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Community Conversation => Transsexual talk => Male to female transsexual talk (MTF) => Topic started by: April_TO on May 08, 2015, 09:14:48 AM

Title: Full time: This is it!
Post by: April_TO on May 08, 2015, 09:14:48 AM
Good Morning/Evening Beautiful People,

I just want to share with you all that as I am typing this milestone, Senior Management at work are being told about my transition followed by a town hall this Monday and Tuesday to inform everyone about the correct guidelines dealing with me. I cannot help but to feel emotional about this as this is the last step of getting my life aligned in all aspects socially.

I could not have done this without the support and help of this community. Your shares, experiences of triumph and challenges completely made me muster the courage to do it.

For that I am truly grateful. It does get better :)

Love you all!

April





Title: Re: Full time: This is it!
Post by: Mariah on May 08, 2015, 09:18:37 AM
Yay. Congrats April. It's wonderful to hear your going full time. Yes it does get better. Good luck and Hugs
Mariah
Title: Re: Full time: This is it!
Post by: Eva Marie on May 08, 2015, 09:18:49 AM
Congratulations April - feels kid of surreal, doesn't it?  :) Very soon you will be clicking into work in your heels wearing a purse and looking very nice.

Title: Re: Full time: This is it!
Post by: April_TO on May 08, 2015, 09:26:18 AM
Mariah and Eva Marie - many thanks ladies :)

You are an inspiration - thanks for being YOU!

xoxo
Title: Re: Full time: This is it!
Post by: ToniB on May 08, 2015, 09:28:01 AM
If things go as well for you as they went for Me you will find work a much better place . The feeling of just being able to relax and get on with things without worrying about everything You say and do giving you away feels like a ton weight has been lifted of your shoulders

Toni
Title: Re: Full time: This is it!
Post by: April_TO on May 08, 2015, 09:38:51 AM
Thank you Babe  :) - I have been coming to work dressed up very feminine with make up and nails done so this week will just be a confirmation of what they are seeing visually.

I remember your post a few months ago regarding your work transition and I just want to let you know it touched my heart. Thanks for sharing that sweetheart.



Quote from: ToniB on May 08, 2015, 09:28:01 AM
If things go as well for you as they went for Me you will find work a much better place . The feeling of just being able to relax and get on with things without worrying about everything You say and do giving you away feels like a ton weight has been lifted of your shoulders

Toni
Title: Re: Full time: This is it!
Post by: Jessie Ann on May 08, 2015, 09:56:13 AM
Congratulations  :eusa_clap: :eusa_dance: :eusa_clap:

I am right behind you and I will be going full time at work next month. I feel the same way you do about this site and the people here. Amazing isn't it!!

Good luck with your work transition you gorgeous and inspirational lady!!!

Quote from: carmenkate on May 08, 2015, 09:14:48 AM

I just want to share with you all that as I am typing this...... I cannot help but to feel emotional about this as this is the last step of getting my life aligned in all aspects socially.

Title: Re: Full time: This is it!
Post by: April_TO on May 08, 2015, 09:59:28 AM
Amazing Jessie Ann :) wow you look fab in your latest avatar pic.
You don't need goodluck coz I know you'll do well.

Keep smiling beautiful.

Quote from: Jessie Ann on May 08, 2015, 09:56:13 AM
Congratulations  :eusa_clap: :eusa_dance: :eusa_clap:

I am right behind you and I will be going full time at work next month. I feel the same way you do about this site and the people here. Amazing isn't it!!

Good luck with your work transition you gorgeous and inspirational lady!!!
Title: Re: Full time: This is it!
Post by: stephaniec on May 08, 2015, 05:24:26 PM
congrats, live life to the fullest.
Title: Re: Full time: This is it!
Post by: Ms Grace on May 08, 2015, 06:51:20 PM
Great news April - very happy for you. Make sure to keep us updated on how things pan out at work.
Title: Re: Full time: This is it!
Post by: iKate on May 08, 2015, 07:21:48 PM
April, you know I'm so proud of you, babe! I know it will go so well.
Title: Re: Full time: This is it!
Post by: kellypatrick on May 09, 2015, 06:59:05 AM
April Congratulations!!!!!I know it will go.
Title: Re: Full time: This is it!
Post by: iKate on May 09, 2015, 07:17:31 AM

Quote from: Jessie Ann on May 08, 2015, 09:56:13 AM
Congratulations  :eusa_clap: :eusa_dance: :eusa_clap:

I am right behind you and I will be going full time at work next month. I feel the same way you do about this site and the people here. Amazing isn't it!!

Good luck with your work transition you gorgeous and inspirational lady!!!

I will be full time at work in July as well. I'm so excited!

Unlike April, however, work is largely treating it like a non event. My boss will just send out one email and that is it. No town hall, nothing. I go get a new ID and change some official things and I'm done. I'm kind of cool with it being that way though. I just want to get on with life.
Title: Re: Full time: This is it!
Post by: Christine Eryn on May 09, 2015, 09:50:32 AM
Congrats on knowing when the time is right like I recently did!  :icon_flower:  It's one of those things that just needs to happen and you feel in your heart you can make it happen, and succeed.
Title: Re: Full time: This is it!
Post by: LizMarie on May 11, 2015, 04:05:44 PM
Congratulations, April!!
Title: Re: Full time: This is it!
Post by: traci_k on May 11, 2015, 04:12:22 PM
Congrats - hope things only get better and better!
Title: Re: Full time: This is it!
Post by: Eveline on May 11, 2015, 04:30:55 PM
Wonderful news, April!

(hugs)
Title: Re: Full time: This is it!
Post by: awilliams1701 on May 11, 2015, 04:39:37 PM
congratulations living full time is such a HUGE relief.
Title: Re: Full time: This is it!
Post by: acd_92 on May 11, 2015, 05:18:49 PM
This is so amazing lovely! I am so, so happy for you! Wishing you nothing but the best at work!!!
Title: Re: Full time: This is it!
Post by: cassieohpia on May 11, 2015, 06:23:08 PM
I truthfully read more than I post April but...

Yay! It's great news.

Hope you have a fantastic experience.
X
Title: Re: Full time: This is it!
Post by: Sophie Lou on May 11, 2015, 10:42:01 PM
Congratulations!!!


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Title: Re: Full time: This is it!
Post by: Jacqueline on May 11, 2015, 11:46:48 PM
Congratulations!

It sounds very liberating. I wish you all the luck and a smooth acceptance at work.

Sincerely,

Joanna
Title: Full time: This is it!
Post by: April_TO on May 12, 2015, 04:05:43 AM
Thank you so much ladies. I had a call from my manager and the HR director yesterday after the town hall and they basically told me that the train has left the station ;-) it's done. FYI, I have been off work since last Friday while the announcements were happening.

According to them, it went very well and no questions were asked while the announcement was being made. In short, we were all happy and im glad this step is over.  :-)

Again, my utmost appreciation to this community. Without you ladies, I can never do it.

Love,

April


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Title: Re: Full time: This is it!
Post by: kittenpower on May 12, 2015, 04:36:29 AM
Congratulations; I'm very excited and happy for you  :)
Title: Re: Full time: This is it!
Post by: katrinaw on May 12, 2015, 04:36:38 AM
Quote from: carmenkate on May 08, 2015, 09:14:48 AM
Good Morning/Evening Beautiful People,

I just want to share with you all that as I am typing this milestone, Senior Management at work are being told about my transition followed by a town hall this Monday and Tuesday to inform everyone about the correct guidelines dealing with me. I cannot help but to feel emotional about this as this is the last step of getting my life aligned in all aspects socially.

I could not have done this without the support and help of this community. Your shares, experiences of triumph and challenges completely made me muster the courage to do it.

For that I am truly grateful. It does get better :)

Love you all!

April

Sorry for being late to this  :-*

That's Wonderful news April... so elated for you

Quote from: carmenkate on May 12, 2015, 04:05:43 AM
Thank you so much ladies. I had a call from my manager and the HR director yesterday after the town hall and they basically told me that the train has left the station ;-) it's done. FYI, I have been off work since last Friday while the announcements were happening.

According to them, it went very well and no questions were asked while the announcement was being made. In short, we were all happy and im glad this step is over.  :-)

Again, my utmost appreciation to this community. Without you ladies, I can never do it.

Love,

April

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And all handled so smooth and professionally... what a great place to work

Well I bet your looking forward to your return to work... I would be!

L Katy  :-*

Ps.. such a beautiful Avatar
Title: Re: Full time: This is it!
Post by: BeingSonia on May 12, 2015, 06:55:12 AM
Congratulations!

That needs some guts!

I'm still trying to find mine...
Great inspiration!
Title: Re: Full time: This is it!
Post by: Mariah on May 12, 2015, 06:57:38 AM
Congrats April, It's wonderful to hear everything went well. Hugs
Mariah
Title: Re: Full time: This is it!
Post by: Dodie on May 12, 2015, 07:05:48 AM
Just saw your post this morning!
So so happy for you!
Enjoy...... The rest of your life!
Dodie
Title: Re: Full time: This is it!
Post by: April_TO on May 12, 2015, 12:24:25 PM
Thanks again my beautiful friends, however I must say we will miss you Dodie - you are indeed living the life we all dream about :)

We want you back!

Love and Respect,

April
Title: Re: Full time: This is it!
Post by: Dodie on May 12, 2015, 02:32:55 PM
Hi Carmenkate,
I am back.. Susan and others like you filled my heart..
So thank you so much.... If you ever need to talk PM me anytime.. I am an open book ..
Also if you go back and read my first posts.. warning.. can be emotional.. you will see my growth.. It was not easy... and I still have mountains to climb.. but I will make it.. we all can.
Dodie
Title: Re: Full time: This is it!
Post by: Jessie Ann on May 12, 2015, 02:59:49 PM
Congrats April!!

I don't think I will get near as much attention to the issues at work as you did.  I work in government and there was already an individual who transitioned at my work site a few years ago so everyone has already been through the educational process.  We are moving to a new building next month and so I will transition fully at that time. 

Hugs girl!!!!
Title: Re: Full time: This is it!
Post by: Alana_Jane on May 13, 2015, 09:51:08 AM
That's terrific news April.  I'm so glad your work transition is going so well.  I feel so lucky to have a sister like you, and all my sisters here. 
Hugs,

-Alana
Title: Re: Full time: This is it!
Post by: amber roskamp on May 13, 2015, 10:32:33 AM
Quote from: carmenkate on May 08, 2015, 09:14:48 AM
Good Morning/Evening Beautiful People,

I just want to share with you all that as I am typing this milestone, Senior Management at work are being told about my transition followed by a town hall this Monday and Tuesday to inform everyone about the correct guidelines dealing with me. I cannot help but to feel emotional about this as this is the last step of getting my life aligned in all aspects socially.

I could not have done this without the support and help of this community. Your shares, experiences of triumph and challenges completely made me muster the courage to do it.

For that I am truly grateful. It does get better :)

Love you all!

April

Congrats on this I'm really happy for you!
Title: Re: Full time: This is it!
Post by: April_TO on May 13, 2015, 07:38:12 PM
Quick update, today was my first day back to work after the announcement. It was nerve wracking!!!  I was so anxious as soon as I got into the office. However, everyone for some reason was extra friendly to me :) YAY. I even had a guy open a door for me LOL and what's weird is that this guy who I have a major crush on - even said Hi to me with a huge smile on his face. I gave him just a tiny bit of smile and continued conversing with some of my girlfriends at work.

All in all, it was a very good day. Unfortunately, I was told by my friends at work that there were two middle aged women who expressed their discomfort with me using the womens washroom (so predictable). They were basically told if you aren't comfortable using the washroom - you can go somewhere else to do your business.

A few of my girl friends at work will have a washroom date with me tomorrow. They will give me the full red carpet treatment using the women's loo for the first time haha.

Anyways, good night ladies.

Much Love,

April

Title: Re: Full time: This is it!
Post by: ToniB on May 14, 2015, 02:10:49 AM
Hi  carmenkate

I am glad things went well .after the first few days and things get back to normal You will settle into your new routine and if You are anything like Me find Working as yourself to be so much better. Just be the person You have always been inside and enjoy it .As to the two women that are being funny it's their problem not yours as long as the majority of Woman accept You that's all that matters

Toni