Thank you Anne and Jenny,
Neither of you have a long way to go before being able to face similar situations. That is the reason I post these things. Not for praise or anything, purely to show if I can do it you can.
I pass as female about as well as the average lamp post. I'm a female guy in female clothes with a male voice and belief in me. I wear very little make up during the day just basic foundation and that is it. OK I no longer need to wear wigs, I have had my grey locks coloured and styled.
I dress for my age. (sadly)
I exude confidence, even when I am SS. I never ever acknowledge being scared.
If I am in a situation that I feel uncomfortable with I will return to it. That I will explain: a number of woman in an area seemed to have problems with me. laughing and joking, but not publicly. I made damn sure I went to that department every day, in the end we even had morning tea/coffee together. I faced my fear. They faced themselves. Their fear was greater.
Both of you are very close to going the next step.
It is one foot in front of another.
That's all
Hugs Sisters
Cindy