Quote from: Alainaluvsu on January 06, 2013, 05:35:12 PM
lol is it THAT obvious?!

No, you are super feminine and beautiful, and I wish I were half, no, a quarter as good as you but I know from reading this forum that you are indeed pre-op.

Yall are really sweet

And thanks Tessa. Usually I handle men well and don't have to worry about when, if, and how to tell them but this was a weird situation!!!

oh ok. yeah that can be a problem if he is closed minded. but maybe he isn't. I guess you two could just be friends for a while and test the waters.

I don't know.  Y'all had a little flirtatious hug.  You enjoyed it.  He enjoyed it.  Probably should just leave it like that, otherwise you'll just be creating a ton of drama for no reason, right?

Personally, I only disclose my status before intimacy happens. By that I mean french kissing or sex.

It's a new role that you're learning and flirting is all part of it. To be seen as feminine and attractive is a good thing, I've only been full time for a short time and always welcome behaviour like this, because to be honest, most encounters stay just like this- one off encounters that bring a smile to your face, but are all part of the process of finding your new place in our world. It really is a second puberty we're going through.

I'm not a believer in restricting one's life until everything is perfect. I mean, when's that ever gunna happen?

Stay Safe,

OXOXO

Jenn

Quote from: Jenny_B_Good on January 07, 2013, 07:30:45 AM

It really is a second puberty we're going through.

I'm not a believer in restricting one's life until everything is perfect. I mean, when's that ever gunna happen?

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Maybe there is some way that you can find out what his attitude towards transgender gals is anyway?   It would tell you a lot about his personality and rather it would be a wise idea to tell him at all.   Also does he have a macho attitude toward life or is he more reserved and a bit of a thinker or is he quiet and shy or is he just straight up and friendly?   Also how much does his personality change when he is drinking.  Also before you say anything maybe find out how he acts when he is around other guys.   How does his personality change?    Does he stick to his own values or does he ape the crudest dude in the group.

  Sorry I grew up in an alcoholic family and I am kinda always trying to get the sense of a person,    Especially if I am going to tell him something personal about my life.