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Title: What do you do in life?
Post by: muffinpants on January 29, 2014, 01:07:37 PM
So I didn't see a thread like this anywhere and thought I'd start one since I'm curious!

Question is simple- what is it you do on a daily basis? Are you a student? Working? Stay at home? Do you have children? Do you have any life goals? You get the point :)

I'll start! I work at a vet hospital, I have for 7 years now and I really really enjoy my job. I have one furbaby and am a part-time student studying anthropology. I don't see any job prospects with my degree, but I enjoy it :P and I'm still considering applying to vet school, just worried that I won't be able to get in! I don't want that kind of rejection >.<

ok, now the rest of you!!! ;D
Title: Re: What do you do in life?
Post by: FalseHybridPrincess on January 29, 2014, 01:21:50 PM
Interesting...

Well I stay home most days  playing lol watching anime,,,
I do go to some classes now and then and I do hang out with friends now and then...
Id rather not  though , at least not while I look like this,,,
Hanging out with guys reminds me how much I detest them and hanging out with girls reminds me how much Im jealous of them,,,
so at this point Id rather be alone in my house...
Title: Re: What do you do in life?
Post by: Carrie Liz on January 29, 2014, 01:29:33 PM
Up, work, home, TV, bed...
Up, work, home, TV, bed...

You get the idea.

Transition has pretty much put my life on hold for the past year or so, and it's not going to be over for a while, so I still haven't really had the chance to ask myself what I'm going to do with my life post-transition.

Before I started it, my goal was to save up enough money to go to grad school and get my teaching certification, but now I'm really not sure what I want to do with my life. I do want a family eventually, I know that I want to write, and I do still have an interest in teaching, I'm just not sure if that's my eventual career goal or not. So yeah... pretty much everything is up in the air right now, and all I'm doing is waking up, going to work, coming home, watching TV/anime, sometimes doing some writing, and then going to bed, slowly saving up money to get financially independent, and save up for surgery. And it's probably going to be 2-3 years or more before I've achieved that, at which point I'll once again start figuring out what I want to do with my working life.
Title: Re: What do you do in life?
Post by: Shantel on January 29, 2014, 01:33:37 PM
I'm retired have worn eleven different hats in my working life so I won't bore you with the details. We are grandma and grand(pa) and love it, though we had a love/hate relationship with our own kids when they were growing up, especially when they were teens. My S.O. and I are attached at the hip and do a lot of things together during the week. During the warmer months she tends to her plants in the gardens and is gifted, she can talk dead things back to life and may be from Druid ancestry. I have an enormous Koi pond with a waterfall which I enjoy attending to. The big daily event is a stop at the local Starbucks for a coffee and one of their great little sandwiches. Other than that, I have too much time on my hands so I spend some of it here with you my extended family.
Title: Re: What do you do in life?
Post by: Edge on January 29, 2014, 02:37:02 PM
I'm a biology student and the father of a toddler. My life goals are to go into either genetics or neuroscience, gain power, and become a super villain.
Title: Re: What do you do in life?
Post by: King Malachite on January 29, 2014, 02:57:06 PM
I graduated with an Associates degree last year and took an extra class in the summer.  Ever since then, all I have done was lay in my bed, sleep, eat,play video games, and be on Youtube and Susans all day.  I'm trying to change that as lately I've been applying to multiple jobs online in order to pay for my top surgery.

As far as my goals, I want to be able to transition (homrones with top and bottom surgery), and I want to be married.  I want to be working class and financially stable enough to be able to buy video games and take a vacation to Anime Expo every year.  I also want to move to a location up north in the states to where I can take public transportation to get wbere I need to get to because I despise driving.
Title: Re: What do you do in life?
Post by: muffinpants on January 29, 2014, 03:35:03 PM
Princess- When do you plan on transitioning? Perhaps just coming out and getting it over with will help ya cheer up! You're already incredibly gorgeous! If anything, I'm sure the girls are jealous of you.

Carrie: big commitment! But once it's over your life will probably so awesome! Having a goal and completing it is a sweeeet, sweet, sweet victory.

Shantel- that's adorable imagining you and your wife together <3 good for her for having a green thumb. I've always wanted to be good with plants, however I've only assisted in killing them >.< I used to joke that I had a brown thumb.. cus everything I touch dies. But then I realized how that sounded so I tell this story instead.. haha :icon_doh:

Edge- Awesome goals >:-) what kind of villainous activities shall you participate in? and wow, I didn't realize you had a toddler, more power to ya! Kids are too fragile imo, I don't want to be responsible for screwing them up- which is why I don't want any. I already have a dog that won't poop when anyone is looking.. still trying to figure out how we made her think it was wrong, so yeah, don't wanna do that to any kids xP

Malachite- awesome goals! I too hope to get to the point where I can take a yearly vacay to some con, though my choice would either be star trek con or fur con! and I HATE driving, too. See you up north one day? :P
Title: Re: What do you do in life?
Post by: King Malachite on January 29, 2014, 03:42:21 PM
Quote from: muffinpants on January 29, 2014, 03:35:03 PM

Malachite- awesome goals! I too hope to get to the point where I can take a yearly vacay to some con, though my choice would either be star trek con or fur con! and I HATE driving, too. See you up north one day? :P

Another person with an intense hatred of driving?  AWESOME!  I can't seem to find many people that share my "passion" for the hatred of controlling a car.  Sure I'll see you up north one day, on a train or bus.  ;D
Title: Re: What do you do in life?
Post by: FalseHybridPrincess on January 29, 2014, 03:46:46 PM
Quote from: muffinpants on January 29, 2014, 03:35:03 PM
Princess- When do you plan on transitioning? Perhaps just coming out and getting it over with will help ya cheer up! You're already incredibly gorgeous! If anything, I'm sure the girls are jealous of you.



I am transitioning currently...Im on e for 1 and a half month...
the thing is that right now im on that awkward stage , you know ,where people have a hard time telling what gender you are ,,,im planing starting full time when I feel ok with myself , when I feel that I look like a woman not something in-between hopefully on a couple of months...im glad with the changes so far and im sooo much better than I used to be...
Thats why for the time being Id rather be alone...just wait,,,thats what I feel like doing...
Title: Re: What do you do in life?
Post by: Edge on January 29, 2014, 03:51:04 PM
Quote from: muffinpants on January 29, 2014, 03:35:03 PMEdge- Awesome goals >:-) what kind of villainous activities shall you participate in?
I'm not sure exactly yet. Right now, I'm just focusing on anything that gets me power.
Yeah I have a toddler. He was recently diagnosed with an autism spectrum disorder too. It's been stressful.

Quote from: Malachite on January 29, 2014, 03:42:21 PM
Another person with an intense hatred of driving?  AWESOME!  I can't seem to find many people that share my "passion" for the hatred of controlling a car.  Sure I'll see you up north one day, on a train or bus.  ;D
I also don't like driving. I haven't even gotten my learner's yet because I want to avoid it.
Title: Re: What do you do in life?
Post by: muffinpants on January 29, 2014, 03:53:45 PM
well that sounds perfect princess :) but from all the photos I've seen of you, all I see is girl. I'm sure you'll come around to what the rest of us are seeing soon. It's good to wait until your comfortable though, you will know when the time is right ^_^

aww edge, I'm so sorry :( but I guess the bright side is that there is so much more awareness of autism that it hopefully won't be much of a hindrance in life. Think Temple Grandin. She is amazing.
Title: Re: What do you do in life?
Post by: King Malachite on January 29, 2014, 03:57:20 PM
Quote from: Edge on January 29, 2014, 03:51:04 PM
I also don't like driving. I haven't even gotten my learner's yet because I want to avoid it.

I don't blame you!  I only got my beginner's permit so I had some ID to show at the video game store. The other "benefit" just happened to be driving under certain restrictions.  :D
Title: Re: What do you do in life?
Post by: EllieM on January 29, 2014, 03:58:05 PM

What do I do? why I... (song alert)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rsDkmVo2fg4 (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rsDkmVo2fg4)
Title: Re: What do you do in life?
Post by: Miss_Bungle1991 on January 29, 2014, 04:13:34 PM
Hang out, go stir-crazy during the winter months since I've been stuck in the house, listen to tunes, record Noise stuff, work on my fanfics, exercise on the treadmill every other day.
Title: Re: What do you do in life?
Post by: Nero on January 29, 2014, 04:19:59 PM
Quote from: Malachite on January 29, 2014, 03:42:21 PM
Quote from: muffinpants on January 29, 2014, 03:35:03 PM

Malachite- awesome goals! I too hope to get to the point where I can take a yearly vacay to some con, though my choice would either be star trek con or fur con! and I HATE driving, too. See you up north one day? :P

Another person with an intense hatred of driving?  AWESOME!  I can't seem to find many people that share my "passion" for the hatred of controlling a car.  Sure I'll see you up north one day, on a train or bus.  ;D

Add me to the list. It's a little odd when you get a car just to have others drive you around in it - but that's me. Funny, a year ago I was the only one with a car, but all the carless peeps drove me around.
Title: Re: What do you do in life?
Post by: King Malachite on January 29, 2014, 04:45:28 PM
Quote from: FA on January 29, 2014, 04:19:59 PM
Another person with an intense hatred of driving?  AWESOME!  I can't seem to find many people that share my "passion" for the hatred of controlling a car.  Sure I'll see you up north one day, on a train or bus.  ;D


Add me to the list. It's a little odd when you get a car just to have others drive you around in it - but that's me. Funny, a year ago I was the only one with a car, but all the carless peeps drove me around.

That would so be me, lol.  I'd rather put my trust in another driver than myself.
Title: Re: What do you do in life?
Post by: Oriah on January 29, 2014, 09:05:29 PM
my days lately go something like this

3 am wake up, change the baby, put another log on the fire, go back to sleep

5 am wake up, change the baby, put another log on the fire, go back to sleep

6 am wake up, change the baby, pass baby off to Mama Fox, check fire, cook breakfast, feed family/eat, make a pot of tea, lounge for a few minutes with the baby watching cartoons

then, not according to a specific schedule

clean the ashpit of the woodstove
have a cup of tea
change baby again
let geese and chickens out into the yard, throw them scratch grains or oats
dress warm and go out, run the chainsaw 1 to 3 tanks of gas depending on our needs and how I feel
come in and drink more tea
cook lunch
eat lunch, watch a cartoon with Fox and the baby
play with the baby while mama fox runs a bucket of water and washes diapers and other laundry with the washboard, or some days I do the laundry and she watches the baby
hand off baby to Mama Fox and do the dishes
cook dinner/make another pot of tea
take my supplements/pills
eat
feed and water the chickens, geese, turkey, goats, rabbits and donkey
collect eggs
come in, spend time with baby, have ice cream or some other snack
more tea
spend 10 mins to 1 hr grooming and performing beautification rituals
watch baby while mama Fox bathes, usually I put him to bed for the night around this time/ more tea
get on computer (I also log on when the baby randomly decides to nap and I have spare time)
join Mama Fox in the bath....if the baby isn't sleepy, we bring him into the hot water to relax him
socialize, massage, kiss, caress Mama Fox
have late night snack/tea
stock the fireplace for the next few hours, and go to sleep

some rare days (like tommorrow) I get to slack on my other chores though, and butcher rabbits or chickens.....and have fresh soup for dinner!
Title: Re: What do you do in life?
Post by: justpat on January 29, 2014, 11:16:23 PM
  Live it and enjoy it by helping others.
Title: Re: What do you do in life?
Post by: Mickie on January 30, 2014, 12:23:24 AM
Quote from: Edge on January 29, 2014, 02:37:02 PM
I'm a biology student and the father of a toddler. My life goals are to go into either genetics or neuroscience, gain power, and become a super villain.
Lemme know when you need a mad scientist for your evil coalition of doom!  :o

Taking my very last class in my last semester for business, and hope to have a business of my own someday in manufacturing. Currently working nights and trying to balance the work/relationship/life-issues scale. I am a bit of a gear head, so I actually do like driving. And tinkering on anything mechanical. Other than that I'm a person of many hats when it comes to hobbies, from music to steampunk and cons, to flying. Though some I've tended too more than others lately.
Quote from: justpat on January 29, 2014, 11:16:23 PM
  Live it and enjoy it by helping others.
Amen
Title: Re: What do you do in life?
Post by: Edge on January 30, 2014, 12:59:42 AM
Quote from: Mickie on January 30, 2014, 12:23:24 AM
Lemme know when you need a mad scientist for your evil coalition of doom!  :o
What branch of science are you in?
Title: Re: What do you do in life?
Post by: JRD on January 30, 2014, 04:54:23 AM
I work mostly, then either go to my boss's house for a visit while she's recovering or go straight home and relax a bit, have dinner, mess around online while something or other is playing on the tv, then I go to bed. I live a fairly boring life.
Title: Re: What do you do in life?
Post by: Charley Bea(EmeraldP) on January 30, 2014, 06:13:44 AM
Stay at home pretty much all day and everyday, occasionally I will go out for appointments or meet up with my friends(well two of the three anyway) and sometimes to the shops. I am on a disability pension due to mental health issues(at the least), so no job or job prospects. So it seems all I do is be a waste of space and and have a pointless and useless life.

Other than that I guess come online and watch dvds, occasionally work on my hobbies.
Title: Re: What do you do in life?
Post by: Mickie on January 30, 2014, 12:37:15 PM
Quote from: Edge on January 30, 2014, 12:59:42 AM
What branch of science are you in?

Just general "mad" science.
Title: Re: What do you do in life?
Post by: Edge on January 30, 2014, 12:50:43 PM
Quote from: Mickie on January 30, 2014, 12:37:15 PM
Just general "mad" science.
Ok well I already have a mad scientist (me) going into either genetics or neuroscience, but I do need someone who is good with computers and/or engineering.
Title: Re: What do you do in life?
Post by: muffinpants on January 30, 2014, 08:19:10 PM
Quote from: Edge on January 30, 2014, 12:50:43 PM
Ok well I already have a mad scientist (me) going into either genetics or neuroscience, but I do need someone who is good with computers and/or engineering.

:o my gf is a computer engineer. and she can be eviley sometimes xP


Charley: what kinda hobbies ya work on?
Title: Re: What do you do in life?
Post by: Jessica Merriman on January 30, 2014, 08:22:38 PM
I am finishing up paperwork to attend Oklahoma State University for a degree in Psychology. Gee, I wonder what my focus will be? ;D
Title: Re: What do you do in life?
Post by: Jill F on January 30, 2014, 08:31:05 PM
Housewife
Title: Re: What do you do in life?
Post by: Charley Bea(EmeraldP) on January 30, 2014, 08:40:53 PM
Quote from: muffinpants on January 30, 2014, 08:19:10 PM
:o my gf is a computer engineer. and she can be eviley sometimes xP


Charley: what kinda hobbies ya work on?

Collect 1/6 scale figures and customise them which involve some sculpting, paint and sewing(very amateurish on my side of things) and occassionally write songs and poetry although haven't done that in awhile and only just started drawing again, otherwise play videogames.
Title: Re: What do you do in life?
Post by: muffinpants on January 30, 2014, 08:47:18 PM
Quote from: Charley Bea(EmeraldP) on January 30, 2014, 08:40:53 PM
Collect 1/6 scale figures and customise them which involve some sculpting, paint and sewing(very amateurish on my side of things) and occassionally write songs and poetry although haven't done that in awhile and only just started drawing again, otherwise play videogames.

Oooh fun! I paint warhammer minis- have never customized them though! They are so tiny, hard enough to paint, let alone modify! and I sew too ^_^ it's so fun, isn't it? I recently picked up trying to draw again, too. I'm not artistically inclined, but my gf is an amazing artist and she gives me lessons :D
Title: Re: What do you do in life?
Post by: Miss_Bungle1991 on January 30, 2014, 08:50:39 PM
Quote from: muffinpants on January 30, 2014, 08:47:18 PM
Oooh fun! I paint warhammer minis- have never customized them though! They are so tiny, hard enough to paint, let alone modify! and I sew too ^_^ it's so fun, isn't it? I recently picked up trying to draw again, too. I'm not artistically inclined, but my gf is an amazing artist and she gives me lessons :D

You sew?

Are you any good with custom stuff?

Like small doll clothes?
Title: Re: What do you do in life?
Post by: Charley Bea(EmeraldP) on January 30, 2014, 08:59:56 PM
What size doll are you talking about?
Title: Re: What do you do in life?
Post by: Miss_Bungle1991 on January 30, 2014, 09:05:11 PM
Quote from: Charley Bea(EmeraldP) on January 30, 2014, 08:59:56 PM
What size doll are you talking about?

8 inches tall.

(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fi895.photobucket.com%2Falbums%2Fac158%2Fnapalmdeathfan13591%2FDorisampPatricia.jpg&hash=3943dccf5b9b84ef3adc41c66923759863a14dc1)
Title: Re: What do you do in life?
Post by: Charley Bea(EmeraldP) on January 30, 2014, 09:09:10 PM
I usually work in 12" sizings myself, but willing to have a go what do you have in mind?
Title: Re: What do you do in life?
Post by: Mickie on January 31, 2014, 10:01:08 AM
Quote from: Mickie on January 30, 2014, 12:37:15 PM
Just general "mad" science.

Count me in for the engineering/inventoring/mechanical-ey  stuff...
Title: Re: What do you do in life?
Post by: EllieM on January 31, 2014, 10:12:51 AM
Quote from: Jessica Merriman on January 30, 2014, 08:22:38 PM
I am finishing up paperwork to attend Oklahoma State University for a degree in Psychology. Gee, I wonder what my focus will be? ;D

Thank you Jessica!  :-*
Title: Re: What do you do in life?
Post by: DiDi on January 31, 2014, 11:22:50 AM
Ellie - Thanks for the link to White Collar Hollar - I saw Stan Rogers quite a number of times during his short but amazing life.

I was originally a Theatre grad, then a number of things before becoming a Physical Therapist and now am in the later stages of a career as a manager of clinical professionals in the field of intellectual disability. Married a million years to the same woman, with adult daughters and grandchildren. I also play and sing with a foursome / fivesome.

I'm not allowed to link yet so I'll just end with "What a long, strange trip it's been". And I gotta feeling its just gonna get stranger.  ::)
Title: Re: What do you do in life?
Post by: Edge on January 31, 2014, 06:12:30 PM
Quote from: Jessica Merriman on January 30, 2014, 08:22:38 PM
I am finishing up paperwork to attend Oklahoma State University for a degree in Psychology. Gee, I wonder what my focus will be? ;D
I fanboy brains. Psychology is fascinating.

Quote from: Mickie on January 31, 2014, 10:01:08 AM
Count me in for the engineering/inventoring/mechanical-ey  stuff...
Excellent assuming you are aware of what you'd be helping.
Title: Re: What do you do in life?
Post by: Miss_Bungle1991 on January 31, 2014, 06:35:33 PM
Quote from: Mickie on January 30, 2014, 12:37:15 PM
Just general "mad" science.

My brand of "mad science" is hooking up audio equipment in ways that you aren't supposed to and making noises with them that you would be "mad" to enjoy listening to. :D
Title: Re: What do you do in life?
Post by: muffinpants on February 01, 2014, 12:24:00 AM
Quote from: Laura Squirrel on January 31, 2014, 06:35:33 PM
My brand of "mad science" is hooking up audio equipment in ways that you aren't supposed to and making noises with them that you would be "mad" to enjoy listening to. :D
*wants to hear*
Title: Re: What do you do in life?
Post by: Miss_Bungle1991 on February 01, 2014, 01:00:54 AM
Quote from: muffinpants on February 01, 2014, 12:24:00 AM
*wants to hear*

http://ghostsofdeadtables.bandcamp.com/track/the-cutest-couple
Title: Re: What do you do in life?
Post by: Yukari-sensei on February 01, 2014, 05:43:51 AM
What I feel like I do is burn both ends of the candle everyday!

At the university, I am a transgender female student, nursing program candidate and graduate history program candidate... I'm desperately trying to groom my transcript to be accepted this cycle into the BS Nursing program (my 3.6 was too low :'( and my ADN classes not transferred >:() I attend M-Thursday and spend my day in labs, lecture, with the occasional break for karate.

At work, I am an excessively polite male (in a very over-sized shirt ::)), with too long hair, that works in hospitality... the overnight shift...  every weekend... :'(
Title: Re: What do you do in life?
Post by: Joan on February 01, 2014, 06:01:20 AM
Good luck getting onto the grad programme Yukari-sensei :)

I get up at 6, walk the dog, have breakfast, cut some sandwiches for lunch, cycle to work and teach, eat, teach some more, maybe doodle and daydream through meetings, then cycle home, walk the dog, have dinner then read a bit, take a bath and I'm in bed by 11.

I work most weekends too. The last day off I had Jan 5 and my next is Feb 11.

But we like to go out to eat at the weekends, sometimes as Joan other times not. Last night it was not, but the food was tear-instigatingly good so I can cope :D
Title: Re: What do you do in life?
Post by: Terracotta on February 01, 2014, 06:40:35 AM
I wake up
No functioning until coffee, and nicotine lozenge or cigarette -
Then one more coffee, maybe three.
Vitamins + nutrition-related things + No food until late afternoon

If I do eat I drink a protein shake, at lunch - because I don't like how long I spend during a day cleaning dishes.
I have full meals at night

And then work/day-things/art-related pursuits/going out/eBay my life
Title: Re: What do you do in life?
Post by: Mickie on February 02, 2014, 06:07:34 PM
Quote from: Edge on January 31, 2014, 06:12:30 PM
Excellent assuming you are aware of what you'd be helping.

World domination is fine. I just want Austrailia
Title: Re: What do you do in life?
Post by: Charley Bea(EmeraldP) on February 03, 2014, 04:15:53 AM
Why would you want Australia?
Title: Re: What do you do in life?
Post by: Mickie on February 03, 2014, 04:58:09 PM
I have my reasons...
Title: Re: What do you do in life?
Post by: Edge on February 03, 2014, 05:36:41 PM
Everyone wants a shiny, new Australia.
Nah I mean I'm a monster. It's hidden right now because there are things like laws that deter me, but they wouldn't if I was the one making the laws.
Title: Re: What do you do in life?
Post by: Charley Bea(EmeraldP) on February 03, 2014, 10:55:01 PM
Wage differences and accepting environment aside, I can actually say I do not not like living here I just find it boring, granted that could be due to the fact most of the people I am in contact with online are in other countries and options for places I can go to for y hobbies are greater in other countries aswell. But yes in someways I resent living here.

So you are welcome to it ;)
Title: Re: What do you do in life?
Post by: JustEmily on February 03, 2014, 11:40:36 PM
I would like Antarctica, with thousands of penguin minions who will be trained in the ninja skills after brain augmentation and given tiny Kevlar jackets.  Oh, and bow ties... bow ties are cool.

Oh, and in the real world I work at a community college.  Bleah.
Title: Re: What do you do in life?
Post by: Shantel on February 04, 2014, 09:48:43 AM
Quote from: JustEmily on February 03, 2014, 11:40:36 PM
I would like Antarctica, with thousands of penguin minions who will be trained in the ninja skills after brain augmentation and given tiny Kevlar jackets.  Oh, and bow ties... bow ties are cool.

Oh, and in the real world I work at a community college.  Bleah.

Bow ties would be a must, after all they are wearing tuxedos!  ;D