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So I just came out to my boss...

Started by FTMDiaries, October 26, 2012, 10:23:06 AM

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... and his initial reaction was brilliant!

He was very supportive and he asked some good questions but wasn't intrusive or disrespectful in any way.

I've been working for the same company for more than five years now, and whilst they're by no means perfect (what company is?), they have been very accommodating and tolerant of people's differences. He assured me that I'll have the support of the entire company (or he'll want to know about it!) and that he'll do whatever he needs to do to make my transition as smooth as possible within the business.

He even said - get this! - that it would be good for the business if I were to transition, because he'll wind up with a happier, more settled person in my role. What a guy!

I'm feeling rather fortunate and grateful. If only it were so easy with my family!





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Brooke777

Congrats! That is so great. I am happy it went so well for you.
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wiigirl

Congrats!! :)

So happy (and jealous) for you!  ;)
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DrillQuip

That's great! You're so lucky. Your boss rocks.  :) Business owners need to take note.
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Julie1957

Wow!  What a great boss.  Good luck with your transition at work.

Lori
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malinkibear

Lucky you! My boss was the same. I told him on the first day of work that I was a pre-op transman and he just went "Huh? Okay, cool. Everyone, this is Harry". I've just been treated like one of the guys since day one :3
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Snowman77

Quote from: FTMDiaries on October 26, 2012, 10:23:06 AM
... and his initial reaction was brilliant!

He was very supportive and he asked some good questions but wasn't intrusive or disrespectful in any way.

I've been working for the same company for more than five years now, and whilst they're by no means perfect (what company is?), they have been very accommodating and tolerant of people's differences. He assured me that I'll have the support of the entire company (or he'll want to know about it!) and that he'll do whatever he needs to do to make my transition as smooth as possible within the business.

He even said - get this! - that it would be good for the business if I were to transition, because he'll wind up with a happier, more settled person in my role. What a guy!

I'm feeling rather fortunate and grateful. If only it were so easy with my family!

Congrats man!
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Lady Autumn

Congrats hon! Good luck with your family!  :)
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Paul

That's awesome!  Congrats!  I had the same reaction from one of my bosses.  I think she was more excited about my name change than I was LOL. Everyone at work has been great and I know if something happened they'd have my back.  It's nice having that feeling isn't it?
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FTMDiaries

Thanks for the kind words everyone!

I'm glad this is one area of my life that seems to be going reasonably well, and it's good to hear that some of you have had similar experiences. If only all bosses were so accommodating!





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