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Community Conversation => Transgender talk => Topic started by: Nbj on February 02, 2018, 06:06:16 PM

Title: Gender discussion in school - how much knowledge is "normal"??
Post by: Nbj on February 02, 2018, 06:06:16 PM
Hey there,

so...my teacher announced that next week we're going to do a class on the topic of "gender politics". Which, while talking about it in class, will likely contain the topics of transsexuality/transgender as well...

Well, now my head's doing somersaults on the question of "how much is normal to know on this?" Because...I obviously should and want to take part in the discussions, at the same time i'm scared that i might out myself or at least draw attention if knowing too much out of the regulary.
You get what I mean?

So what's your opinion?
How would I feign "normal knowledge"?

Thanks for any help

Title: Re: Gender discussion in school - how much knowledge is "normal"??
Post by: Shambles on February 02, 2018, 06:13:34 PM
Just dont talk first, see what other peeps say and then add a bit onto it. You dont need to go into alot of detail to get a point accross
Title: Re: Gender discussion in school - how much knowledge is "normal"??
Post by: Dena on February 02, 2018, 07:49:55 PM
If you go over the line, you can always say somebody very close to you is transitioning so you leaned about it to help them.
Title: Re: Gender discussion in school - how much knowledge is "normal"??
Post by: flightlessbird on February 02, 2018, 08:13:46 PM
Is this grade school? Approximately what level? Don't know what school is like where you live, but the conversation could vary based on what level of the education system you're in.
Title: Re: Gender discussion in school - how much knowledge is "normal"??
Post by: AnonyMs on February 02, 2018, 08:25:37 PM
Personally, I'd say nothing.
Title: Re: Gender discussion in school - how much knowledge is "normal"??
Post by: Kylo on February 02, 2018, 08:34:56 PM
If in doubt you don't have to say anything.

(Kind of irritating how they insist on bringing gender politics into schools. It's one thing to discuss the facts of gender and transgender issues for informative purposes, quite another to politicize them.)
Title: Re: Gender discussion in school - how much knowledge is "normal"??
Post by: flightlessbird on February 02, 2018, 08:42:48 PM
Quote from: Kylo on February 02, 2018, 08:34:56 PM
(Kind of irritating how they insist on bringing gender politics into schools. It's one thing to discuss the facts of gender and transgender issues for informative purposes, quite another to politicize them.)

Ugh I feel this all too much (as I'm sure many of us do). Not only is it obviously unethical to politicize the existence of a people, but it also doesn't even make much logical sense...
Title: Re: Gender discussion in school - how much knowledge is "normal"??
Post by: Nbj on February 03, 2018, 03:32:00 AM
Quote from: flightlessbird on February 02, 2018, 08:42:48 PM
Ugh I feel this all too much (as I'm sure many of us do). Not only is it obviously unethical to politicize the existence of a people, but it also doesn't even make much logical sense...

Yeah, totally!

Quote from: flightlessbird on February 02, 2018, 08:13:46 PM
Is this grade school? Approximately what level? Don't know what school is like where you live, but the conversation could vary based on what level of the education system you're in.

A school close to university / kinda inbetween highschool and university. My classmates' age is everywhere between 19 and 29.

Quote from: Dena on February 02, 2018, 07:49:55 PM
If you go over the line, you can always say somebody very close to you is transitioning so you leaned about it to help them.

That'Sa  very good idea actually... defintely will keep that in mind.


Thanks a lot to all of you!
Title: Re: Gender discussion in school - how much knowledge is "normal"??
Post by: VickyS on February 03, 2018, 01:37:16 PM
Yeah, don't do what I did and talk about it ad-nauseum.  I have learned to reign it in now but if I hear anyone being transphobic or way off factually, I'll wade in and correct them which is not really the way forward if you don't want to out yourself. 
Title: Re: Gender discussion in school - how much knowledge is "normal"??
Post by: Nbj on February 03, 2018, 04:22:37 PM
Quote from: VickyS on February 03, 2018, 01:37:16 PM
Yeah, don't do what I did and talk about it ad-nauseum.  I have learned to reign it in now but if I hear anyone being transphobic or way off factually, I'll wade in and correct them which is not really the way forward if you don't want to out yourself.
Ohh.. Ouch. Thanks for the warning, I'll shut my mouth then, before leaping into correction and explication [emoji28]

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