wear help m with makeup tips tell me how to paint my toenails and nail and what bra size i would need becasue i never wore a bra at all

i feel like if i went to buy a bra everyone in the store will judge me for beinmg trans and it weird for me now to use the female bathroom but it feels great to know i am who i am supposed to be not who i was born to be

Hi Nicole,

I'm Sarah, 50 from the UK. It's lovely to meet you.

I dumped a load of possibly useless bra info on one of the threads you commented on. Might help you there.

Make up wise there is a section on here all about make up tips so could be worth browsing there but to be honest I have found that a combination of YouTube tutorials and Google Gemini has been invaluable to me for learning makeup. I only really started learning properly since around March time and have made many mistakes along the way! I would recommend taking selfies as you learn and try to do make up everyday if you can. If you have the pics you can work out which styles work best for you. Don't be afraid to experiment too.

Anyway welcome to Susans!

Sarah xx

Hi Nicole,

Learn your skin tone and undertone.  This will help you choose make up colors that look good on you.  It  will also help with selecting clothes.

Contact the stores around you to see if you can get a bra fitting.
It is a very competitive industry so any sales person who is disrespectful will likely be out out a job.

Marion                                                                                                             

Quote from: Maid Marion on Today at 11:39:17 AMHi Nicole,

Learn your skin tone and undertone.  This will help you choose make up colors that look good on you.  It  will also help with selecting clothes.

Contact the stores around you to see if you can get a bra fitting.
It is a very competitive industry so any sales person who is disrespectful will likely be out out a job.

Marion                                                                                                             

Yes, skin tone and undertone. This is important!

Hi there, Nicole!

Quote from: Stottie Girl on Today at 12:59:13 PMYes, skin tone and undertone. This is important!

Undertone? What is that?

Quote from: Laura Squirrel on Today at 01:02:15 PMHi there, Nicole!



Undertone? What is that?

Your skin can have either warm, neutral or cool undertones. These subtle tones affect what sort of make up (like foundation, concealer etc) suits your skin. You can tell your undertone by looking at your veins. If they are blueish or purple colour that means a cool undertone, if they are greenish in colour that is a warm undertone. If you are somewhere in the middle that is a neutral undertone. Cosmetics usually state what colours are for which undertones to help you get a good match.

Ohhhhh! Well, mine look blue. But nowadays, I don't bother with it. The way I saw it, if I can pass in a tiny restroom when being nose to nose with women, I'm fine. I will never, ever believe that someone not tripping out in the women's room is "just being nice". Nah. I don't buy that at all. I've seen far too much hatred in this world to believe otherwise.

thank you everyone who took the time out to give me advice.

i went to victoria secert to buy a bra and panties and everyone there was so nice and noone judged me at all. so nice they took my bra measuremnets and it turns out i am a 44dd, thats after i got breast implant.

i apperciate everyone trying to help me but my gender therapist and all you people here have been very helpful. i hope when i need help or advice again that you people will help me like u did now.

thanks again for everything i just made a bunch of friends here