I used to dream very specifically an absence of physical sex, however a clearly female person.  These days I seem to dream as being female with physical female body, especially in regards to those fun intimate scenarios that tend to pop up.  What's frustrating however is that I experience a very real feeling of having specific anatomy (of which I do not have) being stimulated only to wake up to a "phantom" sensation like something is there that I cannot get to.  Extremely irritating.

In my dreams, I rarely notice my gender. Whenever I do, it's because the fact I'm male is significant in making the dream a bad one, or I'm feeling gender dysphoria in the dream. But mostly, I don't even know who I am in my dreams.

Mostly I am dreaming as me, so can't really see, but if I do see myself it is as a woman exclusively now.

Mine almost always starts out being male,but during the dreams there is something that I have to complete as a male before I "change" into a female. They always end as me being female.

Just like in "reality"
I just see what's happening around me, I'm genderless spectator

So since posting this thread, I have found this last week I have either been female or myself a a child (male) in all dreams.  I'm finding it interesting and hopeful that this change has occurred, like I 'm more "me" because of it 

A few days ago I had a very frustrating dream of being female, I was getting intimate with a man & all was good, I felt every sensation, every kiss, every caress but then he tried to enter me & couldn't.
I woke up very frustrated

I am still really early in my quest to find my true indentiy.
However, most of my dreams are as male, but I notis that when I am in a periode of deap questionning, it also reflects in my dreams.
This week I had two dreams where I was in the transitionning process.

But I remember a dream that '' chocked'' me, as I was a child.
I was about 5 or 7 ( don't remember exactly) and I dreamed that I was in a special playground with a magic Slide.
All the kids where climbing the slide genderless and sliding down eiter boy or girl.
When my turn came, I slided and became a boy, but I was then frustrated in the dream and trying to climb back to become a girl...
Well That is maybe my earlier recall of gender questionning.
I never spoke about it to my mother at that time and since, but I still remember this dream very vividly.

An other one was when I was older, maybe 12 or so, I dreamed of being with my brother but I had female genitalia, the fealling I had was really great, I felt amaizing.

I haven't dreamed in months.. I don't remember ever having a gender in dreams, except for once where I dreamed I physically transitioned in about 10 seconds..

I realized that in dreams I have feminine voice I want and can squeak like a girl  that is only difference I have in dreams from this

It doesn't matter at all. We normally dream about friends and family, but what the dream message is trying to tell us is to look out for how you would label that friend and put yourself in their shoes. For example, if you have a friend who is usually a bit of a clown, always playing jokes, then usually the dream is pointing to the funny side to us (the dreamer) If you want to remember your dreams every morning, simply place a notebook and pencil by your bed and maybe write a question, after about 4 or 5 days you will be dreaming every morning always. You have to write down the dream within seconds of waking up. The hardest part is to understand the dream, because the message is coded. The dream books don't help much, because we are all different. You may dream of a snake, but the message won't be the same for someone who loves snakes, to someone who is petrified by them. As a quick guide if you dream of walking, driving, and transport, this usually refers to how your going in life. A train is fixed, so is more of a destiny. A bus is more sociable, while if someone is driving you in your car, then it means that they are controlling you. etc etc.

I am either my female self, or in the form of a female spirit watching my female self...

Prior to HRT in most of my dreasm i was not aware of being of any gender; however there would be this recurrent dream in which I was in a room with alarge mirror, naked, and when I look in the mirror I saw myself as a very voluptous woman, and I was like in extatic with joy.

After HRT I have not had that dream anymore, but I had dreams in wich I am a woman, myself

a bit of both normally depending on what was going on prior to sleeping. I've also been a bicycle a few times haha

Few hours ago I had some kind of a "dream" - like between dreaming and awake. It was blurry in a way. The only thing I remember was having turned into a girl (no visual or anything). I just knew it and there was this happy - tingling feeling all over my body. It was obviously wonderful but when I woke up I tried not to look at any mirrors lol

most of the time I have been just a vague and generic "me" in my dreams, but a few months after starting transition I did start having more dreams where gender mattered, where I started wearing the proper clothes, and sometimes even having dreams where being trans was important to the dream's plot(such as for some reason having a dream where I am bitching out some transphobe).

but I remember a dream when I had just realized I was trans, a silly teenager who had become convinced that transition was not a thing that was happening, in which I had obtained a magical ice cream that granted wishes. I wished to be a girl, and when I was transformed, started crying in joy. my tears woke me up and continued under a more melancholic emotion, realizing it was not real.

Hi all
When I was little as in 5or6 I had a reoccuring dream that I was a female and I was one of the models on a fashion show but I had a plaster cast on my leg up to my knee . I am now 41 and I remember it as if it was yesterday . Today I dreamt that I was in the area that I have been for most of my life around everyone I knew but I was transitioning and going out full time and I was at a wake following a funeral but every one knew I wasn't a woman but they didn't know who I was but everyone was nice to me . That one had obvious meanings but was weird all at the same time . I never see myself in dreams unless I'm female

I didn't normally pay much attention before realizing that I'm trans, but lately I've been noticing that I'm either myself currently with male anatomy, or how I want to look when I'm older after HRT, except naturally like that

I am mostly an impartial observer in my dreams, or just me, I often can't see my body the action just happens in front of me. When I was deeper in the closet and full of self loathing I had regular nightmarish dreams of being male. I would often be confined in some prison/military type situation and would often be forced to hurt others and myself. As I have worked on myself though those dreams turned to escape dreams where a guy, me kinda, is sacrificing himself to free a woman, definitely me. Those were pretty good. Over this past year or so of moving to total self acceptance I have had more dreams where I am only one person and that person is a woman. I love those dreams. Although I still have stress dreams where I am endeavoring to fullfill my expected biological role, especially related to the current overcompensating fallacies that I want to shed so badly. I much prefer my work stress dreams. Those have no real gender issues, they're just about me accidentally damaging art (I work in a museum as an art handler) through incompetence or chaos!

I've been having dreams lately where I'm further along in my transition than I am in real life! But I think I've never really been male in my dreams.. just me.


Wait, strike that.. I distinctly remember a dream, when I was small, where I pulled my male parts off. lol! I think it actually distressed me just because the imagery was so graphic and weird. But I wonder if this was an early dream manifestation of my Gender Dysphoria..