Hi Jessica,
I've been through the resources page and haven't found any Endos in NYC. You may wish to Google Endocrinologist NYC and work your way through the list.
Dr. Meltzer will no doubt take you through some of the hoops and jumps you need to go through before SRS. These may include a prescribed time on HRT, living full time, Psychiatric evaluation, the list goes on. So as Beth mentioned, take a breath and seriously consider the direction you are heading in. Once you get to the "other side" there is NO coming back.
If you end up looking for a therapist/counsellor, go to the "Reference Library" found at the top of the page and you'll find a comprehensive list of therapists.
Be safe, well and happy.
Lotsa huggs
Catherine