Things will change as much as T will affect your muscle growth, since in turn that increase the size of everything like tendons and ligaments etc. I don't personally have small hands by any measure, man hands always, but I get the disturbance it causes other guys. Just know that no one is the first. There are bio men everywhere who are ashamed of their size in every form that we are. Height, hands, feet, junk, whatever.
You might get crap, but just own up to it and it'll get easier. I get pretty high sounding when I'm overly excited (though still male and just gay sounding), I still talk fast like a girl, I talk with my hands all over the place, I still stand with my hand on my hip and only on one foot. I'm a man and it's embarrassing. In the end I'm no less male than anyone else.
Hope this helps bro.
