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Title: My fist in your face.
Post by: emoboi on January 31, 2011, 06:19:19 PM
I really wanna hit something/someone. I get so angry sometimes. I Just want to hit and be mean to things. If only I had a mannequin...
Title: Re: My fist in your face.
Post by: Sarah Louise on January 31, 2011, 06:21:58 PM
That's a good way to break your hand, punch a pillow instead.  If you have to punch anything.
Title: Re: My fist in your face.
Post by: emoboi on January 31, 2011, 06:23:52 PM
Well, punching a pillow isn't satisfying.
Title: Re: My fist in your face.
Post by: CaitJ on January 31, 2011, 06:26:19 PM
Quote from: Sarah Louise on January 31, 2011, 06:21:58 PM
That's a good way to break your hand, punch a pillow instead.  If you have to punch anything.

Word. I've had a couple of boxer's breaks and they're not fun  :(
Title: Re: My fist in your face.
Post by: Shang on January 31, 2011, 06:40:34 PM
Hitting anything isn't really an effective method of coping with anger because what happens if you that have the thing that you hit and only have another person or an animal?  (At least that's the line I've seen psychologists use.)

I recommend running and/or swimming.
Title: Re: My fist in your face.
Post by: emoboi on January 31, 2011, 06:41:25 PM
But someones stomach or face wouldn't break my hand.
Title: Re: My fist in your face.
Post by: emoboi on January 31, 2011, 06:42:17 PM
Or working out my fat ass.
Title: Re: My fist in your face.
Post by: CaitJ on January 31, 2011, 06:43:17 PM
Quote from: emoboi on January 31, 2011, 06:41:25 PM
But someones stomach or face wouldn't break my hand.

Faces quite often break hands actually, hence the term "boxer's break".
Faces have skulls under them, which are made of bone  :)
Title: Re: My fist in your face.
Post by: emoboi on January 31, 2011, 06:54:04 PM
Really...all this time....  ???
Title: Re: My fist in your face.
Post by: LordKAT on January 31, 2011, 11:22:50 PM
Get one of those stupid clowns with the sand in them that don't stay down.
Title: Re: My fist in your face.
Post by: spacial on February 01, 2011, 05:57:52 AM
I feel like that sometimes.

A number of years ago, I joined a Karate club. There, I learnt to channel energy to create power.

And a plus is, that, once it's released, I feel both exhausted and a short high.
Title: Re: My fist in your face.
Post by: LordKAT on February 01, 2011, 10:02:11 AM
Quote from: Lance M. on January 31, 2011, 11:24:35 PM
i tend to have those thoughts a lot lately too, it just seems people need to be accountable for their ->-bleeped-<- and a punch in the face definitely sends the message loud and clear. :P

It tends to get you in more trouble then send an acceptable message.

Quote from: spacial on February 01, 2011, 05:57:52 AM
I feel like that sometimes.

A number of years ago, I joined a Karate club. There, I learnt to channel energy to create power.

And a plus is, that, once it's released, I feel both exhausted and a short high.

This is probably much better advice than my clown or even a pillow. You get to be active and work out feelings without hurting anyone.