Quote from: Aussie Jay on November 11, 2012, 01:49:05 AM
You're either in...or you're out - can't pick and choose.
I'll tell that to my trans buddy who takes finasteride and who has had a miraculous regrowth of lost hair. Or, for that matter, my cis buddy who has had the same success and who hasn't noticed any particular side effects. Or my cis buddy who manages his cholesterol with meds.
C'mon. You make it sound as if whatever happens to men is completely inevitable, and it isn't. We--trans and cis alike--have to accept that we
might not be able to fight certain effects of testosterone. That's a far cry from having to simply take whatever happens. Many of us have some options with certain effects. And many of us choose those options.
I went on finasteride a while back because I wasn't emotionally ready to deal with losing my hair. So I did "pick and choose," with regard to this particular characteristic.
My doctor and I discussed it. I told him that I would review my decision later down the road. I have, and I'm ready to stop, at least for a while. But I do not consider my hair loss inevitable or even irrevocable. I might go back on the same meds, I might wind up getting a hair transplant or buying a toupee (I doubt it), or I might go on whatever the latest med is that comes out in the next few years. For now, I'm content to go off the meds and see what happens. This is my current
choice.