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Title: male/female glasses?
Post by: Edge on June 13, 2012, 08:50:03 AM
What are "male" glasses? How are they different from "female" glasses?
It's been suggested I get "male" glasses to help me pass, but I don't know the difference. :embarrassed:
Title: Re: male/female glasses?
Post by: Nero on June 13, 2012, 08:57:39 AM
There's usually a male and female section at the glasses store. Sometimes there's a selection of 'unisex' too. Male glasses are often larger (for larger heads, bone structures, etc). I'm not sure if it's universal but the female glasses were too tight in fit compared to the male ones last time I bought some.

You'll know which is which because all the cool colors will be in the female section.  ::)
Title: Re: male/female glasses?
Post by: anita on June 14, 2012, 02:06:47 PM
They are significantly different, ;) at least i my opinion. Girls use rather round, large, shapely glasses, and sometimes smaller but will have some style aspect into it, and a million choices for frame colours. We never find it enough still. Men usually prefer simpler shapes, things that actually scream male! Perhaps you are using something feminine, just go to a shop, and see what makes you look more masculine. Trust me, just pick the most boring one :P lol.

-Anita
Title: Re: male/female glasses?
Post by: Robert Scott on June 14, 2012, 02:10:00 PM
I recently got new glasses ... I got mine from the male section and I think they make a difference
Title: Re: male/female glasses?
Post by: auburnAubrey on June 14, 2012, 04:01:36 PM
the frame and lens size differ greatly, although the newer "hip" look for men are large lenses... much more gender neutral.

but most often, women's frames will be more delicate, and have ornate stems...

Men's will be more streamlined.

Just google "men's sunglasses" (or glasses) and women's under images, and take a look.  Frames do make a large difference.
Title: Re: male/female glasses?
Post by: Pica Pica on June 14, 2012, 04:22:32 PM
I'm not sure, I picked two pairs - one from male and one from female but I can't remember which is which. I think the male looking ones are female and the female looking ones are male, I'm not sure.
Title: Re: male/female glasses?
Post by: Carbon on June 14, 2012, 04:45:02 PM
I can't tell consistently in the store. I need them to tell me which is which.

When I was younger I got some "male" glasses that were very well recieved. I left them in a classroom somewhere and the next day a student held them up and said "I'VE FOUND SOME GLASSES." (it was a big room) "THEY'RE GIRL GLASSES. HAS ANYONE LOST SOME GIRL GLASSES?" I couldn't see the glasses because, well, I didn't have my glasses and I was too embarassed to suggest that the "girl glasses" might actually be mine. When I went and checked after class, though, they were indeed my glasses.

Which apparently means other people can't tell either.
Title: Re: male/female glasses?
Post by: V M on June 14, 2012, 05:05:07 PM
When I had to get new glasses the place I went to didn't have a male and female section  :)   The various frames were all categorized by price range so I just picked out some frames in my price range that looked feminine to me... Somewhat light weight metallic purple  ;D

The lady working there gave me a rather cheeky smile, said they looked good on me and happily rang them up  :)
Title: Re: male/female glasses?
Post by: Edge on June 14, 2012, 05:21:57 PM
Hmm I prefer metallic colours (or black, but bronze and the like are better) to colours like purple or whatever when it comes to glasses. Is there anything I should know about those colours?
I found some steampunk looking ones. ;D Well, sort of. They're round and gold coloured. With my luck, they're probably "girly" and I just can't tell. ::)
How about rectangular shapes. Are those "girly?"
Title: Re: male/female glasses?
Post by: auburnAubrey on June 14, 2012, 05:44:24 PM
Are we talking about sunglasses or everyday glasses?

For sunglasses, take a look at http://www.sunglasshut.com/ (http://www.sunglasshut.com/)  They have the site broken down in men's and women's.

That should give you an idea which look feminine.  (There are a lot more sunglasses that are "men's" today that would have been "women's" before... but the site will give you a good overview.)

At least you can get an idea.
Title: Re: male/female glasses?
Post by: Edge on June 14, 2012, 05:50:14 PM
Quote from: auburnAubrey on June 14, 2012, 05:44:24 PM
Are we talking about sunglasses or everyday glasses?
Every day glasses. I don't wear sunglasses although I probably should.
Title: Re: male/female glasses?
Post by: V M on June 14, 2012, 05:55:02 PM
Quote from: Edge on June 14, 2012, 05:21:57 PM
Hmm I prefer metallic colours (or black, but bronze and the like are better) to colours like purple or whatever when it comes to glasses. Is there anything I should know about those colours?
I found some steampunk looking ones. ;D Well, sort of. They're round and gold coloured. With my luck, they're probably "girly" and I just can't tell. ::)
How about rectangular shapes. Are those "girly?"

Possibly metallic wasn't the correct term  :)  Actually they are more of a silvery purple

You're quite a bit younger than I am so it is understandable that you would be more interested in whatever's on trend for your age group

My tastes have change quite a bit from my old death rocker days and although Ray Bans never really go out of style, I'm just not really into them anymore

Glasses are a fairly individual tastes kinda thing, you should just get whatever suits your fancy  :)
Title: Re: male/female glasses?
Post by: Edge on June 14, 2012, 06:05:01 PM
I have no idea what's on trend for my age group. I just like bronze, gold, silver, or black and prefer rectangular frames (unless they are really cool like the steampunk looking ones). Unfortunately, my current bronze, rectangular glasses are what get me read as female (along with my voice). Hence my current predicament (and I need to get new glasses anyway). What are Ray Bans?
Title: Re: male/female glasses?
Post by: V M on June 14, 2012, 06:27:25 PM
I think Ray Ban has been around since the 1930's  :)  These are the kind I use to get since the 70's

ORIGINAL WAYFARER
(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.ray-ban.com%2Fmedia%2Fcatalog%2Fproduct%2Fcache%2F1%2Fimage%2F840x490%2F9df78eab33525d08d6e5fb8d27136e95%2FR%2FB%2FRB2140-02.png&hash=0f0b136767da138e62bd7fb365e7c1732efc0d9c)

CLUBMASTER
(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.ray-ban.com%2Fmedia%2Fcatalog%2Fproduct%2Fcache%2F1%2Fimage%2F840x490%2F9df78eab33525d08d6e5fb8d27136e95%2FR%2FB%2FRB3016-01.png&hash=f9b2ae197e86126289fb3e685ea8fc8d0e3ca212)
Title: Re: male/female glasses?
Post by: Edge on June 14, 2012, 06:30:28 PM
Oh they look like that. My sister had some glasses like that. I prefer smaller, thinner ones myself.
Title: Re: male/female glasses?
Post by: auburnAubrey on June 14, 2012, 06:57:02 PM
Quote from: Edge on June 14, 2012, 06:05:01 PM
I have no idea what's on trend for my age group.

Here's another link for you:  http://www.lenscrafters.com/eyeglasses/9/eyeglasses/mens (http://www.lenscrafters.com/eyeglasses/9/eyeglasses/mens)

This will give you an overview of male frames / styles.  On the home page, I belive it has a "trending now" link, but I don't think it's broken down into men's / women's

EDIT:  They do have a "trends" on the menu just above the pictures of the glasses.. it's under the "filter" area there.  You'll see it.
Title: Re: male/female glasses?
Post by: V M on June 14, 2012, 07:00:41 PM
They make a bunch of different styles, those are just the type I use to get  :)  They are really well made but they do sit kinda heavy on your face and they're a bit too pricey for me these days

They are one of the original companies that almost all the other companies imitate

I like my light weight thin frames now  :)  Much more comfortable, I can hardly even feel them when they are on

Also I have sensitive eyes and have to get the transition lenses that turn into sunglasses outside  :)  So the less expensive the frames the better
Title: Re: male/female glasses?
Post by: Edge on June 14, 2012, 07:26:49 PM
Quote from: V M on June 14, 2012, 07:00:41 PM
Also I have sensitive eyes and have to get the transition lenses that turn into sunglasses outside  :)  So the less expensive the frames the better
lol Same, but I don't like sunglasses, so I just squint a lot. My lenses tend to be expensive though because my eyes suck, so I tend not to buy expensive frames.
Title: Re: male/female glasses?
Post by: wendy on June 14, 2012, 07:42:44 PM
It is so easy.  Boring Boring Boring

Try aviator.  Strong extra metal bar across top.

Colors are black or grey or brown.

Do not get a point on corners.  That's feminine!

Heavy is better.  You must leave an indentation in bridge of nose.

Do not upgrade to scratch resistant.  Scratches on lenses are totally male!

I love pansy designs on temples.  Do not get them.

I love combination colors.  Do not get them.

Make sure temples have springs so that you can bend them.

Make sure half your face is covered by glasses.

If it's stylish do not buy it.

Buy frame that can withstand tsunami.

If it is fragile then it is feminine.

Look for frames with strong weld joints.

Look for frames with adjustable nose pads.

It is so easy.

Continue to wear styles that are out of date.  Trendy is feminine!
Title: Re: male/female glasses?
Post by: wendy on June 14, 2012, 07:45:18 PM
Quote from: Edge on June 14, 2012, 07:26:49 PM
lol Same, but I don't like sunglasses, so I just squint a lot. My lenses tend to be expensive though because my eyes suck, so I tend not to buy expensive frames.

Yes!!! Expensive is feminine!  Buy durable and low price.  Heavy.

You want heavy.
Title: Re: male/female glasses?
Post by: Edge on June 14, 2012, 07:54:27 PM
I hate aviator, hate glasses that cover half my face, and dislike heavy. Am I being too picky?
Title: Re: male/female glasses?
Post by: wendy on June 14, 2012, 08:11:43 PM
Quote from: Edge on June 14, 2012, 07:54:27 PM
I hate aviator, hate glasses that cover half my face, and dislike heavy. Am I being too picky?

Not picky at all.

However I could have shipped you a dozen frames that still can take a beating!!!!  :)
Title: Re: male/female glasses?
Post by: Pica Pica on June 15, 2012, 11:39:48 AM
These are mine
(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fi297.photobucket.com%2Falbums%2Fmm208%2Fphairrose%2Fmonkey.jpg&hash=980288329e54c9a9e309d6d8d27ebd8b84ad9e1b)

I think they are female, I like um a lot though, they don't slip like my other ones.

I have some blank frames, they are little victorian banker-type glasses. When I get new lenses, I may lense these.
(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fi297.photobucket.com%2Falbums%2Fmm208%2Fphairrose%2FPhotoon2012-06-15at1736.jpg&hash=f42573e310fa3f57cc196915f85139a990d4c652)
(I look a little odd and sickly in this pic - what a monster).

And I stole this sunglasses of a kid.
(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fi297.photobucket.com%2Falbums%2Fmm208%2Fphairrose%2FPhotoon2012-06-15at1737.jpg&hash=1ac1ca0914f60cd8e28f42a66cfb21a9d58846c0)

Title: Re: male/female glasses?
Post by: wendy on June 15, 2012, 09:13:59 PM
Pica Pica you look good!

Edge I found two similar frames that are missing opposite temples.  You can remove one temple from one pair and add it to other to create an entire new frame with variations with temples.  Designer indeed!

Oh please how did I ever last as a guy.  It is so boring!

If it is stylish do not buy it.
Title: Re: male/female glasses?
Post by: Floritine on June 16, 2012, 09:14:26 AM
Quote from: Edge on June 14, 2012, 07:26:49 PM
lol Same, but I don't like sunglasses, so I just squint a lot. My lenses tend to be expensive though because my eyes suck, so I tend not to buy expensive frames.

Just a thought instead of glasses have you thought about contact lenses that way you can wear normal sunglasses that suit different activities that you do and in all kinds of light conditions ???
I've been wearing them for years with my light sensitive eyes the only down side for me is the cost esp the RGP's,

Cheers Tracy
Title: Re: male/female glasses?
Post by: Edge on June 16, 2012, 10:04:42 PM
I have thought of contacts, but I would have to wait until I can afford them as well as glasses (wearing contacts all the time is not good). Since my eyes are so bad, contacts are more expensive. Also, my son isn't potty trained yet. I am unwilling to stick my fingers in my eyes no matter how many times I wash my hands. Sorry for the ew factor there.
Nice, Pica. :)
Title: Re: male/female glasses?
Post by: aleon515 on July 10, 2012, 11:14:17 PM
Two words: Super Focus.  :D
(BTW, do you know those things are $$$$$ and really high tech)

--Jay Jay
Title: Re: male/female glasses?
Post by: Edge on July 13, 2012, 08:11:44 AM
I got some glasses. Now, I'm just waiting for them to come in. I get what people mean now! Well, I can't put my finger on exactly what makes my glasses masculine or feminine, but the new glasses I got definitely make me look more male. Yay! So excited.
Title: Re: male/female glasses?
Post by: Jamie D on July 19, 2012, 08:10:45 PM
Male frames

(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.movieguys.org%2Fwp-content%2Fuploads%2Fhansons-300x225.jpg&hash=1aab67aaf6196c8c95d50ee1fe2765d619c4fd3e)
Title: Re: male/female glasses?
Post by: aibeecee on July 20, 2012, 03:43:22 PM
Hehe... :D
Title: Re: male/female glasses?
Post by: Anna1993 on February 25, 2013, 09:48:19 AM
People sometimes say things like "female computer" or "women's car." Impossible to find meaning in these words. It's not.
Title: Re: male/female glasses?
Post by: faye on May 05, 2013, 10:31:51 PM
oh wow i just got glasses to replace my old ones.

This is how the scene went down.

-walking around the store I let myself float to the female section

*a girl working there walks up to me and says, "This is the girls section, i think the guys section is over there" blink blink

to which I answered, "yes I like how  colorful these are"

she smiled and then helped me pick some out

haha my friend laughed at the incident and i found it kind of funny albeit a little embarrassing too.

I ended up getting glasses with a clear frame. Hope you bought some you like.
Title: Re: male/female glasses?
Post by: NoAlternative on May 31, 2013, 04:29:56 AM
If you ever want to try on glasses without the possible embarrassment of standing in a store (I'm terrified of the sales assistants and other people staring at me) you can go to Zenni Optical, an online optical store. You can upload pictures of yourself and 'try on' all the different types of glasses.

You can select from male frames, female frames, or unisex frames. They have loads of different styles and you can buy just the frames if you want to try them on in person if you're unsure.

It's also a lot cheaper than buying at most optical stores.

(Bringing back a sliigghhttlly older post but I think everyone should know about this place. It's fantastic!)
Title: Re: male/female glasses?
Post by: Yukari-sensei on June 26, 2013, 08:53:06 PM
Quote from: NoAlternative on May 31, 2013, 04:29:56 AM
If you ever want to try on glasses without the possible embarrassment of standing in a store (I'm terrified of the sales assistants and other people staring at me) you can go to Zenni Optical, an online optical store. You can upload pictures of yourself and 'try on' all the different types of glasses.

You can select from male frames, female frames, or unisex frames. They have loads of different styles and you can buy just the frames if you want to try them on in person if you're unsure.

It's also a lot cheaper than buying at most optical stores.

(Bringing back a sliigghhttlly older post but I think everyone should know about this place. It's fantastic!)

Bless your heart! I've been procrastinating on getting new glasses, but now I have a great way to pick what I need without quirky looks.  Thank you!
Title: Re: male/female glasses?
Post by: Emmaline on July 06, 2013, 11:03:46 PM
Okay so I am going to approach this topic from a different angle.

Glasses, like haircuts can excentuate or minimise features.  Be brave and go to the mens glasses section, then try on glasses looking for ones that flatter your more manly aspects.

So, if you have a small head, aim for small glasses to give the illusion its bigger.  Shapes that cover your cheek apples may help- if the lower part of the lens throws a shadow onto your cheek, we perceive its roundness from the curvature.  Thick upper frames may suggest a stronger, straighter brow bone.  The nose brace can also help suggest a thicker bridge.  The overall shape of the lens can suggest a wider jaw too... wider then taller will thin your face for example.  Avoid lens shapes that flick out at the tops like a cats eye- this suggests lashes.
Dont assume thicker equals more male.  Think the stereotype image of a lesbian we often see with thick librarian glasses... not masculinising really at all when you think about it. 
One cue I suspect will work is spring arms.  Guys tend towards practical eyewear.

Hope that helps. 
Title: Re: male/female glasses?
Post by: generalchaos34 on July 11, 2013, 01:02:07 AM
Ive noticed that alot of mens glasses, including my own, unfortunately....) tend to have harder edges. I believe that these tend to add more harsh angles to the face. Since men typically have more harsh angles (square jaws, mustaches, larger foreheads, etc) these further accentuate these features. Remember, go angular and go metal!
Title: Re: male/female glasses?
Post by: Emmaline on July 11, 2013, 06:39:54 AM
 :icon_rockon:
Yeah... metal!

+1 on above
Title: Re: male/female glasses?
Post by: vegie271 on July 12, 2013, 11:20:33 PM
Quote from: wendy on June 14, 2012, 07:45:18 PM
Yes!!! Expensive is feminine!  Buy durable and low price.  Heavy.

You want heavy.




I guess I am super feminine mine were $800  ;D but at least I only paid $$200 of that, my insurance paid the rest mine are Liz Claiborne and I have the transitions and the crizal lenses

Title: Re: male/female glasses?
Post by: generalchaos34 on July 13, 2013, 01:06:59 AM
oh, and the most important part, get someone with a really honest viewpoint about how you look to go with. That way they can tell you if it looks bad, or makes your head look huge, etc.