I know that it's against the rules to derail threads, but y'all make it too easy.

Anywho, I have tried to maintain my cover (like a spy

) by hiding my more girly characteristics, and I must say that it's annoying! Having to think, "Is this manly enough?" 24/7 and always have to "correct" myself is just too much work, and I'm too lazy to accomplish it.
What I've learned by letting my "girly" side out more is that no one cares about how you act. If people know that you're a biological male and you look like a male and you don't let anyone know of your trans status, then guess what?: people will think you're a male. Same applies to you, just replace the gendered words to match your situation. My two cents.