you could what we here in the pacific nw USA do...every few months have a get-together with anyone who can make it...I know in our case money isn't a big problem, gas/bus fare/food has been covered for those who can't afford it.
it's not seen as charity, it's a "pay it forward" type of deal...we help you out this time, you help out someone next time. It's really fun to meet people from Susan's, lots of good people here.
<3 *hugs*