Or does it look too cheap.
(https://i.imgur.com/5L6m4wz.jpg) (https://i.imgur.com/Xdp8lqZ.jpg)
Disclaimer: I have ZERO experience in fashion, but I think it's a pretty dress. :)
Quote from: AnamethatstartswithE on June 03, 2018, 07:19:56 PM
Or does it look too cheap.
(https://i.imgur.com/5L6m4wz.jpg) (https://i.imgur.com/Xdp8lqZ.jpg)
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A similar dress yes. There is nothing wrong with the length or the cut as they are fine, but then there are the big 2 rules of weddings, 1 never outshine the bride....yes sometimes that's impossible and 2, never wear a black dress, or all black suit, it's an omen of bad luck to the couple that the relationship won't last.
Quote from: kariann330 on June 03, 2018, 07:57:38 PM
A similar dress yes. There is nothing wrong with the length or the cut as they are fine, but then there are the big 2 rules of weddings, 1 never outshine the bride....yes sometimes that's impossible and 2, never wear a black dress, or all black suit, it's an omen of bad luck to the couple that the relationship won't last.
I'd never heard about not wearing black. I always figured that as long as I didn't wear a white gown I'd be fine.
are you in the wedding or just attending, because there is nothing wrong with it as a guess, the length seems fine and those shoes look comfortable lol. Anything more than a guess might need more frill dress lol but that would be the brides choice
Different cultures have various superstitions regarding what is appropriate so it could be an idea to check with a friend or family member of either the bride or groom
When I worked as a chauffeur I had a black tux, a grey suit and a navy blue suit so when I would drive a wedding party I would find out what they would prefer
This I learned to do after being threatened and told I looked like I was going to a funeral and I'd better "change or else"
Luckily I always had the three suits with me in case I had an airporter or dinner date to run afterwards
Every girl needs a LBD in her wardrobe. They are a classic and they do have their place, but not at a wedding. Try the same cut and style in a lighter and maybe a more colorful pattern. A printed fabric would be nice.
Take the opportunity to buy a new dress....or two. ;D
Hugs, Devlyn
Traditionally black has been taboo at a wedding but not so much anymore.
I think the four most important rules would be.
Don't outshine the bride.
Don't wear a color that the bridal party is wearing.
Don't have an excess of flesh exposed.
Never, ever wear all white unless someone is giving you a ring and you are speaking vows.
I think that dress is fine. Straight lines and an undemonstrative classic look that should fit in fine for most wedding unless the invitation mentions something more specific.
😁 No, it doesn't look too cheap. A less expensive dress worn well can outshine much more expensive ones. Maybe if it is formal I might pay a little more attention to the fabric than I normally worry about but that is about it.
Quote from: kariann330 on June 03, 2018, 07:57:38 PM
A similar dress yes. There is nothing wrong with the length or the cut as they are fine, but then there are the big 2 rules of weddings, 1 never outshine the bride....yes sometimes that's impossible and 2, never wear a black dress, or all black suit, it's an omen of bad luck to the couple that the relationship won't last.
My friend is getting married in a couple weeks and I was talking to her about how I haven't found a dress for it yet, and she actually suggested a black one that I recently showed her lol. Black is kind of my color, so it's most of my wardrobe! I'm still going to try and find a better dress but if I can't then I do have a black one I can wear
I think it's cute. Hair, jewlery and makeup will all add to the look here. I think your smile is the best accessory though [emoji4]
Also, the only thing if I can suggest is that your dress looks like it's tight around your hip. It could be your undergarment and not the dress. That's the only thing I would watch out for here, but I think if you love the dress then it's a great choice!
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Thank you everyone for the advice so far, I am just a guest so it shouldn't be too complicated.
I agree with some of the other comments. The dress is cute and looks good on you. It would be fine for a wedding if it wasn't black. Have fun at the ceremony.
With Love,
Noelle
I like it. Its plain but sometimes that is the attraction in a dress. I do agree that you should almost never wear black to a wedding. Only almost though eg. I'm maid of honour for my friend. She's a goth. Everyone will be wearing black. But also sometimes the "theme" might be black and white and they ask everyone to wear those colours. And sometimes, if a wedding has a bit more of a "business" feel to it then black is ok. The other option is to jazz it up with a colourful fascinator (I don't know if where you're from people tend to wear them to weddings), shoes and bag. A friend of mine looked awesome at a wedding (mine in fact) in a black dress, hot pink fascinator, hot pink heels and hot pink clutch.
Enjoy
Em x
I would wear that dress anywhere. However, given a choice for a spring/summer wedding, I would use the excuse to go for a light color print, the cut is great.
I think it works fine. Maybe i'd dress it up a bit with a bracelet and/or necklace and shoes or boots that have a bit of a heel. (depending on the formalness vibe of the wedding ) One thing that works in summer that i do quite often with a short dress is booties and slouchy socks. That sounds a bit hot perhaps, but with so much leg bared you should still say cool. It lends a sort of classy nerdiness to the outfit.
Personally i think the never wear black rule has gone by the wayside and in any event adding a shiny or colored accessory offsets the monochrome feel.
Quote from: kariann330 on June 03, 2018, 07:57:38 PM
A similar dress yes. There is nothing wrong with the length or the cut as they are fine, but then there are the big 2 rules of weddings, 1 never outshine the bride....yes sometimes that's impossible and 2, never wear a black dress, or all black suit, it's an omen of bad luck to the couple that the relationship won't last.
If it's an evening wedding/reception, Black is fine. Since it's almost summer, I would do a similar design in something of a floral print, tea length, but that's just me. I like that dress though.
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The black looks fine, but I guess a blue dress would be better for you.
barbie~~
Quote from: FinallyMichelle on June 04, 2018, 06:23:05 AM
Traditionally black has been taboo at a wedding but not so much anymore.
I think the four most important rules would be.
Don't outshine the bride.
Don't wear a color that the bridal party is wearing.
Don't have an excess of flesh exposed.
Never, ever wear all white unless someone is giving you a ring and you are speaking vows.
I think that dress is fine. Straight lines and an undemonstrative classic look that should fit in fine for most wedding unless the invitation mentions something more specific.
Used to be you weren't supposed to wear white unless you were a virgin. Women would often settle for an off white however today that rule is out the window and women with several kids many still wear white because they want the moment.
Quote from: AnamethatstartswithE on June 03, 2018, 07:19:56 PM
Or does it look too cheap.
(https://i.imgur.com/5L6m4wz.jpg) (https://i.imgur.com/Xdp8lqZ.jpg)
I love that black dress and honestly wear what you want that's what I plan to do it's my day no-one else's lol
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Quote from: Arianna Valentine on June 04, 2018, 07:57:06 PM
I love that black dress and honestly wear what you want that's what I plan to do it's my day no-one else's lol
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Just to be clear it's
NOT my day, I'm just a guest.
Personally I like the dress and think it looks good on you, your makeup and hair look nice in those photos also :icon_chick:
Quote from: AnamethatstartswithE on June 04, 2018, 08:16:44 PM
Just to be clear it's NOT my day, I'm just a guest.
Oh ok lol well then as long as it won't outdo the bride your fine but you look very beautiful in the dress i think it would be perfect for a wedding
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for a spring/summer wedding, its usually best to rock some pastels or floral prints.
It's a nice cut/style that looks good on you but, black at a wedding (at least in western cultures)? No. I assume it's a summertime wedding? Something lighter colored, or even a darker colored red would do. No business oriented colors though.
@AnamethatstartswithE OK - don't know how I missed this post and I am way late on this - BUT the dress looks great and you look fantastic in it - the overall look is perfect - You look Fabulous Darling!
Sonja.
@AnamethatstartswithE .... so I see on another thread that you did indeed go to the wedding (as a guest) .... did you end up wearing the first dress that you posted in your picture... or a different dress??? Hmm, is there a photo of you at the wedding???
I am so very happy for you with your coming out announcements at your work, at the wedding, and on social media..... these are memorable times for you for sure. Congratulations !!!
Thank you for keeping us all updated.
Hugs,
Danielle
Howdy, some friends helped me pick out a new dress. It was black with white designs around it. I have a single photo, but it's not very flattering so I'd rather not post it.
Thanks for everyone's help with this.