I am aiming to be normal-thin weight one day( 135 at 5'7 in 10 months), I'll be 19 then.
I want gay men to be turned on by me basically, since I am still a guy then.
Which hairstyle will make them look at me the moment I walk into a night club, envision that, with the least effort.
this? (https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.czechboys.com%2Ffhg%2Fmodel%2Fbeautiful-blond-european-boy-1.jpg&hash=385b970b13565e3a02cbe9205a354e6edb428905)
or this?
(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2F3.bp.blogspot.com%2F_0NhdcMdhvWs%2FS78Je6CmUOI%2FAAAAAAAAS-s%2FGeCqHWNPwJI%2Fs1600%2F40163543128ac65120e0o.jpg&hash=ad83beb2fde3ed81dad89fe07150e7d4734eb5d9)
Depends on your face, hair type, body shape, etc.
Quote from: kyril on October 05, 2010, 11:59:50 PM
Depends on your face, hair type, body shape, etc.
well my hair is dk brown wavy, straight if dryish., face is kind of diamond-round, wide cheek bones narrow forehead, narrow chin. I'm 5'7, i have a long torso and short legs. I want to get that exact look if I aim for it.
I get called cute a lot of times by gay guys, and I look bad right now being 180 lbs so if i lose 40 lbs then i would look normal,
so I think the only way to become more attractive is to become cuter, to really emphasize it, like "if i am cute now, what would i look like if i tried looking cute" mentality. so that to means i should try to become cute...
yeah...
I am good looking by some gay men, I just want to drive them insane to another level like Megan Fox is to the typical heterosexual guy.
Well, if you have straight hair, the second pic you posted isn't an option (guys don't curl their hair, you can't do it and have it look the same as natural curls). The first might be fine, but it's impossible to tell without actually seeing you in real life. Go to a good gay stylist and do a cut/color consult. (Don't skimp - if you really want to look good, it's worth the money.)
The thing is, with being a gay guy, that copying someone else's look doesn't work - what gay guys are most attracted to is guys who know themselves, their own bodies, looks, and personalities, and how to take care of them and present them well. If you're going to be a gay guy (or pretend to be, I don't know what your gender situation is) then that's what you need to focus on: knowing and taking care of yourself.
Just for the record, we really don't care about hair, per se. Never met a gay guy who was turned on by hair. We like the way a guy's hairstyle works with the rest of his look - how it frames his particular facial features, how it highlights the cute little imperfections like a cowlick or a dimple. You need a good stylist to get it just right :)
Everyone's different, I don't think there is a general "we"; some men/women might care about hair for example, and some might not.
As for choosing a hair style Megan, I can't really help you there, I guess it just depends on what you want to look like and who you want to attract. Not every gay man will be attracted to the same thing. Which one do you like better?
Quote from: kyril on October 06, 2010, 12:25:16 AM
Well, if you have straight hair, the second pic you posted isn't an option (guys don't curl their hair, you can't do it and have it look the same as natural curls). The first might be fine, but it's impossible to tell without actually seeing you in real life. Go to a good gay stylist and do a cut/color consult. (Don't skimp - if you really want to look good, it's worth the money.)
The thing is, with being a gay guy, that copying someone else's look doesn't work - what gay guys are most attracted to is guys who know themselves, their own bodies, looks, and personalities, and how to take care of them and present them well. If you're going to be a gay guy (or pretend to be, I don't know what your gender situation is) then that's what you need to focus on: knowing and taking care of yourself.
Just for the record, we really don't care about hair, per se. Never met a gay guy who was turned on by hair. We like the way a guy's hairstyle works with the rest of his look - how it frames his particular facial features, how it highlights the cute little imperfections like a cowlick or a dimple. You need a good stylist to get it just right :)
Well, I am almost pretty sure I am mtf, but I want to be gay guy so I could see how it would be like in a relationship with a guy, and I want to attract them. I just want to look good to guys; the gay guys since that's the only guys a guy can get.
I know hair isn't the most important thing, but it's really important, it can make a person look really different sometimes, especially drastic changes. And these guys will never know what I look like now, so first impressions really matter the most.
I'll go with the blonde one then... since I think that's more easier to accomplish.