I was thinking of putting together a list (humorous) as an icebreaker as I navigate the dating world. Feel free to add to the list!
--leaves the toilet seat down
--will never need Viagra
--no worries about getting pregnant
--size is never an issue; if you don't like it you can choose a new one!
What else?
Jay
They can understand the female mind.
May be more tolerant for us women taking so long to get ready.
Can be more caring and understanding.
Janet
QuoteMay be more tolerant for us women taking so long to get ready.
Yeah right :P
Knows what a woman likes ;)
Can understand what a woman has to go through.
Supportive, caring, kind.. (Well some of us!)
Interesting thread Jay :) Jay
what jay said 'knows what a woman likes'.
knows the quickest way to get a woman off
- Knows what to say to "Do these pants make me look fat?"
- Knows what/where the clitoris is
- How many bio-guys you know have a vibrating dick? :laugh:
Here's a serious reason for gay/bi guys dating transguys: no adoption necessary! (I mean it! I am so having babies when I get married.)
OK I keep coming back to this thread thinking I will have something useful to add and I can come up with really nothing, other than what has been listed.
I guess I can help with clothes shopping (I am a Nordstroms addict)
Do know the right buttons to push in a good and bad way
Still working on the do these clothes make me look fat one, why do people ask questions they don't want an honest answer too?
Myles
Why? :o
Only a man would ask why. There goes any hope that Transguys are any improvement on the Bio variety! ;D
For me, it would a lot easier when came to the talk. When he says 'I am Trans', my reply would be 'Really? Me too, but the other way"
Janet
Quote from: Janet Lynn on March 25, 2009, 12:30:10 PM
They can understand the female mind.
May be more tolerant for us women taking so long to get ready.
Can be more caring and understanding.
Janet
they can understand the female mind? i can't, not in the slightest.
more tolerant for women taking long to get ready? nope.
more caring and understanding? just as much as the typical bio-guy. ;)
(i only speak for myself here)
"
size is never an issue; if you don't like it you can choose a new one!"
so true, jay.
bio-guys only have one penis... we can have an assorted variety. >:-)
We understand the female hormone cycle and won't begrudge a woman for feeling pissy.
Quote from: Osiris on March 25, 2009, 07:22:14 PM
We understand the female hormone cycle and won't begrudge a woman for feeling pissy.
What a huge lie!! :laugh:
Quote from: Janet Lynn on March 25, 2009, 12:30:10 PM
They can understand the female mind.
May be more tolerant for us women taking so long to get ready.
Can be more caring and understanding.
Lies and stereotypes.
That "thing" its more clean and can come in assorted flavors.
I was hoping T would make me more tolerant of how long it takes my partner to get ready! (haha)
Myles
Can provide a woman sanitary supplies in case of an "emergency"
Don't have to worry about scratchy facial hair
Of course, with testosterone these advantages will disappear. Oh well.
Quote from: Osiris on March 25, 2009, 07:22:14 PM
We understand the female hormone cycle and won't begrudge a woman for feeling pissy.
Nope. Just nope.
Quote from: Nichole on March 25, 2009, 07:29:15 PM
What a huge lie!! :laugh:
hey it's all I could think of. :P
Gentlemen,
You are more so able to understand a woman's mind better than your bio brothers. You were stuck in the wrong gender for so long, where as your bio brothers have absolutely no knowledge of what goes thru a woman's mind.
You have always been a man, as I have always been a woman, but we both have been in the unique position of being on the other side of the looking glass. And that gives us a special look into a man's/woman's world.
We may still say "Why the hell is she/he doing that?", but we can also say "I was never like that". Does that make any sense? ??? Or am I just being a dumb broad again. Sorry girls, but I have been called that by my friends some times when I don't make sense. Don't kill me. OK?
And maybe you will all be like most guys and ask " What the hell is taking you so long to get ready?", but when we are ready you say "Damn woman. You're looking GOOD". Humf. That is what takes us so long, to look good for you.
Many of my sisters will disagree with me, but I want to look Hot for my SO.
And don't worry Osiris, I am catching heck for my comments too. But I still love you guys. ;)
Janet
Quote from: Janet Lynn on March 26, 2009, 01:41:38 AM
Gentlemen,
You are more so able to understand a woman's mind better than your bio brothers. You were stuck in the wrong gender for so long, where as your bio brothers have absolutely no knowledge of what goes thru a woman's mind.
You have always been a man, as I have always been a woman, but we both have been in the unique position of being on the other side of the looking glass. And that gives us a special look into a man's/woman's world.
Janet
Er, that's a contradiction in terms! IMO they probably have even less knowledge than a genetic male, I certainly haven't a clue as to what men think.
Always put it this way: It's like watching people play cards, one recognises the individual cards for what they are but as for the game one has never seen it before...
I still believe in what I said and this will be my last post here. I am sorry that point was misunderstood, but I stand by it.
Janet
Quote from: Andrew on March 25, 2009, 04:15:37 PMHere's a serious reason for gay/bi guys dating transguys: no adoption necessary! (I mean it! I am so having babies when I get married.)
Yikes, I'm gonna have to disagree with this one.
Quote from: Janet Lynn on March 26, 2009, 11:37:23 AM
I still believe in what I said and this will be my last post here. I am sorry that point was misunderstood, but I stand by it.
Janet
I agree with you. A lot of transguys will deny they have anything to do with women. They're just trying to protect their ego. :/
Hmm...
Is likely to have the sex drive of a three-horned rhino coupled with no danger of premature ejaculation.
Also known as the Jackhammer Effect. ;)
I believe (won't use we here) I do have the advantage of understanding women better heck I've lived one for almost 40 years.
I just have to laugh about the getting ready thing because my partner and I are so opposite. When people ask me what I learned in the Marine Corps I say how to take a 30 second shower. I take all of 15 minutes to get ready she takes at least an hour sometimes more, but I have to say she looks beautiful when she's done!
I don't think T will void my mind of the time I spent as a women (or I should say pretending to be a women), and that knowledge will come in handy later. I am a pretty easy to talk to person and a good listener I am hoping friends will not think that has gone away.
Myles
Quote from: Leiandra on March 26, 2009, 12:04:30 PM
Also known as the Jackhammer Effect. ;)
*gasps You dirty girl! :P
Jay
Quote from: Jay on March 26, 2009, 01:21:05 PM
*gasps You dirty girl! :P
Jay
Only on the night of a full moon. :P ;) :-*
Quote from: Leiandra on March 26, 2009, 01:26:23 PM
Only on the night of a full moon. :P ;) :-*
Oh thats how it is eh?
looks outside ;)
Jay
soooo true sooo true
The number one reason to date a transguy is that he smiled at me in the waiting room of the gender clinic and my heart jumped up out of my mouth and ran accross the room and covered him in hugs and kisses screaming "Marry Me! Marry Me!".
Or something like that... ;)
I was too shy to ask him out though. :'(
But there's always the next appointment, maybe we'll be synchronised again!
Quote from: Elwood on March 26, 2009, 11:57:49 AM
I agree with you. A lot of transguys will deny they have anything to do with women. They're just trying to protect their ego. :/
or some of us just really don't. ;)
aside from the body i was originally put into (unfortunately), i have nothing to do with a woman.
well, unless you count being romantically involved with them, of course.
Sometimes a woman will talk to a guy though if they think their talking to a woman lol... so in that way we can get some insight bioguys don't evn if we don;t entirely understand it, some of us might have heard from women what kind of things they like, don;t like etc.
After my last couple of experiences emailing women online, I think I'm done. They're cuckoo!
And I can say that because holy cr*p I used to be that way!! Estrogen is the crazy hormone!!
Run, dudes, run!!
Jay
(tongue in cheek and no offense to the ladies!)
Wait I am not cuckoo. Ditzy, yes. But not cuckoo. ;)
Janet
Quote from: Janet Lynn on April 08, 2009, 11:16:44 PM
Wait I am not cuckoo. Ditzy, yes. But not cuckoo. ;)
Janet
I work with a Russian guy and the rest are all women. He's right when he says he works in the Cuckoo House! (with a Russian accent, of course!)
Jay
Clothes swap?
Who wants mens leather jackets, mens sports coats, mens dress shirts....?
raises hand LOL
Quote from: sneakersjay on April 09, 2009, 12:11:28 AM
I work with a Russian guy and the rest are all women. He's right when he says he works in the Cuckoo House! (with a Russian accent, of course!)
Jay
I agree with the Russian guy ;) I have a simular situtation where I work. In a team of only 3 men including me.. Crazy stuff eh?
Quote from: Aiden on April 09, 2009, 02:09:53 AM
raises hand LOL
and what have you to trade kind sir?
Quote from: myles on March 25, 2009, 04:42:05 PM
Still working on the do these clothes make me look fat one, why do people ask questions they don't want an honest answer too?
Myles
Why? Because she wants you to lie, of course! Most women probably think they are 10x fatter than you think they are, so they don't need your objective opinion to enlighten them to the truth. They probably just want reassurance, esp that you find them attractive. and stuff.
About the understanding women stuff, I understand what men are like, being privy to their conversations when the women are gone (so they thought) etc. and I do have an understanding of what the experience is of
being a man (well enough to know I can't make it work for me at least.) I will never understand what the heck men think though. I am even still blown away by the things they sometimes say after all these years. This is, of course, me and my individual brain, but if anybody makes the assumption that I understand men just b/c I've attempted to live as one for so long, they would be horribly mistaken. Don't get them at all..
Um, and one to add:
No worries about bad aim at the toilet.
I don't have anything in common with women, and it has nothing to do with ego. My lady and I go out occasionally with another couple, who happen to be a FTM and a non trans woman (same as us). Our ladies get to talking about... well... just about anything, and my FTM friend and I sit there and look at each other like, "What the f.. are they talking about?"
Just this last week he and I stood in amazement at his wife's ability to calculate how many pounds of brisket and how many lamb shanks she needed for passover of 28 people in less than five seconds.
Just because we were socialized the same doesn't mean the same things stuck.
Quote from: Mister on April 10, 2009, 01:38:28 AM
I don't have anything in common with women, and it has nothing to do with ego. My lady and I go out occasionally with another couple, who happen to be a FTM and a non trans woman (same as us). Our ladies get to talking about... well... just about anything, and my FTM friend and I sit there and look at each other like, "What the f.. are they talking about?"
Just this last week he and I stood in amazement at his wife's ability to calculate how many pounds of brisket and how many lamb shanks she needed for passover of 28 people in less than five seconds.
Just because we were socialized the same doesn't mean the same things stuck.
Well, you're certainly not into group-think as you're own signature states. The binary crusader, praise the Lord. ;D
Quote from: imaz on April 10, 2009, 02:17:06 AM
Well, you're certainly not into group-think as you're own signature states. The binary crusader, praise the Lord. ;D
hahahaha, i understand other men just fine.
Quote from: Jen on April 09, 2009, 11:24:18 PM
Why? Because she wants you to lie, of course! Most women probably think they are 10x fatter than you think they are, so they don't need your objective opinion to enlighten them to the truth. They probably just want reassurance, esp that you find them attractive. and stuff.
About the understanding women stuff, I understand what men are like, being privy to their conversations when the women are gone (so they thought) etc. and I do have an understanding of what the experience is of being a man (well enough to know I can't make it work for me at least.) I will never understand what the heck men think though. I am even still blown away by the things they sometimes say after all these years. This is, of course, me and my individual brain, but if anybody makes the assumption that I understand men just b/c I've attempted to live as one for so long, they would be horribly mistaken. Don't get them at all..
Well said, I still get surprised regularly.
Quote from: Nero on March 25, 2009, 02:22:37 PMknows the quickest way to get a woman off
Off of what? :icon_blink:
Well said Jen.
I agree 100% with what you wrote.
Some things that guys say are well, well...this a very friendly family based community so I wont repeat what I have heard.
Since the similar thread I started was going nowhere fast, I'll just join this one. ;D
Transmen are more likely to remember your size, because it's not a totally alien system to him. (Depending, of course, on how old he was when he started buying from the men's department.) Though I'll still say that Men's sizes make so much more sense.
Transguys can get it up and keep it up any time without Viagra.
You'll never hear a Transguy say, "Oh come on, honey. You don't want to give me blue balls do you?"
Transguys will never be heard saying, "Oh, what's you're problem? You on the rag or something?"
Someone asked what's in it for gay guys? How about ...
If you go to a formal dance, transguys have already been taught how to follow. (Though that's always been a huge problem for me. I always want to lead. :D)
As mentioned before - you can comfortably accommodate anything from a virgin to a size queen.
Transmen usually look young for their age - a plus in the very youth-centric gay community.
Reasons NOT to date a Trans man....
Because no man should be permitted to know as much about female anatomy as they do. They have an unfair advantage, knowing all the right buttons to push. And they enjoy doing it. Repeatedly.
Your only defence is to use your knowledge of male anatomy on them....
Reasons To Date A Transguy
Umm, they are paying?
Quote from: Jamie-o on May 23, 2009, 07:10:37 PM
(Though that's always been a huge problem for me. I always want to lead. :D)
My partner's that way as well, Jamie. You and she can dance with me anytime! :laugh: I'd rather be lead! :)
I've always been attracted to males, and now I find that I'm slightly more attracted to transguys than others (well at least if I know they are, which is pretty much impossible unless they tell you :laugh:). Maybe it's partly because I feel a bioguy would be subconsciously judging me and using me only till he found a biofemale as a replacement, while a transguy would have a shared experience of transitioning who could understand and not judge my past, nor me his past.
If a fairy came to me one time to make me straight,my first desire would be to have a husband who was trans.Not only for the reasons which are said before. Just for this:
They can fixed a car and a cat!
Quote from: Inanna on May 24, 2009, 09:15:28 PM
I've always been attracted to males, and now I find that I'm slightly more attracted to transguys than others (well at least if I know they are, which is pretty much impossible unless they tell you :laugh:). Maybe it's partly because I feel a bioguy would be subconsciously judging me and using me only till he found a biofemale as a replacement, while a transguy would have a shared experience of transitioning who could understand and not judge my past, nor me his past.
Things like this are posted often all over the site.
Not all FTMs are interested in dating MTFs, FYI.
Quote from: Mister on May 24, 2009, 11:13:42 PM
Not all FTMs are interested in dating MTFs, FYI.
That's true,but in Germany i know a lot of FTM who want to date, at least at the beginning of their transition, MTFs.
Quote from: Witch of Hope on May 24, 2009, 11:46:37 PM
That's true,but in Germany i know a lot of FTM who want to date, at least at the beginning of their transition, MTFs.
Good for Germany.
Some people seek out others who have some basis in understanding them. Nothing odd in that. Others date out of status, "Oh look at what I can get." Others out of desperation "This is all I can get."
I still want to know who's picking up the tab, as I'm not a cheep date.
Well even if it is, 'a lot of' isn't the same as 'all.' Although I don't think that's what either Inanna or you implied.
Quote from: Witch of Hope on May 25, 2009, 12:07:51 AM
Isn't it the same in the US?
I know a couple MTF-FTM couples... 3, to be exact. counting the 2 on here. they're all in the us.
Quote from: Mister on May 24, 2009, 11:13:42 PM
Things like this are posted often all over the site.
Not all FTMs are interested in dating MTFs, FYI.
I wasn't aware I said that.
I understand plenty of guys, trans or otherwise, wouldn't like to date a MtF. I just said that it would be nice to date someone who understood the trials of transitioning, albeit from the opposite direction.
Sorry if I offended/disgusted you.
Sorry if I offended/disgusted you.
Oh don't worry honey, you'll find that offending/disgusting Mister is about as easy as falling off a log. At least you didn't use one of the 20,000 words that seem to be on his verboten list.
Quote from: tekla on May 25, 2009, 01:26:50 AM
Sorry if I offended/disgusted you.
Oh don't worry honey, you'll find that offending/disgusting Mister is about as easy as falling off a log. At least you didn't use one of the 20,000 words that seem to be on his verboten list.
Ha. It's actually quite difficult. Shall I explain myself to you again, Tekla?
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Quote from: Inanna on May 25, 2009, 01:24:20 AM
I wasn't aware I said that.
I understand plenty of guys, trans or otherwise, wouldn't like to date a MtF. I just said that it would be nice to date someone who understood the trials of transitioning, albeit from the opposite direction.
Sorry if I offended/disgusted you.
Not offended or disgusted. I understand what you're saying re: transition experience. But like I said, it's so prevalent on this site that the ladies are commenting that they'd like to be in a relationship with the guys but rarely do i see the guys saying they'd want to date the women. Hrmmmm...
I'm not really sure as to the cause of that disparity. Maybe it just boils down to the natural way men and women work based upon countless iterations of biology: women want one man to satisfy their one need, men want every woman to satisfy their one need.
I'm probably wrong, as I often am, but it sounds reasonable. MtF's would want to date a FtM because he understands what she went through and can empathize and all that jazz. But a FtM wouldn't necessarily want a MtF because there are so many other options available because that's just how guys think. Heck, there is one question that every man asks himself, whether he realizes it or not, when he see's a member of the sex he's attracted to: would I tap that or wouldn't I?
Women are like old carbureted cars in that you have to do a little fiddling with the choke and get a rich gas to air mixture but not too much or you'll flood the engine it turns on and once you do turn it on you have to make sure you don't let the revs drop too low or you'll stall.
Men are like fuel injected engines with an automatic transmission: just turn the key and you're good to go.
Alas I digress. Back to why one should date a transguy.
I guess they have a mechanical advantage in that you don't have to worry about an early finish (though they still might go out for pizza afterward and never call you)
...and another response that assumes that FTMs don't have sex with their anatomy.
Quote from: Mister on May 25, 2009, 03:00:23 AM
...and another response that assumes that FTMs don't have sex with their anatomy.
or finish early. >_> *embarassed*
Quote from: Josh on May 25, 2009, 03:30:43 AM
or finish early. >_> *embarassed*
Everything's changing so fast right now, dude.. it'll level off, you'll be able to predict your body more, change the angle up to prevent being a two pump chump.
Quote from: Mister on May 25, 2009, 03:00:23 AM
...and another response that assumes that FTMs don't have sex with their anatomy.
Well what else would you do it with?
Quote from: sneakersjay on March 25, 2009, 12:09:29 PM
I was thinking of putting together a list (humorous) as an icebreaker as I navigate the dating world. Feel free to add to the list!
--leaves the toilet seat down
--will never need Viagra
--no worries about getting pregnant
--size is never an issue; if you don't like it you can choose a new one!
What else?
Jay
I was trying to go with the humorous aspect of this based on the last point made here but it seems to be escalating into something else.
Quote from: Maddie Suzumiya on May 25, 2009, 04:16:02 AM
Well what else would you do it with?
Your post seemed to elude to the 'mechanical advantage' and absolute use of sex toys.
Quote from: ZoeB on May 23, 2009, 10:52:59 PM
Reasons NOT to date a Trans man....
Because no man should be permitted to know as much about female anatomy as they do. They have an unfair advantage, knowing all the right buttons to push. And they enjoy doing it. Repeatedly.
Very True. ;)
Quote
Your only defence is to use your knowledge of male anatomy on them....
Now that is a whole different kettle of fish!
Jay
Ah, I didn't mean it in terms of sex toys. Mechanical advantage just comes from me playing DnD and building characters in terms of game mechanics to gain a "mechanical advantage" rather than just making their personality interesting. I used mechanical (probably should have said physical) rather than psychological advantage with regard to what you can do physically rather than saying "Well y'all understand the way a woman's mind works" which would imply something worse entirely.
A lot of the time insult stems from a lack of clear communication. I hope this clarifies everything.
Transguys know more than "normal" guys,what is good for womens bodies. And they are more understandable about the "curse" women have, than "normal" men. This is one reason why I would prefer a Transguy if I was not a wonderful dyke.
Quote from: Mister on May 25, 2009, 02:02:30 AM
Not offended or disgusted. I understand what you're saying re: transition experience. But like I said, it's so prevalent on this site that the ladies are commenting that they'd like to be in a relationship with the guys
Well the topic was about reasons to date a transguy. I could've mentioned I'm currently in a relationship with a (cis)girl or that I'm bi, but that'd be off-topic.
Quotebut rarely do i see the guys saying they'd want to date the women. Hrmmmm...
I don't know if you should interpret being open to the idea the same as actively wanting to be in a relationship. If I was single and looking to be in a relationship with a guy right now, him being trans would naturally seem like a small plus, just like being with a transgirl would be for the same reason. Though not more important than their personality or anything...
QuoteI don't know if you should interpret being open to the idea the same as actively wanting to be in a relationship.
I was doing nothing but providing commentary on the trends I see both on this board and formerly IRL before I severed my involvement with the trans community.
before I severed my involvement with the trans community.
Gee, what did they do? (and where can I get some)
Quote from: tekla on May 26, 2009, 01:48:15 AM
before I severed my involvement with the trans community.
Gee, what did they do? (and where can I get some)
They didn't do anything. I went stealth. If you want rid of me, put me on ignore.
Hmm, I guess I'm still relatively new to the trans community then, because I haven't seen too much of that. I'd have thought it the other way (since after srs mtfs can have normal.. you know... with cisguys). Sorry then to have contributed to the stereotype. :-\
Quote from: Inanna on May 26, 2009, 02:00:43 AM
Hmm, I guess I'm still relatively new to the trans community then, because I haven't seen too much of that. I'd have thought it the other way (since after srs mtfs can have normal.. you know... with cisguys). Sorry then to have contributed to the stereotype. :-\
My personal opinions don't qualify as stereotypes.
but FYI--- I have plenty of normal.. you know... with my cisgendered lady. that's a stereotype i'd like to see fall by the wayside.
So, back to the original topic ... Ahem!
Another infamous thread that is currently going on these boards gave me another idea for the list:
Nobody's likely to gag when giving an FtM a BJ. >:-)
Quote from: Jamie-o on May 26, 2009, 06:04:21 AM
So, back to the original topic ... Ahem!
Another infamous thread that is currently going on these boards gave me another idea for the list:
Nobody's likely to gag when giving an FtM a BJ. >:-)
LoL Jamie!
Dennis
edited for truth.
QuoteNobody's likely to gag when giving a pre-op FtM a BJ.
Quote from: Mister on May 26, 2009, 10:07:55 AM
edited for truth.
Gee is there a new surgery that causes FtM's to ejaculate?
Dennis
Quote from: Dennis on May 26, 2009, 05:46:26 PM
Gee is there a new surgery that causes FtM's to ejaculate?
Dennis
stick your finger down your throat, dennis. did you gag? did your finger ejaculate?
Quote from: Mister on May 26, 2009, 05:47:53 PM
stick your finger down your throat, dennis. did you gag? did your finger ejaculate?
If that's your criteria than pre-ops CAN make you gag. My cock is 6" with a nice girth.
Got a bee up your butt or what?
Jay
Quote from: sneakersjay on May 26, 2009, 06:42:23 PM
If that's your criteria than pre-ops CAN make you gag. My cock is 6" with a nice girth.
Got a bee up your butt or what?
Jay
Dennis is the one who thinks the only thing you can gag on is cum, not me.
lol well as a transguy that's dating another transguy I would say that the best part is being in a relationship with someone that completely understands what your going through without a massive amount of effort to explain it lol
Quote from: Mister on May 26, 2009, 06:50:23 PM
Dennis is the one who thinks the only thing you can gag on is cum, not me.
Alright guys. easy enough misconception.
gag? amateurs. >_>
Quote from: Mister on May 26, 2009, 06:50:23 PM
Dennis is the one who thinks the only thing you can gag on is cum, not me.
Given I'm straight, not a surprising misconception. Sorry, never given a guy a bj.
Quote from: Dennis on May 26, 2009, 11:30:59 PM
Given I'm straight, not a surprising misconception. Sorry, never given a guy a bj.
neither have i. closest thing is many bouts with strep throat-- damn tongue depressors got me every time.
ENOUGH COCK WAVING! :laugh:
Ahem, back to our scheduled thread...
We don't take being men for granted. We are aware of what it entails, and what is expected of us.
We generally think for ourselves. We can see through societies BS... most of the time.
Unlike cisguys, most of us have the ability to distinguish between the BEIGE network cable and the GREY network cable ;)
We're flattered when you ask us to lift heavy objects, and more than willing to do it!
or is that just me?
Quote from: Teknoir on May 27, 2009, 12:15:14 AM
Unlike cisguys, most of us have the ability to distinguish between the BEIGE network cable and the GREY network cable ;)
LoL I like that one. ;D
And for the record, re:gagging - I was referring to the fact that most FtMs are lucky if they've got 4". And yes, Mr, I'm aware that you've got 4.
2. ::)
I could have said, "Most people won't gag when giving an FtM a BJ, unless he's had phallo, or asks you to suck his strap-on, or you're just plain grossed out by female parts." But somehow that looses something in the comic timing department.
Quoteyou've got 4.2.
Haha, $15k ago.
Ah, I feel like I just stumbled into a locker room.
And just like a typical group of guys the conversation has drifted off into a size comparison.
Would anyone care to borrow, actually have, a ruler.
You guys can have a contest.
Post the results in "Just for Us," if you wish.
I have this feeling that I am being bad again, then again have I ever stopped?
Mich'
Quote from: michellesofl on May 27, 2009, 10:21:05 PM
You guys can have a contest.
Post the results in "Just for Us," if you wish.
I have this feeling that I am being bad again, then again have I ever stopped?
Mich'
actually... >_> *runs to "just for us"*
Thanks Josh.. for the laugh, you made my day.
Lol. I have to admit, the idea of FtMs slapping them on the table is kind of funny. Sort of like watching 6-year-olds comparing their muscles. ;D
Quote from: Quicksand on May 27, 2009, 03:28:00 PM
We're flattered when you ask us to lift heavy objects, and more than willing to do it!
or is that just me?
Not just you. :)
This could be applied to any small guy but my gf has always liked being the 'big spoon' and now she's excited that she's finally dating someone small enough where it actually works lol. So for any girls who like being the big spoon I guess that could be a reason.
before people attack me, I'm aware that not every transguy is shorter than the average guy, but in general we're smaller
lol chamillion, i prefer being the little spoon, but me and my BF are the exact same height.
I've yet to see the results of the contest posted. >:-)
Typical men, real work arises and they run away, run away. ;D
Quote from: Josh on May 31, 2009, 04:04:35 AM
lol chamillion, i prefer being the little spoon, but me and my BF are the exact same height.
haha that works out good then, either of you can be the little/big spoon. my gf is only about an inch taller so it could go either way for us too, she's just used to dating taller guys so it was exciting i guess :laugh:
Typical men, real work arises and they run away, run away
I doubt it. Real work is the proof after all. Real guys have a word for those guys who run away.
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Typical men, real work arises and they run away, run away
Hmmm, I never recall ever seeing that borne out. "Typical guys" always seemed to like working hard: the sweaty, muscle-toning sorts of work. I've seen office workers run from work, all sorts of work, real and unreal.
Reasons to date a trans-guy: Hmmm, for some: Dennis, Nero, sneakersjay, and a few others? Because they're mature and decent guys? Yeah, that would work.
Soem of the rest? At the moment not seeing the difference in dating genetic guys, many of whom don't mature until they're like 86!! :laugh:
This has already been said but most transmen know how it feels to have a time of the month so they can relate to their gf when it's that time for them. Plus on a positive note for transmen a cis female partner can't tell they don't know what it feels like.