Soooo... I'm about to go to see a friend that I'm out to. It's just going to be the two of us for Thanksgiving, maybe his boyfriend might come, but thats still unknown if he will , he's never seen me present as female before and I'm nervous as hell. I'm having a "do I look like a man in a dress" panic attack.

Should I scrap it and put on jeans and a joy division t shirt?