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Title: my baby came out to me today
Post by: Hannah on November 04, 2009, 11:46:51 AM
Post by: Hannah on November 04, 2009, 11:46:51 AM
I love my big guy, he has stuck by me through thick and thin. He's watched me change and felt the polar shifts in my identity and emotions, and been there to protect me and dry my tears. I love him with all my heart and owe him more than words can describe.
This morning after a nice breakfast he told me that he too, is trans and wants to transition. My ffs account is about halfway full, but I can't turn my back on him, I have to help him too. This slows down my personal plans, but I love him too much. Anyway I'd really appreciate any comments or suggestions because I don't want his surgeon to rip me off.
Anyway here he is pre-everything
(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fimg88.imageshack.us%2Fimg88%2F6425%2Fotis.jpg&hash=b7f632e75d633b94e6fd718cab374b689e9b27e7)
*sigh* because I love him
(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fimg88.imageshack.us%2Fimg88%2F8263%2Fmoneyw.jpg&hash=75c780a7f1adf5be51253662179b81f6e033364d)
This is what the doc thinks he can do. I have no experience with cross breed transitioning so I'm afraid I'm being taken advantage of.
(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fimg88.imageshack.us%2Fimg88%2F2830%2Fpict0084r.jpg&hash=4d92946b214634e139bf039a34992535774c7576)
This morning after a nice breakfast he told me that he too, is trans and wants to transition. My ffs account is about halfway full, but I can't turn my back on him, I have to help him too. This slows down my personal plans, but I love him too much. Anyway I'd really appreciate any comments or suggestions because I don't want his surgeon to rip me off.
Anyway here he is pre-everything
(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fimg88.imageshack.us%2Fimg88%2F6425%2Fotis.jpg&hash=b7f632e75d633b94e6fd718cab374b689e9b27e7)
*sigh* because I love him
(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fimg88.imageshack.us%2Fimg88%2F8263%2Fmoneyw.jpg&hash=75c780a7f1adf5be51253662179b81f6e033364d)
This is what the doc thinks he can do. I have no experience with cross breed transitioning so I'm afraid I'm being taken advantage of.
(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fimg88.imageshack.us%2Fimg88%2F2830%2Fpict0084r.jpg&hash=4d92946b214634e139bf039a34992535774c7576)
Title: Re: my baby came out to me today
Post by: LordKAT on November 04, 2009, 11:59:06 AM
Post by: LordKAT on November 04, 2009, 11:59:06 AM
awwwww........
guess its time to look into (transbreed?) specialized vets.
guess its time to look into (transbreed?) specialized vets.
Title: Re: my baby came out to me today
Post by: Hannah on November 04, 2009, 12:08:01 PM
Post by: Hannah on November 04, 2009, 12:08:01 PM
The snout reduction procedure is the most expensive. Unfortunately there isn't much they can do about tongue size as he is starting so long after puberty, so he has to just hide it as best he can.
Title: Re: my baby came out to me today
Post by: FairyGirl on November 04, 2009, 12:18:52 PM
Post by: FairyGirl on November 04, 2009, 12:18:52 PM
Quote from: Becca on November 04, 2009, 12:08:01 PMUnfortunately there isn't much they can do about tongue size as he is starting so long after puberty, so he has to just hide it as best he can.
yeah I have the same problem :-\
Title: Re: my baby came out to me today
Post by: heatherrose on November 04, 2009, 12:28:45 PM
Post by: heatherrose on November 04, 2009, 12:28:45 PM
Quote from: FairyGirl on November 04, 2009, 12:18:52 PMyeah I have the same problem.
She says licking her eyebrows. >:-)
Title: Re: my baby came out to me today
Post by: Hannah on November 04, 2009, 01:18:09 PM
Post by: Hannah on November 04, 2009, 01:18:09 PM
First things first, he needs therapy. I put in a call to Ceasar the dog whisperer. This is adding up but on the bright side he's already had an orchiectomy.
Title: Re: my baby came out to me today
Post by: jesse on November 05, 2009, 03:52:45 AM
Post by: jesse on November 05, 2009, 03:52:45 AM
omg this post made me laugh ty becca i needed it
jessica
jessica
Title: Re: my baby came out to me today
Post by: Hannah on November 05, 2009, 11:50:10 AM
Post by: Hannah on November 05, 2009, 11:50:10 AM
This is no laughing matter, my baby boy is in a lot of pain. He should be greatful though, I did some research and the surgical options available to transkitties are rather limited.
Title: Re: my baby came out to me today
Post by: Alyssa M. on November 05, 2009, 03:22:50 PM
Post by: Alyssa M. on November 05, 2009, 03:22:50 PM
OMG! So your dog is like a furry or something?!! :o
Title: Re: my baby came out to me today
Post by: Ali Noir on November 06, 2009, 12:39:44 PM
Post by: Ali Noir on November 06, 2009, 12:39:44 PM
Best of luck to your baby hun. :] hehe
xoxo
xoxo
Title: Re: my baby came out to me today
Post by: Kurzar on November 06, 2009, 12:45:59 PM
Post by: Kurzar on November 06, 2009, 12:45:59 PM
Quote from: Alyssa M. on November 05, 2009, 03:22:50 PM
OMG! So your dog is like a furry or something?!! :o
Hey I resemble that remark >.> I'm a furry =P