Had upper body orgasm with my wife this morning .Oh my !!But while this was happening the big O went on and on then i MOANED (like a women )I was like I get it .{LIFE IS GREAT } then a busted in to longest laughing spell .Have any you gals have that happen ?Being very sexual all my life i never felt a 20 minute orgasm .Give me a life full of themhttps://www.susans.org/forums/Smileys/susans/rolleyes.gif Im lucky my wife is strong and understanding and i hope as my journey moves along it stay strong .Im new here but i feel like this is family kind of place .Thanks all you girls !
Welcome!
Consider me jealous. I have been chasing that dragon since I started HRT.
Your post gives me hope. Practice makes perfect and in this case, practice is rather fun!
Are you on HRT? If so, for how long?
Yup
When I had my first female style organism.. I also moaned.. That all I could do, the explosion in my body felt wonderful. Fell asleep that night a ver satisfied woman
post-op orgasm is so much different to male ones its hard to describe but very nice.
I get those all the time now with the Hitachi Magic Wand (a girl's REAL best friend). PIV sex is impossible/undesirable now, so that's my new thing. They take some concentration, things don't get especially hard but WOW. Way better than before- waves of tingly warmth throughout the whole body, sometimes lasting almost a full minute and maybe 20 times stronger than the old "pop goes the weasel" guy style I used to have. Also, sometimes I can have mutiples and sometimes it's more of a screamer than a moaner. Sometimes if my mind's not fully engaged, I can't have one at all, which is different than before when I could have one 99% of the time even while thinking about random things.
I'd say massive improvement in that department.
Quote from: Jill F on January 04, 2014, 04:41:31 PM
I get those all the time now with the Hitachi Magic Wand (a girl's REAL best friend).
yes. Yes. Yes! YES!
YES! YES!!!! YEEEEEEEEES!!!!!!Seriously. Go get one. Now. For reals.
Quote from: Jill F on January 04, 2014, 04:41:31 PM
I get those all the time now with the Hitachi Magic Wand (a girl's REAL best friend). PIV sex is impossible/undesirable now, so that's my new thing. They take some concentration, things don't get especially hard but WOW. Way better than before- waves of tingly warmth throughout the whole body, sometimes lasting almost a full minute and maybe 20 times stronger than the old "pop goes the weasel" guy style I used to have. Also, sometimes I can have mutiples and sometimes it's more of a screamer than a moaner. Sometimes if my mind's not fully engaged, I can't have one at all, which is different than before when I could have one 99% of the time even while thinking about random things.
I'd say massive improvement in that department.
So, how do you use this Hitachi Magic Wand ?
Ok, 20 minutes is really making me envious now. But surely I do moan uncontrollably :) Even if it is more like a few minutes and not 20 of them. But who knows if I find a partner that may work out better than DIY ;) - Or Ineed to get a Hitachi instead of what I have now :P
Oh and afterwards - I cannot stop giggling for a while too on some of the occasions. It freaked out my GF when I was in a partnership. She thought I am laughing about her.
Quote from: JordanBlue on January 04, 2014, 06:35:39 PM
So, how do you use this Hitachi Magic Wand ?
Put it on the area where your pelvic arch would open to the vaginal canal. Turn on. Grind. Explode.
http://www.amazon.com/Hitachi-Magic-Wand-Canada-Only/dp/B0091XIIEM/ref=sr_1_8?s=hpc&ie=UTF8&qid=1388882345&sr=1-8&keywords=hitachi+magic+wand
My favorite when on hormones was the multiple orgasms. First two or three were dry, the next one was fun considering the male reproductive system....then rarely one more dry orgasm.
You haven't lived till you experience that many orgasms in a row.
I'm jealous! I've got the female orgasm (my whole body gets involved) but it's usually one and done.
Still way better than boy style though :laugh:
>"Put it on the area where your pelvic arch would open to the vaginal canal. Turn on. Grind. Explode."<<
Oh my god, yeah. I did that a lot. I KNEW where that opening SHOULD be and I was so suprised when I tried what you described that it actually had such an effect! I was like"can someone please remove that skin-cover that some idiot put on top of this part of me? LOL
P.S.: I also want multiples - I get something similar but not truely multiple O's
Quote from: anjaq on January 04, 2014, 07:36:16 PM
>"Put it on the area where your pelvic arch would open to the vaginal canal. Turn on. Grind. Explode."<<
Oh my god, yeah. I did that a lot. I KNEW where that opening SHOULD be and I was so suprised when I tried what you described that it actually had such an effect! I was like"can someone please remove that skin-cover that some idiot put on top of this part of me? LOL
P.S.: I also want multiples - I get something similar but not truely multiple O's
Ok im not 100% sure they were true multiples or one that took for ever to build up to the usual explosion....but it sure felt like multiples so ill stick with that lol
Quote from: anjaq on January 04, 2014, 07:36:16 PM
>"Put it on the area where your pelvic arch would open to the vaginal canal. Turn on. Grind. Explode."<<
Oh my god, yeah. I did that a lot. I KNEW where that opening SHOULD be and I was so suprised when I tried what you described that it actually had such an effect! I was like"can someone please remove that skin-cover that some idiot put on top of this part of me? LOL
P.S.: I also want multiples - I get something similar but not truely multiple O's
I tend to refer to it as the 'fleshy chastity belt'. I can O but the desire for something to be **IN** there is insane! (The Magic Wand has attachments that you can buy for that purpose once yer post op :-) )
... and I've had multiple orgasms before. They're never *ever* accompanied by anything *like* the male orgasm and I tend to scream... a lot... a whole, whole lot. <<happy thoughts remembering funtimes with a boy and his vibrating ring thing>>
wow this is a nice little bit of info, i guess i'll be pulling out my old vibrator and trying things soon, the one thing i have noticed lately tho has been, when im just about to climax i find that now i start wimpering followed by moaning and finishing with screaming, and i love the things it does to me, but i don't think i have ever had an afterglow of more than 2 mins,
ps is the hitachi magic wand way better than other vibrators or about the same?
my first full body orgasm, my toes curled so hard my leg charlie horsed. It hurt so good
Quote from: kiaraja on January 04, 2014, 10:55:05 PM
ps is the hitachi magic wand way better than other vibrators or about the same?
According to my wife, it's the gold standard. She's had one for over 20 years, now we have two.
How do you know that you can't have multiples if you just give up after the first one? That's what I asked myself. All I had to do was get my head back into the game. Of course sometimes that first one is quite enough and the next one is just meh after a lot of effort.
Love the Hitachi Magic Wand :)
hmmm I think I will order a hitachi magic wand...
As I will be post op soon..
I showed my roommate the amazon link, she wants one too.. she says she has a normal cone type vibrator which she has had since she was 16 (She kept it hidden from her parents), which is fun, but she says this thing really looks fun.
I think a lot of women have toys like this...
Quote from: Victoria Mitchell on January 04, 2014, 08:57:49 PM
I tend to refer to it as the 'fleshy chastity belt'. I can O but the desire for something to be **IN** there is insane! (The Magic Wand has attachments that you can buy for that purpose once yer post op :-) )
Yess - thats a good word for it :laugh: - chastity belt. And totally the desire to enclose something was so strong for me too. Glad that I can have that nowadays :) - so any magic wand would have to have some attachment indeed, 'cause I found that there are spots that had once been buried even deeper that are a lot of fun too >:-) .
Whats really odd is that now after years of having my genital correction I am starting to really crave in fantasies that I want to have something in that is not plastic. I considered myself lesbian with some bisexual thoughts but the latter seems to have taken a strong hold now :P
My post orgasm moans are definitely much more intense as a woman. Never made much noise as a man. Just squirted and I'm done. Now I moan out loud and then feel totally spent.
Can't seem to do multiple, even as a woman. When I'm done, I'm done. Oh well.
Quote from: Victoria Mitchell on January 04, 2014, 04:53:28 PM
yes. Yes. Yes! YES! YES! YES!!!! YEEEEEEEEES!!!!!!
Seriously. Go get one. Now. For reals.
Girls: Before you run out and get a Magic Wand®..consider the Body Wand®. Different company, same idea. Better design.
I wore out my Hitachi Magic Wand® learning how these *no touch* O's are created. The motor became unpredictable and began deciding which of the two speeds
it wanted to use.
THEN! I find the Body Wand®. This thing is a Magic Wand® on steroids! First: It has a wonnnnnderful variable "rheostat" speed control (The original HMW only has two speeds: Intense, and intenser, lol) which gives the option deliver a variable 'throbbing' or 'wave like' vibration to the area. It also has a 'deeper stroke' because of a heaver 'vibe' weight on it. This thing is crazy valuable to me..for it has made those "no touch laughing moaners", easier to achieve, (not that the HMW didn't do that). I get frustrated when I have to touch it (dysphoria goes up), so I treat my future V as if it were already post op. So I just use my BW usually, keeping hands off, if at all possible. The O's are all different in intensity, too.
And..a resounding YES to the laughing fits after a wonderful O. I've never had such wonderful impulsive laughter after an O, *ever*. I have no idea how it started. It just came out of me one night and seemed to really add the intensity of the post O glow. I never felt the urge to laugh so impulsively before in my life.
Interesting aside: Later, I learned how to ward off my frequent migraines with these things! I first located my cranial accu-pressure points and upon the slightest hint of an oncoming migraine, I can quell it in less than thirty seconds (!!) with attention applied to the right spots on my head/temples/third eye/L & R eyesockets/tearduct massages. Before this, I used to have to take 800mg of Ibu, lay in the dark with ice packs and have no noise, light or disturbances for an hour while the Ibuprophin worked.
These days..and for years..I do none of that. I just attack the cranial points with this thing (even standing up, in the bright light!!) a few minutes before work. This changed my life. I hated taking Ibu in such large amounts, so this was a huuuuge improvement. It also works for cricks and slightly strained muscles, upset belly (rubbing), and even mosquito bites, so they won't be scratched raw by my nails.
I would say pass on the Magic Wand®, and get the Body Wand®. It's more ex$pensive..but works better. By the way, my old MW got tossed in my desk at work for incidental work pain and headaches. It still works. I still like it..they've been around since the 1970's, and I even recall seeing one in my parents room when I was young. With either one..you will surely find pleasure and escape from aches and pains.
Edit: Rheostat = Potentiometer
How much do you earn by selling htese, livinit? LOL - just kidding ;) Sounds fun for pre-ops. :)
Quote from: Tori on January 04, 2014, 03:09:48 PM
Welcome!
Consider me jealous. I have been chasing that dragon since I started HRT.
Your post gives me hope. Practice makes perfect and in this case, practice is rather fun!
Are you on HRT? If so, for how long?
im only on the H word of stuff but got great results .in march i get t-blockers and e in 2 months from my pyci doctor
Quote from: anjaq on January 05, 2014, 12:26:18 PM
How much do you earn by selling htese, livinit? LOL - just kidding ;) Sounds fun for pre-ops. :)
Not a dime, sorry. :-\ (I wasn't trying to spam).
And (either model) is much better suited for female gear, frankly. Not really so much pre-ops.
So are these pre-op orgasms? I know mine have been different on HRT but not like that. I'll have to check into that magic wand and my g/f has discussed a few options we may soon try.
Jane
Everytime that I read about the "girls like orgasm" I wonder how it feels even more. ::) and, I don't like much the "All in one second" man orgasm, I fell it empty, selfish, I don't know how to explain.
So I have a question, can just the hrt do this orgasm possible? Is the post-op necessary?
My time to experiment pre op but with HRT was very limited, like 18 months or so, but I think some elements I experienced pre op and even pre HT (that spot that was mentioned with the fleschy chastity belt LOL) - but definitely post op, it is almost always like that for me now - its not like I need to do something special to change the way I orgasm, it just is how it is and its pretty great I must say. I am sad that for some who had less luck it is not like that post op, but I hear that these days the surgeons are all quite good. I played the russian roulette back then with surgeons having only 40 surgeries done or so - but I came out fine ;)
Quote from: noleen111 on January 04, 2014, 03:17:48 PM
Yup
When I had my first female style organism.. I also moaned.. That all I could do, the explosion in my body felt wonderful. Fell asleep that night a ver satisfied woman
that just about my end result .But give me MORE .Thanks
Quote from: anjaq on January 04, 2014, 06:36:08 PM
Ok, 20 minutes is really making me envious now. But surely I do moan uncontrollably :) Even if it is more like a few minutes and not 20 of them. But who knows if I find a partner that may work out better than DIY ;) - Or Ineed to get a Hitachi instead of what I have now :P
Oh and afterwards - I cannot stop giggling for a while too on some of the occasions. It freaked out my GF when I was in a partnership. She thought I am laughing about her.
Yes 20 mins was GREAT .My wife thinks the laughing is over the top (in good way) .Keep looking theres a girls love out there for sure .
Quote from: Victoria Mitchell on January 04, 2014, 06:39:32 PM
Put it on the area where your pelvic arch would open to the vaginal canal. Turn on. Grind. Explode.
http://www.amazon.com/Hitachi-Magic-Wand-Canada-Only/dp/B0091XIIEM/ref=sr_1_8?s=hpc&ie=UTF8&qid=1388882345&sr=1-8&keywords=hitachi+magic+wand
Hey dont laugh at me. I am not changing the real estate down there but would work on me ? ( PLEASE NO LAUGHING )
Quote from: kariann330 on January 04, 2014, 06:41:35 PM
My favorite when on hormones was the multiple orgasms. First two or three were dry, the next one was fun considering the male reproductive system....then rarely one more dry orgasm.
You haven't lived till you experience that many orgasms in a row.
More than one cool .(sign me up please )
Quote from: Eva Marie on January 04, 2014, 07:33:01 PM
I'm jealous! I've got the female orgasm (my whole body gets involved) but it's usually one and done.
Still way better than boy style though :laugh:
Yea mine was 90 percent upper 10 below ,asked my wife. she was like silly girl yours are not the same but enjoy .........
Quote from: kiaraja on January 04, 2014, 10:55:05 PM
wow this is a nice little bit of info, i guess i'll be pulling out my old vibrator and trying things soon, the one thing i have noticed lately tho has been, when im just about to climax i find that now i start wimpering followed by moaning and finishing with screaming, and i love the things it does to me, but i don't think i have ever had an afterglow of more than 2 mins,
ps is the hitachi magic wand way better than other vibrators or about the same?
I am starting to get interested about this stuff . OH if i became a screamer my other half would gag me (good or bad ?)
Quote from: Teela Renee on January 04, 2014, 11:35:49 PM
my first full body orgasm, my toes curled so hard my leg charlie horsed. It hurt so good
Thats so oh ya .
I feel I've stumbled upon a thread I shouldn't be laying eyes upon :p Very intense.
I feel a bit perplexed by the whole orgasm thing to be honest, in terms of how its felt differently by males and females. I'm also a bit confused as to whether my current orgasms (not on HRT and never have been) are more like male or female ones. I am however assuming they are most likely going to be overwhelming male-type ones.
However... if I'm pleasuring myself to visual stimulus (in the usual male manner) or engaging in sex in the usual male manner, then my orgasms seem to be very enjoyable indeed...but...strangely flat when compared to the orgasms I have when I'm the girl and I'm playing with myself or someone is playing with me. My skin seems to be ever so sensitive, especially my neck, ears, feet and the tops of my legs and *ahem* my Perineum. What intrigues me is that I tend to moan and squeak like a girl, and I absolutely adore being touched in the areas like my neck, often I can climax just from being caressed &/or nibbled on my neck etc. For me, I much prefer all-over body touch in order to have a hugely satisfying conclusion, and I need a long build up of foreplay.
Just wondering whether most guys are secretly as sensitive as this, or whether I'm a slight exception, or whether there's a hint of female sexuality there?
I presume as I haven't been on HRT that I doubt I'll have the feminine wiring to experience anything similar, but, all I can say is - it feels seriously intense and indeed feminine when I can fully loose myself in being in my body and am being caressed, as I can't say I feel male in those situations because I don't. I've been told by lovers that I seem to respond like a female does, and I need the same sort of the physical attention in order to climax as they do, but I guess that's just anecdotal.
Any tell-tale feelings I should look out for? Or any advice? :)
Quote from: "I'm Stella Stanhope, and that's why I drink". on January 06, 2014, 08:55:17 PM
I feel I've stumbled upon a thread I shouldn't be laying eyes upon :p Very intense.
I feel a bit perplexed by the whole orgasm thing to be honest, in terms of how its felt differently by males and females. I'm also a bit confused as to whether my current orgasms (not on HRT and never have been) are more like male or female ones. I am however assuming they are most likely going to be overwhelming male-type ones.
However... if I'm pleasuring myself to visual stimulus (in the usual male manner) or engaging in sex in the usual male manner, then my orgasms seem to be very enjoyable indeed...but...strangely flat when compared to the orgasms I have when I'm the girl and I'm playing with myself or someone is playing with me. My skin seems to be ever so sensitive, especially my neck, ears, feet and the tops of my legs and *ahem* my Perineum. What intrigues me is that I tend to moan and squeak like a girl, and I absolutely adore being touched in the areas like my neck, often I can climax just from being caressed &/or nibbled on my neck etc. For me, I much prefer all-over body touch in order to have a hugely satisfying conclusion, and I need a long build up of foreplay.
Just wondering whether most guys are secretly as sensitive as this, or whether I'm a slight exception, or whether there's a hint of female sexuality there?
I presume as I haven't been on HRT that I doubt I'll have the feminine wiring to experience anything similar, but, all I can say is - it feels seriously intense and indeed feminine when I can fully loose myself in being in my body and am being caressed, as I can't say I feel male in those situations because I don't. I've been told by lovers that I seem to respond like a female does, and I need the same sort of the physical attention in order to climax as they do, but I guess that's just anecdotal.
Any tell-tale feelings I should look out for? Or any advice? :)
My own male orgasms are as you say flat. I seem to have a responses to touch like you some what .my mental is more touchy feely .I am not controlled by male need to have the big O but by the touch of my upper body and my hair .If i do have the male O its 2 seconds long and THEN all my body turns to rush of female hormone feel in my breast ,legs .overall warm rush ,mental i feel like the body as a whole is one big O .I have always had female understanding of how to touch other girls.Now i can feel it in my own body .OH HEY .( hope this is not to much personal info ) Thanks Troi
How have I never heard of this magical wand??? If you don't hear from me much after 5-8 days... Can't wait!!!
To chip in on the discussion on female vs male O's:
When I first started, I pretty much grinded on pillows or furniture. It wasn't until a few years later that I learned how all the other boys were doing it. (mtf) I gave it a shot, wasn't as fun, but was quicker.
Fast forward about 20 years, I'm 1 year on hormones and my girlfriend drives me crazy. I can't describe it any other way. Over and over and over... I can't wait until this thing arrives :angel: .
Quote from: jojoglowe on January 07, 2014, 02:23:53 AM
Fast forward about 20 years, I'm 1 year on hormones and my girlfriend drives me crazy. I can't describe it any other way. Over and over and over...
Care to elaborate? I'd like to learn more about transitioning from male to female orgasms...
female style orgasm. what do you mean are you a post op a pre op. taking mones or not
what is a female style orgasm ?
as far as I know most gentic women have a single orgasm and fluid ejaculates from the scenes glands
I don't know how soon after they can have another orgasm.
if they can orgasm at all . I've heard multiple orgasm is just a myth.
I heard a srs promoter stating after srs they have multiple and they are very enjoyable. I just don't believe it.
from what I RESEARCHED and know it it more difficult to orgasm post op . the nerves are moved around then have to regenerate . some are removed and some get damaged
Quote from: JaneNicole2013 on January 07, 2014, 08:00:37 AM
Care to elaborate? I'd like to learn more about transitioning from male to female orgasms...
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^i made a picture to describe it. lines should be more fluid on the right side, but hey..
So, ya, I've heard someone call the male style pop goes the weasle, lol. Sounds about right.
But, like how I first learned and how I solely go now is more like on the right. Building and building. Sometimes it's like there are waves of greatness, each one separate from the others, and it gets better and better, until it's off the charts. And unlike the left side, it isn't a free fall to baseline, it's a gradual come down. I think this should explain it pretty well.
So I qualify for an orchi due to varicocele- does that change the game too?
So HRT changes orgasm, orchi changes them again etc?
I am totally not sure if it is really HT or genital correction that creates this or none of them - I guess it is mostly something that happens once your brain feels your body to be female - it may work with strong imagination, it is easened with HT and it is facilitated more with genital correction.
Quote from: victoria n on January 07, 2014, 02:09:57 PM
as far as I know most gentic women have a single orgasm and fluid ejaculates from the scenes glands
I don't know how soon after they can have another orgasm.
I heard a srs promoter stating after srs they have multiple and they are very enjoyable. I just don't believe it.
from what I RESEARCHED and know it it more difficult to orgasm post op
SRS promoter - sounds like a car salesman LOL
I doubt there is a universal truth there about post op orgasms. There are two parts - the mind (which may be freed to experience new things by having a body map that matches) and the body (which may or may not be damaged by the surgery - depending on luck and skill of the surgeon mostly) - if both work together it can be pretty cool I guess.
For me, it is mostly that orgasm that also produces some fluids - there sometimes can be little peaks near it ;) - like pre-and post- orgasmic "orgasms light" which I did not have in the distant past - but the quality is different.
For me it was at first a bit more difficult to orgasm, but within a few months things healed well and then it was not really that hard later - still, I guess it always takes quite a bit more time, thats true, but its not something to break time records :P
That posts about describing how to get there and the body sensations - geez, I should not read that at work, it makes me all.... :P