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Title: *Squeee!* I have a bf!
Post by: gothique11 on May 12, 2010, 09:43:22 PM
Post by: gothique11 on May 12, 2010, 09:43:22 PM
Yay, I'm so excited. I have a boyfriend now. :)
My best friend, who has known him for a long time, introduced me to him. We hit it off, talked all night, and then I went to meet up with him for coffee the next morning (we both didn't sleep, 'cause we were talking on the phone all night, and txting, and emailing at the same time). We spent all day together and then I spent the night over. *blushes*
I told him about my trans past -- which is always, always scary. I never really know how to bring that up, but since it started to go somewhere I thought I should mention it.
He was okay with it, it just took him a minute to figure out what I was talking about. He's never met someone transgendered before, but he thinks it's cool and said that saying something so personal and honest meant a lot to him.
He's really sweet and a gentle man. And handsome, too!
My best friend, who has known him for a long time, introduced me to him. We hit it off, talked all night, and then I went to meet up with him for coffee the next morning (we both didn't sleep, 'cause we were talking on the phone all night, and txting, and emailing at the same time). We spent all day together and then I spent the night over. *blushes*
I told him about my trans past -- which is always, always scary. I never really know how to bring that up, but since it started to go somewhere I thought I should mention it.
He was okay with it, it just took him a minute to figure out what I was talking about. He's never met someone transgendered before, but he thinks it's cool and said that saying something so personal and honest meant a lot to him.
He's really sweet and a gentle man. And handsome, too!
Title: Re: *Squeee!* I have a bf!
Post by: Janet_Girl on May 12, 2010, 09:47:45 PM
Post by: Janet_Girl on May 12, 2010, 09:47:45 PM
Sweet Gothique. I hope it works out for you. :D
Title: Re: *Squeee!* I have a bf!
Post by: confused on May 12, 2010, 09:48:28 PM
Post by: confused on May 12, 2010, 09:48:28 PM
YAY! :D , seems like a nice time ;) . and a nice guy
best wishes with everything :)
best wishes with everything :)
Title: Re: *Squeee!* I have a bf!
Post by: Elijah3291 on May 12, 2010, 10:11:02 PM
Post by: Elijah3291 on May 12, 2010, 10:11:02 PM
thats so exciting!
yay for boyfriends!
yay for boyfriends!
Title: Re: *Squeee!* I have a bf!
Post by: Kristyn on May 12, 2010, 10:41:31 PM
Post by: Kristyn on May 12, 2010, 10:41:31 PM
That's really cool! I'm happy for you and I hope it works out! :)
Title: Re: *Squeee!* I have a bf!
Post by: V M on May 12, 2010, 11:17:54 PM
Post by: V M on May 12, 2010, 11:17:54 PM
That's great ;D Best wishes... I hope it all goes well
Title: Re: *Squeee!* I have a bf!
Post by: FairyGirl on May 12, 2010, 11:28:47 PM
Post by: FairyGirl on May 12, 2010, 11:28:47 PM
Quote from: gothique11 on May 12, 2010, 09:43:22 PMwe were talking on the phone all night, and txting, and emailing at the same time
Don't you just love technology? :laugh: This is wonderful news, I wish you happiness in your new relationship!
Title: Re: *Squeee!* I have a bf!
Post by: Natalie3174 on May 13, 2010, 01:13:44 AM
Post by: Natalie3174 on May 13, 2010, 01:13:44 AM
Its good you have a boyfriend just remember when you are out with him to concentrate on where you are, what you are doing and you should be fine.
Title: Re: *Squeee!* I have a bf!
Post by: rejennyrated on May 13, 2010, 02:09:54 AM
Post by: rejennyrated on May 13, 2010, 02:09:54 AM
Good news. I love that mushy excited feeling when you are first in love.
I hope it goes really well for you.
I hope it goes really well for you.
Title: Re: *Squeee!* I have a bf!
Post by: Ashley Allison on May 13, 2010, 02:26:44 AM
Post by: Ashley Allison on May 13, 2010, 02:26:44 AM
Congrats :) :)
Title: Re: *Squeee!* I have a bf!
Post by: lightvi on May 13, 2010, 03:06:38 AM
Post by: lightvi on May 13, 2010, 03:06:38 AM
He sounds like a really nice understand person! Congrats! =] :icon_eyebrow:
Title: Re: *Squeee!* I have a bf!
Post by: Suzy on May 13, 2010, 07:15:57 AM
Post by: Suzy on May 13, 2010, 07:15:57 AM
Awesome!
You deserve it, honey. Enjoy yourself.
You deserve it, honey. Enjoy yourself.
Title: Re: *Squeee!* I have a bf!
Post by: Randi on May 13, 2010, 08:00:33 AM
Post by: Randi on May 13, 2010, 08:00:33 AM
Great News! There are still nice people out there and it would appear that you found one! Hope all goes well.
Title: Re: *Squeee!* I have a bf!
Post by: AmySmiles on May 13, 2010, 05:24:33 PM
Post by: AmySmiles on May 13, 2010, 05:24:33 PM
Congratses!!! Best wishes to ya :D
Title: Re: *Squeee!* I have a bf!
Post by: xTwoOfHeartsx on May 14, 2010, 01:04:31 AM
Post by: xTwoOfHeartsx on May 14, 2010, 01:04:31 AM
YAY! This is so awesome!
(although I already knew from facebook.. haha.. btw.. o hai, Natalie! XD )
(although I already knew from facebook.. haha.. btw.. o hai, Natalie! XD )
Title: Re: *Squeee!* I have a bf!
Post by: Iceprincess on May 14, 2010, 10:25:22 AM
Post by: Iceprincess on May 14, 2010, 10:25:22 AM
Quote from: ƃuıxǝʌ on May 12, 2010, 09:49:46 PMYou know how the internet goes tho; pics or it didn't happen! :D
¬_¬ you beat me to it!
lol anyway, congratulations girl! :D I hope everything goes well :P
And BTW, making out with someone you love is THE BEST thing in the world! (so many good memories come to my mind... )
Title: Re: *Squeee!* I have a bf!
Post by: Little Dragon on May 14, 2010, 10:51:42 AM
Post by: Little Dragon on May 14, 2010, 10:51:42 AM
EEEE!! congrats for meeting a decent man :) I hope he treats you good forever and showers you with love everyday ;D
Title: Re: *Squeee!* I have a bf!
Post by: Dana Lane on May 14, 2010, 10:52:34 AM
Post by: Dana Lane on May 14, 2010, 10:52:34 AM
Damn, I almost started crying! I am so happy for you!
Title: Re: *Squeee!* I have a bf!
Post by: gothique11 on May 15, 2010, 04:07:39 AM
Post by: gothique11 on May 15, 2010, 04:07:39 AM
Thnx everyone :) I didn't expect such a huge response. LOL But that's cool. :)
We're just taking it slow, getting to know each other, etc. I had a good night with him last night -- we stayed up talking for hours, and playing with some DJ equipment he had and talking a lot about music, life, and other things. I don't think we got to bed until around 6 am, and then we just snuggled and fell asleep. :)
I'm hoping it keeps going. :)
I'm going out of town for a week, so I'm going to miss him.
As for pictures, I wouldn't post one up unless he said I could (sorry folks).
Post Merge: May 15, 2010, 04:12:10 AM
:p going out of town to visit my mom. I think it's funny, I've met his mom twice and we've only been dating a week. His mom took us out for lunch, and then he went to apply for a job near by (which it looks like he's gonna get) and her and I just talked girl talk. He's very close to his mom, so I think it's good that her mom likes me and sees me as a good person. :)
He's so nice. He treats me with respect, opens doors for me, and is a true gentle man. I'm stunned, actually. I might have known him for only a week, but my best friend has known him for 9-ish years and she is the one who match-maker'd us. LOL
We're just taking it slow, getting to know each other, etc. I had a good night with him last night -- we stayed up talking for hours, and playing with some DJ equipment he had and talking a lot about music, life, and other things. I don't think we got to bed until around 6 am, and then we just snuggled and fell asleep. :)
I'm hoping it keeps going. :)
I'm going out of town for a week, so I'm going to miss him.
As for pictures, I wouldn't post one up unless he said I could (sorry folks).
Post Merge: May 15, 2010, 04:12:10 AM
:p going out of town to visit my mom. I think it's funny, I've met his mom twice and we've only been dating a week. His mom took us out for lunch, and then he went to apply for a job near by (which it looks like he's gonna get) and her and I just talked girl talk. He's very close to his mom, so I think it's good that her mom likes me and sees me as a good person. :)
He's so nice. He treats me with respect, opens doors for me, and is a true gentle man. I'm stunned, actually. I might have known him for only a week, but my best friend has known him for 9-ish years and she is the one who match-maker'd us. LOL
Title: Re: *Squeee!* I have a bf!
Post by: shanetastic on May 17, 2010, 11:42:31 PM
Post by: shanetastic on May 17, 2010, 11:42:31 PM
That's awesome!! congrats!!! :]
That's totally awesome that he was accepting of you. Glad you find someone that was cool with it!
That's totally awesome that he was accepting of you. Glad you find someone that was cool with it!
Title: Re: *Squeee!* I have a bf!
Post by: jesse on May 18, 2010, 02:09:36 AM
Post by: jesse on May 18, 2010, 02:09:36 AM
yay gothigue big hugs sis let us know how its going keeping my fingers crossed for you
jessica
jessica
Title: Re: *Squeee!* I have a bf!
Post by: justmeinoz on May 18, 2010, 09:03:51 AM
Post by: justmeinoz on May 18, 2010, 09:03:51 AM
big hugs too! :)
Title: Re: *Squeee!* I have a bf!
Post by: Rock_chick on May 18, 2010, 05:22:31 PM
Post by: Rock_chick on May 18, 2010, 05:22:31 PM
hehe, good for you hun.
Title: Re: *Squeee!* I have a bf!
Post by: pretty pauline on May 19, 2010, 09:56:53 AM
Post by: pretty pauline on May 19, 2010, 09:56:53 AM
Quote from: gothique11 on May 15, 2010, 04:07:39 AMCongratulations girl and don't be stunned just enjoy every moment of your new boyfriend, its always an exciting moment when we meet a new boyfriend who knows how to treat a girl, treasure it!
He's so nice. He treats me with respect, opens doors for me, and is a true gentle man. I'm stunned, actually.
p
Title: Re: *Squeee!* I have a bf!
Post by: Little Dragon on May 19, 2010, 10:49:51 AM
Post by: Little Dragon on May 19, 2010, 10:49:51 AM
I hope all single tgirls find themselves a nice chivalrous boyfriend to look after them and care for them :) Theyre the best in the world ^^
Title: Re: *Squeee!* I have a bf!
Post by: Katelyn-W on May 19, 2010, 04:20:55 PM
Post by: Katelyn-W on May 19, 2010, 04:20:55 PM
Quote from: Little Dragon on May 19, 2010, 10:49:51 AM
I hope all single tgirls find themselves a nice chivalrous boyfriend to look after them and care for them :) Theyre the best in the world ^^
Ewww boys are icky :P
Title: Re: *Squeee!* I have a bf!
Post by: V M on May 19, 2010, 04:27:08 PM
Post by: V M on May 19, 2010, 04:27:08 PM
Quote from: Katelyn-W on May 19, 2010, 04:20:55 PMDepends on the boy and what kinda icky he's got goin' :laugh:
Ewww boys are icky :P
Meet the right one and you may just want to jump all over his icky >:-)
Title: Re: *Squeee!* I have a bf!
Post by: Katelyn-W on May 19, 2010, 04:40:56 PM
Post by: Katelyn-W on May 19, 2010, 04:40:56 PM
Quote from: Virginia Marie on May 19, 2010, 04:27:08 PM
Depends on the boy and what kinda icky he's got goin' :laugh:
Meet the right one and you may just want to jump all over his icky >:-)
Eww no way :P
Besides just leaves more for the rest of you ;)
Anyways I'll stop being off topic :laugh:, grats to you gothique, hope all goes well :)
Title: Re: *Squeee!* I have a bf!
Post by: FairyGirl on May 19, 2010, 08:06:45 PM
Post by: FairyGirl on May 19, 2010, 08:06:45 PM
Quote from: Virginia Marie on May 19, 2010, 04:27:08 PM
Depends on the boy and what kinda icky he's got goin' :laugh:
Meet the right one and you may just want to jump all over his icky >:-)
:P I wish you would stop talking about boys and their icky, I'm gonna have to take a cold shower now lol
Title: Re: *Squeee!* I have a bf!
Post by: BunnyBee on May 19, 2010, 08:22:08 PM
Post by: BunnyBee on May 19, 2010, 08:22:08 PM
Quote from: Virginia Marie on May 19, 2010, 04:27:08 PM
Depends on the boy and what kinda icky he's got goin' :laugh:
Meet the right one and you may just want to jump all over his icky >:-)
Haha!
Title: Re: *Squeee!* I have a bf!
Post by: SilverShadow on May 20, 2010, 03:43:50 PM
Post by: SilverShadow on May 20, 2010, 03:43:50 PM
Quote from: Katelyn-W on May 19, 2010, 04:40:56 PM
Eww no way :P
Besides just leaves more for the rest of you ;)
I totally agree with you, Katelyn. :D
And congrats, gothique. As others have said, you deserve the happiness, hun. :)
Title: Re: *Squeee!* I have a bf!
Post by: nathan on June 02, 2010, 10:01:46 PM
Post by: nathan on June 02, 2010, 10:01:46 PM
Quote from: ƃuıxǝʌ on May 12, 2010, 09:49:46 PMYou know how the internet goes tho; pics or it didn't happen! :DYou wouldn't know him, he's Canadian... :D
Congrats, Natalie! He sounds really great. :)
...and I'm totally not trying to steal your name, honestly. I'll probably go by Rene after everything is said n' done.