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Community Conversation => Transsexual talk => Male to female transsexual talk (MTF) => Topic started by: kelly_aus on July 26, 2010, 05:26:06 AM

Title: One of those days... :(
Post by: kelly_aus on July 26, 2010, 05:26:06 AM
I'm having one of those days.. I just feel really down and and wonder if it's worth it.. I was supposed to have gone to a local group tonight, which I was hoping would pick me up a little, but my mum had a car accident and needed my help with the aftermath, so I didn't get to go.. She's not injured, just quite shaken up.. Yesterday I was fine.. Today I find myself deep in the pit..
Title: Re: One of those days... :(
Post by: justmeinoz on July 26, 2010, 08:03:44 AM
Don't beat yourself up, a car accident is pretty scary for the rest of the family.
My ex and kids were in on crash while we were still together, and it took them quite a few days to get over the shock.  I was pretty shaken up too, even though I wasn't involved.
Don't worry if it takes a few days to get back to the level you were yesterday. Hugs to all , Sandra.
Title: Re: One of those days... :(
Post by: spacial on July 26, 2010, 09:45:25 AM
So, you're sacrificing your own pleasure for the sake of someone else, who needs you.

More importanly, your sacrificing your own pleasure for your mum.

Well, I don't know how good that makes you feel, but it sure makes me feel good that I can share this world with someone like you.
Title: Re: One of those days... :(
Post by: kelly_aus on July 26, 2010, 10:13:54 AM
Quote from: spacial on July 26, 2010, 09:45:25 AM
So, you're sacrificing your own pleasure for the sake of someone else, who needs you.

More importanly, your sacrificing your own pleasure for your mum.

Well, I don't know how good that makes you feel, but it sure makes me feel good that I can share this world with someone like you.

My mum is my best friend.. I'd do anything for her..
Title: Re: One of those days... :(
Post by: cynthialee on July 26, 2010, 10:35:15 AM
You would do so for mom....but would mom return the favor?
Title: Re: One of those days... :(
Post by: kelly_aus on July 26, 2010, 10:49:26 AM
Quote from: cynthialee on July 26, 2010, 10:35:15 AM
You would do so for mom....but would mom return the favor?

Without question.. We didn't have the best relationship when I was younger, mostly my fault due to a drug habit, but now have a bond that seems unshakable..
Title: Re: One of those days... :(
Post by: cynthialee on July 26, 2010, 10:55:47 AM
An unshakeable bond can probably survive transition. Dontcha think?