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Community Conversation => Transsexual talk => Male to female transsexual talk (MTF) => Topic started by: Zoe Louise Taylor on September 28, 2013, 10:44:33 AM

Title: im lonely :/
Post by: Zoe Louise Taylor on September 28, 2013, 10:44:33 AM
Hiya

Recently ive been starting to get really lonely!
Im currently living in Sheffield in the UK, and i know no-one here!

I really just want to come out to my housemates, but im scared of what they'll think!!!!
I just sit in my room too much on my own and i feel it is driving my mad!!! :(

I just want some freinds in the area (and then i think coming out to the people i already know will be easier!), but i dont really know where to start! Do any of you ladies have any advice on making friends?

Much Love
Zoe
Xx
Title: Re: im lonely :/
Post by: Shantel on September 28, 2013, 10:58:34 AM
Surely there must be a TG support group that meets within close proximity, you can meet like minded folks at one of those meetings and start from there. Good luck Hon!
Title: Re: im lonely :/
Post by: Murbella on September 28, 2013, 11:00:53 AM
Have you checked your area for support groups?  Google seemed to provide a few hits but I don't know the area so I can't be the best of help addy knowing what would be close.

I live in Portland, Oregon and we have the Q Center which is open for all types of queer people and has a very active support group schedule.  I just have to work up the courage to attend something...
Title: Re: im lonely :/
Post by: suzifrommd on September 28, 2013, 11:19:37 AM
Look for LGBT groups in your area. Meetup.com has a lot of stuff.
Title: Re: im lonely :/
Post by: Alice Rogers on October 17, 2013, 10:57:58 AM
I'll be over for my GIC visits at the Sheffield GIC starting monday, would happily meet for a coffee. Stealth or dressed, I don't mind ;)
Title: Re: im lonely :/
Post by: Zoe Louise Taylor on October 17, 2013, 12:09:32 PM
Hey Alex, yea that would be lovely! give me a pm and let me know when u are free! X
Title: Re: im lonely :/
Post by: Emmaline on October 17, 2013, 12:38:20 PM
Feeling lonely and not being able to be you at home must really suck.
Serious virtual hugs babe.

If I wasn't 12, 000 miles away and surrounded by bush fires I would be dragging you out shopping.
Title: Re: im lonely :/
Post by: Alice Rogers on October 19, 2013, 02:09:50 AM
Quote from: Zoe Louise Taylor on October 17, 2013, 12:09:32 PM
Hey Alex, yea that would be lovely! give me a pm and let me know when u are free! X

Sent you a PM,  times ticking away! :-D
Title: Re: im lonely :/
Post by: FrancisAnn on October 19, 2013, 02:21:24 AM
Try to make friends with other girl/women friends very close by. Just tell them you are & that you would just like a nice normal life. I think you will be suprised if you honest to them & will make supporting new girl friends.

Then have fun & go shopping, maybe.
Title: Re: im lonely :/
Post by: Kaylee on October 20, 2013, 04:26:46 PM
Quote from: Emmaline on October 17, 2013, 12:38:20 PM
If I wasn't 12, 000 miles away and surrounded by bush fires I would be dragging you out shopping.

Such a way with words :) x
Title: Re: im lonely :/
Post by: Emmaline on October 21, 2013, 09:15:02 AM
So how you going now Zoe?

Title: Re: im lonely :/
Post by: Kaylee on October 21, 2013, 10:10:26 AM
Quote from: Emmaline on October 21, 2013, 09:15:02 AM
So how you going now Zoe?

Judging by some of the faces being pulled on the last set of facebook pics I saw, becoming much more attuned with her vodka ridden party girl side :)
Title: Re: im lonely :/
Post by: Zoe Louise Taylor on October 21, 2013, 01:57:28 PM
Quote from: Emmaline on October 21, 2013, 09:15:02 AM
So how you going now Zoe?

Im doing alot better now thanks!!!! This last month ive been socialising more and went to Leeds first friday which was fun!!!
I went to belly dancing lessons aswell, just to get out abit more! and ive gone quite a few times now! its sooo much fun, and i am making freinds there which is great!
I came out to my best freind aswell, and we are going out in nottingham at the weekend! and i cant wait, its gonna be great!!

this last month has been crazy!
Quote from: alex rogers on October 17, 2013, 10:57:58 AM
I'll be over for my GIC visits at the Sheffield GIC starting monday, would happily meet for a coffee. Stealth or dressed, I don't mind ;)

Alex im sorry i didnt message you back honey! I work on weekdays, so was unable to meet up with u! :/ Let me know when u are next in Sheffield!!!

Quote from: Kaylee on October 21, 2013, 10:10:26 AM
Judging by some of the faces being pulled on the last set of facebook pics I saw, becoming much more attuned with her vodka ridden party girl side :)

Lol, i hope to see you out at LFF soon Kaylee!!! :D

Xx
Title: Re: im lonely :/
Post by: Emmaline on October 23, 2013, 05:31:27 AM
Ooh belly dancing sounds fun.