Okay so my wife and I were shopping for our new dresses for Pride weekend so we went to the mall. I was having a bad day and decided to dress more masculine. I just didn't wan to bother with getting all done up. So at the department store my wife and I found some dresses for her to try on. So she was off to the fitting room. After a few moments she came out and asked me to join her.  I did, but at fist I was a little nervous walking past the Department store employee. She didn't even give me a second look. So I thought great!

We then finished up and went to dinner. At dinner the server kept asking if you ladies need anything else or what can I get you ladies. I was beaming. Here I am in blue jeans, tee-shirt, hoody, ball cap and no make-up. I'm getting clocked as girl. So that's why the lady at the store didn't give me a second look. Now I'm passing with out even trying to pass. I thought this day would never come.
I told myself that when this starts to happen then I will go full-time. Not that I would have much choice. So I have set a date to go full-time.

For what started out to be a very crappy dysphoric day turned out to be pretty meaningful.

That sounds great!  I'm happy for you!!   

Quote from: Reagan on October 02, 2012, 07:57:21 AM
Now I'm passing with out even trying to pass. I thought this day would never come.
I told myself that when this starts to happen then I will go full-time. Not that I would have much choice. So I have set a date to go full-time.

For what started out to be a very crappy dysphoric day turned out to be pretty meaningful.

Congratulations Reagan! On setting a date, and on realizing that not only are you a woman every hour of every day, but that it is becoming obvious to the whole world. It sounds like if you wait any longer, people will just be seeing you as that beautiful woman with the mannish clothes and the male sounding name.

Me thinks someone had better stop pretending and blossom into the beautiful lady that she has been hiding

Nature does have a way of saying 'go for it'

Thanks Ladies....


I've always been a bit of a procrastinator and it seem that it is time to let go and feel free to finally be free. That night my wife was kinda snickering at me before we he went out. She was telling me that there is no way you pass as a guy anymore (not that I really cared). She went on to ask me if I could find the male side in me anymore. I thought about it and we both looked at each other and laughed. It's gone, gone for good. We both are prepared for the finality of the transition and are welcoming it. She tells me now that she only see a woman when she looks at me now. We have been much happier and I can only see things getting better.

Good news all round then.  It's heartening to hear from someone whose partner truly does want to stay married  "till death do us part" and can see you and love you for who you are.

Karen.

Posts like this, always make me smile   

Thank you soo much!!

Jenny
OXOXOX