O K , the young man is simply a Cross dresser . So what that you live in a "Conservative " area. Hell, I live in the same imbocilic kind of a county , state , and neighborhood . Now I do admit , I finially got on HRT. My own son dosent wish to see me in any kind of female attire . I try and deal with his wishes as best I can . There are no easy answers and saddly, there will never be an easy outcome for you're son. ellen