Out of curiosity as a lesbian trans girl, how often do you trigger the gaydar, just about every gay friend I have misinterpreted the the signal that I wasn't transmitting, welleee anhh as far as I know, so how many of you girls seem too to have to many gay friends that just want to pull you hair out vs .....
ah man, tell me about it. its gaydar central for me. i try to act normal out in public but my fem side takes over and i get eyes from the my gay school mates. even my mother says "its ok if your gay, i'll still love you." its kinda gets annoying lol
The last bar I worked in I presented as a guy there. I would say about 80-90% of the staff and patrons thought I was a gay male. Only one drinker knew I was transitioning
well, my issue is i set of the gaydar alarm without even doing anything. i'm wondering if i'm just a gay magnet or something becuz everywhere i go, i always run into at least 3 gay dudes. i mean like i love hanging with gay men cuz they fun as hell but damn why do i gotta set of their alarms
I can't seem to get away from it. Ever since middle school I've had gay guys after me. I never acted feminine or flamboyant by any stretch, but they've always seemed to flock to me. Some are particularly bad, like almost stalker bad.
I never had issues. Then again, I was never in a place where I would expect to run into gay guys... (Conservative home, church, homeschool, Christian college).
That and I don't go out all that much. Never to bars and things.
Quote from: Alyssa Rae on May 02, 2014, 07:22:05 AM
I can't seem to get away from it. Ever since middle school I've had gay guys after me. I never acted feminine or flamboyant by any stretch, but they've always seemed to flock to me. Some are particularly bad, like almost stalker bad.
i feel your pain my friend. cant help that we are just awesome but i mean like damn, its ring the alarm central xD
Quote from: Umiko Nixie on May 02, 2014, 07:52:46 AM
i feel your pain my friend. cant help that we are just awesome but i mean like damn, its ring the alarm central xD
ya, there's one after me now that "pitches a tent" every time I'm nearby. Ughhhhhh! Follows me everywhere!
Quote from: Alyssa Rae on May 02, 2014, 07:57:57 AM
ya, there's one after me now that "pitches a tent" every time I'm nearby. Ughhhhhh! Follows me everywhere!
oh god, i'd been already yelled rape and called the stalker police
Quote from: Umiko Nixie on May 02, 2014, 08:00:38 AM
oh god, i'd been already yelled rape and called the stalker police
most of the time, it's nowhere near that bad. Just flirting with me and hitting on me, but this dude clearly can't control himself.
I've not set anyone's "gaydar" off that I'm aware of. I learned from an early age to fly under most peoples radars in general.
Quote from: defective snowflake on May 02, 2014, 08:08:27 AM
I've not set anyone's "gaydar" off that I'm aware of. I learned from an early age to fly under most peoples radars in general.
lucky you. some of us just arent lucky xD no matter what i do, its gaydar central for me. i walk straight, i still got gay guys running after me. maybe its becuz of my scent. lol
Quote from: Umiko Nixie on May 02, 2014, 08:14:37 AM
lucky you. some of us just arent lucky xD no matter what i do, its gaydar central for me. i walk straight, i still got gay guys running after me. maybe its becuz of my scent. lol
GREAT SCOTT! You've figured it out! The scent must be the source. :laugh:
Quote from: Alyssa Rae on May 02, 2014, 08:17:27 AM
GREAT SCOTT! You've figured it out! The scent must be the source. :laugh:
HAHAHA! what are they, blood hounds? i try hiding and they find me. i sometimes have the feeling they wait for me until my class is finished. i even have one that rides the same bus as me. :-\
Quote from: Umiko Nixie on May 02, 2014, 08:21:17 AM
HAHAHA! what are they, blood hounds? i try hiding and they find me. i sometimes have the feeling they wait for me until my class is finished. i even have one that rides the same bus as me. :-\
I'm starting to seriously consider wearing a biohazard suit until I transition, lol. Safety is key.
In all seriousness though, I have absolutely nothing against gay people at all. I'm just not into guys and it's incredibly awkward when a guy starts invading your personal space.
Quote from: Alyssa Rae on May 02, 2014, 08:32:33 AM
I'm starting to seriously consider wearing a biohazard suit until I transition, lol. Safety is key.
In all seriousness though, I have absolutely nothing against gay people at all. I'm just not into guys and it's incredibly awkward when a guy starts invading your personal space.
said it many times before, i absolutely love hanging with gays. they are better to hang with than straight people most time. its just when they start the flirting, sniffing me down like a blood hound or start the stalking is when i start getting agitated and quite upset. Biohazard suit! haha! good one. i should to until my therapist finally admits defeat lol
At least 5 people have asked me If I'm gay....
Ok, one more thing... I have a crush on someone here on Susans, I'm crushing on a pre-everything MTF.
Quote from: MbutF on May 02, 2014, 09:03:45 AM
Ok, I have a crush on someone here on Susans, I'm crushing on a pre-everything MTF.
lol, wrong topic perhaps?
i was kinda about to say the same thing but every thread goes on a interesting tangent xD
hhhhhhhhhm
Everyone who knows that Im a biological male thinks that Im gay lol...unfair to say at least but anyways...
I tried to have a relationship with a guy , but ,yeah, maybe its not for me...
I prefer girls why cant people see that XD
Quote from: FalseHybridPrincess on May 02, 2014, 09:10:14 AM
hhhhhhhhhm
Everyone who knows that Im a biological male thinks that Im gay lol...unfair to say at least but anyways...
I tried to have a relationship with a guy , but ,yeah, maybe its not for me...
I prefer girls why cant people see that XD
i know right! whats worse is the fact no matter how much i say it or prove it, everyone still thinks i'm gay. but i guess its the fact i dont know how to or cant act like a boy lol
Quote from: MbutF on May 02, 2014, 09:03:45 AM
At least 5 people have asked me If I'm gay....
Ok, one more thing... I have a crush on someone here on Susans, I'm crushing on a pre-everything MTF.
well to continue this tangent, you can't really say that and not say who. Don't leave us hanging, lol.
yes yes, tell us. i'm a curious little kitten hang on the edge xD dont leave us hanging xD
I have set off a few peoples gaydar, mostly at work. It's usually annoying to me but it has also provided me with some nice benefits >:-)
HAHA! today i set off at least 3 people's gaydars, but i just realized, my gaydar isnt up to date yet. darn lol
I don't think I do. In fact, it shocked my workmates when they learned I'm bi-curious and it shocked my younger brother when he learned I'm TG. I have no real opinion of this.