So, I wrote awhile ago and I just thought I should give an update because everyone was so nice.
I have decided to stay with my transsexual lover, I found someone who truly loves me and will do whatever she can for me... why would I give that up? No one has ever been so good to me.
I also realized that sex is not that much of a factor for me. I love who I love regardless.
Although we have discussed not having children... I am not ruling it out completely, but I have a lot of time to think about that (I am only 19).
Ever since she came out my girlfriend and I have gotten closer everyday, how can this be such a bad thing?
So I just thought I should say things are going great. Sometimes it isn't as hard as I think its going to be, but I do still have some bad moments when I think I'm not going to make it. I've learned the best thing is to just try to stay positive and be honest because sometimes the outcomes surprise you.
I wish luck to everyone going through this. Just be patient and try to stay positive!
Good for you, Jocelynn. I'm so glad to hear that things are going pretty well for both of you. :)
Stealth
That is excellent advice. :) Just take things one day at a time.. sometimes the future can seem overwhelming, but I truly believe that love can overcome anything. Bad moments are only moments- they come and go, if you can get through them then you're solid. :D
[and, I'm 19, too! well, as of today, lol.]
^^ Happy Birthday, TamTam! Does Tink know? Cos she'll make you a happy bday thread if she does.
Stealth
Quote from: Jocelynn on October 13, 2008, 05:09:53 PM
Ever since she came out my girlfriend and I have gotten closer everyday, how can this be such a bad thing?
Just reading that makes me so ridiculously happy, especially since I know it is without a doubt true. Our relationship went from great to simply amazing. Things seemed a little uncomfortable at first, but now that it has kind of settled down I am immensely happy. I don't know what I'd do without her here to help me =)
Aaaaaw! ^____^ Warm fuzzy moment! :D