So Ive started to come out at work.  It has been easier than i thought it would have been. everone Ive told has had no problem and have started to treat me like the women i am.
It is great because i can be myself and not have to hide it anymore.

Congrats. I am glad it is working out for you.

My situation was quite similar.

Sure, there are a handful of coworkers who won't talk with or look at me any more. But the overwhelming majority have been just wonderful. There are even people who used to be merely coworkers and now they're friends.

It's great that you can be yourself and get acceptance at work! Congratulations!