As a mtf, presenting as female, have you ever caught anyone staring at your bust or rear-end? :)
Did you dislike that, like that, or never noticed that? Was it a guy or a woman who looked?
(I am not talking about women who look at you and your overall appearance and outfit as they walk by you.)
I cannot say that I have caught anyone doing this. They mostly look at my face then may quickly glance all over. I am not sure how I would react if this ever happened. I suppose it may depend on who did the staring! :)
Chrissy
Most definitely, and on numerous occasions. I pass very well from behind and have gynocomasty, with a decent B cup.
And all without hrt.
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Gynecomastia to being a B cup was one of the physical things that forced me to accept my gender dysphoria. I am now on HRT.
At this point I present as gender neutral... So what I usually see is the 'deer in the headlights question - is this a guy or a girl.' I'm happy with that right now.
Shoes & Jeans are feminine. The tops are usually collared golf shirts or t-shirts that could go either way.
Do I dislike it? No! At this point in my transition, I'm happy to leave people wondering.
(I do seem to play a lot with my longer hair though... ;-) )
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To be honest, i never even looked at other strangers close enough to see if the are staring at me or not. I am rather tall for a female (6' plus I like to wear heels of 2 to 3"), and all my friends are cis females who are not very tall. This means I am towering over them, and that might cause some people to star at me. I don't think it is my chest or my butt that makes them look.
I had one particular guy who used to look at my boobs a lot, he was the boyfriend of a girl friend of mine. When i caught him looking, I'd jokingly ask him if he was checking out my boobs, which he'd deny in great embarrassment. He's Turkish and a Muslim you see. We found out later that he'd had sex with several trans women, though he would always deny it. We found it out from a mutual friend who also had a thing for post op transwomen and was with him when they visited these women.(in my opinion, there's no important differences between cis women and post op transwomen, so his denial amused me no end.)
Interestingly, when I'm in girl mode, he can't bring himself to look me in the eye for very long, but has no problem when I present as male. I stopped teasing him in time as he treats me with respect for my religious convictions and intellect, and just ignore those times when I do catch him looking. Since he broke up with my friend, I don't see so much of him these days fortunately. He may respect me, but he certainly didn't show her the respect she deserves, as he raped and punched her several times before they went their separate ways. She's an absolutely stunningly beautiful woman with DD boobs, a nice big booty and the face of an angel, but she's also very intelligent and headstrong (typical Leo) so he couldn't control her every move and would get extremely frustrated and aggressive toward her when he didn't get his way. Providing I wasn't around too, mind you. He wouldn't have dared treat her like that if I was anywhere nearby. Gutless coward.
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Mostly, people ignore me. I do occasionally notice someone staring in a restaurant, and it is my face that they stare at. Obviously, in a seated position, there's not much else to stare at.
But I think it is also that my boobs and butt are not stare-worthy. Personally, I think they are kinda cute, but there's not that much there. THere are usually many more stare-worthy figures in any crowd than me.
I was in a queue at the checkout & noticed a young guy peering down my top. I'm a 40B & was wearing a low cut white long sleeved t shirt & jeans. It wasn't ti I got home I realised I'd gone out with no bra, in a rush to catch the supermarket before it closed!
I've had cat calls coming and going. Sometimes I encouraged it by smiling and putting in a little extra wiggle passing by and sometimes I ignored it. It really depended on if the guy was cute or not and if he was being rude or obscene.
There have been men driving down the road while I'm walking that I have noticed checking me out. One did so for so long he rear ended a taxi in DC when I was working in GWU. I guess that day I was mayhem. It has been encouraging to see that I'm starting to get this attention again as I lose more weight.
I posted this in another thread last year:
Quote from: Devlyn on January 28, 2018, 02:33:24 PM
I was clearly recognized as transgender by three young men on a bench in Boston Common last summer.
Guy 1: Hey, hey, check this out!
Guy 2: Woah....
Guy 3: Bitch got some ->-bleeped-<-!
I took it as typical male comments from three guys who probably aren't afraid of a girl with a penis. 50 years of being a guy taught me I don't have to worry about three kids on a bench. I found it validating and amusing, a little exciting, honestly.
Hugs, Devlyn
When I first arrived in my new small town as a Full-time woman and stated my woman owned small business it was obvious to everyone that I was a newcomer.... especially at the next door coffee shop near my office (the coffee shop tends to be the town gossip greet and meet center.)
Everyone, men, women, old and young were checking out the new arrival blonde hair/blue eyes woman. I made a point of being my normal friendly and talkative self because I wanted to fit in quickly.
To the point of this thread I had men and women staring at my boobs, my legs, my butt, etc.... made me feel quite self-conscious at the time.
I quite quickly developed a lot of new friends and several male and female suitors.... a very new experience being the "HUNTED PREY" and in most cases very enjoyable. There were a few creepy and unacceptable suitors that I had to drop off of my list for various unpleasant reasons.
All in all, being the object of desire is a big learning curve.
Hugs.
Danielle
Yes. It's always been guys who do it though. I've had guys who seemed to talk to my boobs rather than my face. My boobs aren't even that big. Lol. And a couple of Tyler's friends used to stare at my boobs and my butt all the time. But then his friends stared at me in general after I started to transition. I guess it fascinated them.
Mostly in the summer with tank tops or at the lake in a bikini, I have perky B boobs that look bigger since I'm thin, it doesn't bother me though since guys are looking at all the other girls anyway 😉
Last summer I went to the lake with my adult sons, daughter in law, and several of their friends. My son's best friend was aware that I was transitioning but hadn't seen me in a year and a half. As I came down to the water's edge, I noticed him stop and stare. After a good thirty seconds, I finally said "Yes Rick, I have boobs. It happens when you take hormones." I just smiled and laughed a little. He got super embarrassed, which made it all the more humorous. Everyone got a good chuckle, as he is known for being obsessed with boobs. (Name changed for his protection)
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This reminds me of the shirt that has an upward pointing arrow that says "My Eyes are up Here."
Chrissy,
Yes. I work at a University in the facilities maintenance department, and I still present as male at work. I some times go to the gym when I have free time, and I ride the exercise bike. I just remove my uniform shirt, which leaves me with a T shirt. I wear a compression bra, but there is some suggestion of my C breast even with the bra.
After my ride, I went up to male student worker to ask about gym hours, and he could not take his eyes off of my breast. He was not taken with my beauty. I think he was just amazed to see breast where he did not expect to see breast.
I did not challenge him, but I did think it was very funny.
Gwen
Tons of times. And surprisingly, it's usually women.
Quote from: BlueJaye on August 12, 2024, 11:14:20 PMTons of times. And surprisingly, it's usually women.
Yes and yes, mostly women.
When I'm out in a nice top and a padded bra, I feel pretty good so I'm usually smiling. When I catch a women looking I smile and they almost always smile back.
Yes and was mostly from men whom were attracted to me. One was with his girlfriend and he got a good smack in the back of his head from her. She did not like it at all and was not mad at me knowing I kept my nose out of it
Sometimes I get a small uplift when I notice someone doing this a little but this reaction is only when I think the other person is attractive. I cannot explain why.
Now if they keep staring, that can get creepy.
Most of time they can find others more interesting to eyeball regardless.
Chrissy
Yes, as my friends says, its part of been a woman
I get my cleavage and my behind stared out. I have D cup breasts, and I love wearing outfits that shows a bit of cleavage or when I wear a tight pair of jeans, i get admired.
It funny sometimes, as the guys try hard not to make it obvious they are staring. I remember I was once at the beach and I got a drink and sitting enjoying it. I had a pair of shorts on, with my bikini top on, i got a funny feeling I was been watched and then I noticed this guy was having a good look at my cleavage, then he noticed that I noticed he was staring and then looked away.. I just laughed.
Quote from: noleen111 on September 18, 2024, 07:58:40 AMYes, as my friends says, its part of been a woman
I get my cleavage and my behind stared out. I have D cup breasts, and I love wearing outfits that shows a bit of cleavage or when I wear a tight pair of jeans, i get admired.
It funny sometimes, as the guys try hard not to make it obvious they are staring. I remember I was once at the beach and I got a drink and sitting enjoying it. I had a pair of shorts on, with my bikini top on, i got a funny feeling I was been watched and then I noticed this guy was having a good look at my cleavage, then he noticed that I noticed he was staring and then looked away.. I just laughed.
Guys seem to like to look at these parts. I sometimes would like to be noticed more, but I am not attracted to men. If I seem to get some attention in a good way that is affirming. It does not need to be a stare of course, but knowing that somehow that may be temporarily captivated. By what in my case, sometimes I wonder.
Chrissy
Well I do not have a body that could melt a cheese sandwich across a room.
An occasional glance this way is therefore nice to see.