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Is therapy useful in TG?

Started by Melissa-kitty, May 13, 2007, 06:53:20 PM

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Lisbeth

Quote from: MeghanAndrews on May 24, 2007, 12:12:41 AM
That's the hardest thing about therapy I think, it's just the opening up part.
I know it was for me.
"Anyone who attempts to play the 'real transsexual' card should be summarily dismissed, as they are merely engaging in name calling rather than serious debate."
--Julia Serano

http://juliaserano.blogspot.com/2011/09/transsexual-versus-transgender.html
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jessicashel

Tara, I went to a therapist app 15 years ago. The doctor I went to dealt with this issue.Went app for two months Did it help me I would say yes.The questions he asked made me think about who I am and not why I am. I am know 60 years old and am somewhat happy about myself. I am at t6he point where I don't care what other people think if they find out. We have seven children and several of them know no big problem. You get out of therapy what you put into it.You need to come to your own decisions. :)
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J.T.

I went to therapy for two years before i discussed my gender issues with my therapist... it can take time.  There is no quick fix, but also what you get out of it has direct correlation with what you put in.  Opening up, especially about something that is "taboo", can be very hard.
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Kaitlyn

I went in to see someone basically for my TS feelings, and I actually was afraid that I would get sidetracked on 'other issues'. In the end, I did end up also confronting a lot of my personal concerns and problems, but many of them weren't unrelated to being trans. My therapist was no expert at all in gender identity, but he helped me a lot simply by being someone I could vent all my fears and frustrations on, and who would help me keep my problems in context. I had a bad tendency of withdrawing and trying to bury my problems at times, gender issues included. So, along with giving me the opportunity to figure my identity and desires out, he's helped me to sort out my life... if only by prodding me to keep asking myself tough questions.

If you really feel like you know what you need and where you're going, perhaps therapy isn't all that important. However, being trans, or even normal life, often involves personal and social issues that can cause a lot of stress. A good therapist can help you get over your difficulties, whether they're explicitly trans-related or not.
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